I've been dressing en femme for quite a few years and met many people from all the different aspects of the transgendered culture..and there are alot...lol. For myself, I've felt it's too late for the body modifications it would take to become female and I've learned to enjoy life as both male and tgurl*smile*. I have just as much fun and socialize as a confidant, romantic, passionate, straight acting man or a perfumed, soft, sensuous tgurl who will gaze into your eyes and steal your soul...lol. After all, I was married for 10yrs and love women in all they're crazy variations...and I lived with a pre-op transexual for a couple yrs and loved her deeply. I love to go out, dance, drink socially, non-smoker but don't mind those that do smoke, as far as SEX...*wickedsmile* I'm open to trying most things...I love to make my lovers cum over and over and over...lol. I'm more Domme than sub but don't practice any severe pain or messy scat, watersports, or crap...ewww..lol. I'm not a premium member(maybe I'll buy into this around Aug. or Sept.) so I won't be able to send or read e-mail sent to me. I'll just have to wait until latter this yr to hook up with all you sexy people...*kiss*