I'm a creative professional who is fun and outgoing. I try to enjoy life as much as I can. You only live once, so we might as well fill our time with amazing experiences. Im recently separated from a long marriage and think now is the time to act on all the sexual experiences I've always wanted to try. I'm not looking for a soulmate, but I'm also not looking for rushed one night stands. I would like to be friends with who I interact with and build an honest, trusting and open relationship that would open the door to more encounters to help when you or I just need someone to light up our day or night. And not all the encounters have to be sexual. Just hanging out or going to check out some music together is something I will always enjoy too. I would prefer to meet you casually somewhere you feel safe so we can both determine if we're a good fit. I'm not against an immediate encounter, but the sparks would really have to be flying. I'm a very honest and genuine guy who loves to please. I'm giving and have no ego when it comes to being instructed on how and what to do to make sure a woman is getting maximum pleasure and satisfaction. I'm a very good listener, and I'm patient and love to take my time with interactions to savour each moment, until you just can't take it any more. I'd love to hear about your fantasies and would be very happy to help make some come true in what ever way I can. I'm supportive and open to new ideas and pleasures. I'm not into chats with members from long distances away unless you might be traveling to Ottawa at some point and would like to build a relationship before getting here. If you have no intention to ever meet in person some day please move on to another profile. I mean no offence, I just don't want to waste each other's time.

My Ideal Person A woman, women or couples who enjoys life and tends to focus on the positive side of what the human experience is right now and have fun. Someone daring and adventurous, and like me, wants to keep things simple and make our time about being and feeling happy. Someone who likes to give as much as they receive and isn't into drama.

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