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sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
cyberstalking and cyber-harassment are crimes? - 4/2/2018

Do you know that stalking and harassment are abuse? Do you know that cyberstalking and cyber-harassment are crimes?

26 response(s), 21 votes
Best way - 4/2/2018

What are the best ways to get seen here and have your fantasies fulfilled?

22 response(s), 33 votes
MixedTwink88 35 M
2  questions
MixedTwink88 just want to have fun - 4/1/2018

Were the real people

8 response(s), 11 votes
Does this site really work? - 4/1/2018

Has anyone had success here?

29 response(s), 20 votes
who's real? - 4/1/2018

New here what percentage of people are actually real here? Tips for what to look for? Please.

22 response(s), 25 votes
MixedTwink88 35 M
2  questions
MixedTwink88 just want to have fun - 4/1/2018

Why doesn't anyone ever meet up

6 response(s), 5 votes
makeucumsilly 43 M
1  question
Single Women, or Couple? - 4/1/2018

Well I'm sure there will be a lot of responses but want to hear what everyone thinks because I'm just getting confused more by the day. <br><br> So should a guy looking for sex and some friendship find a single woman or a couple that is Straight? <br><br> I have read many profiles and messaged the ones ive been interested in women only to come find out they are ...

14 response(s), 26 votes
Fantasy - 4/1/2018

Does anyone else find as one gets older the urge to go for your fantasy more. Only live once go for it?

34 response(s), 36 votes
sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
Trolls ? - 4/1/2018

should trolls be given protection??...so that they don't reproduce.

26 response(s), 27 votes
251985sys 61 M
6  questions
what makes a lady pick up to chat on IM? - 4/1/2018

I have almost no success on IM I send tons of chat messages and get no pick ups what is most men's experience with this ? what would you say that would make the lady pick up and chat ?

24 response(s), 35 votes
MS_Aphrodite 40 F
67  questions
Throat fucking - 4/1/2018

Throat fucking ... Ladies Do you enjoy this or is this something your still easing yourself into? I've heard some say its a certain positions you need to be in to really get the effects of this. Guys do you really like this?. What are your thoughts and opinions on this? Do you gag with it

26 response(s), 40 votes
ian1445 18 M
1  question
hi - 3/31/2018

i love cheese

11 response(s), 21 votes
Do any younger girls really have daddy issues - 3/31/2018

Do beautiful really have desire to be with older daddies than young? Love to .hear from some woman.

19 response(s), 38 votes
group sex - 3/31/2018

who's into group sex? Love to be a groups toy.

11 response(s), 25 votes
john51x1 59 C
2  questions
Sharing - 3/31/2018

Is so wrong to swing , everyone has different needs but is there wrong with sharing your lady with another dick r 2 r how many Is it?

13 response(s), 15 votes
Anal sex - 3/31/2018

Do any women actually prefer anal over vaginal sex?

13 response(s), 29 votes
2Pune2 36 C
1  question
How to get gold membership - 3/31/2018

How to get gold membership

16 response(s), 31 votes
251985sys 61 M
6  questions
what ladies like to see in a profile ? - 3/31/2018

ladies what do you like to see in a profile that will make you take notice ? how long should it be ? what type of pics ?etc. please let us men know so we can make one that you may message back thanks

16 response(s), 20 votes
How often do you? - 3/31/2018

How often do you masturbate ---daily ---weekly or just when you get horny and there is nobody there to help you cum?

24 response(s), 34 votes
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
35  questions
He wants to spoon with me - 3/31/2018

I got a message he wants to spoon with me. What is that ?

18 response(s), 30 votes
sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
Tilted pics - 3/31/2018

I’ve noticed that a lot of men on 04j.com have face/ photos with tilted heads..Is there any logical explanation for this tilt?

8 response(s), 18 votes
sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
NetAddict - 3/31/2018

what did you used to do with your time before you became a NetAddict ?

4 response(s), 9 votes
lnk1205 46 C
1  question
How can I feel more comfortable with role play? - 3/31/2018

<br><br> My husband loves to fantasize about us having sex with people we both know. He can come up with a sexual scenario at the drop of a dime! He likes to go as far as to call us their names and because this is all new to me Im having a difficult time playing along. I seem to almost freeze up! We have a VERY healthy sex life and we are both ...

16 response(s), 24 votes
iowadude80 44 M
1  question
Hitting Things Off - 3/30/2018

Hey people, specifically women: what sort of things do you like to hear from a guy when hitting things off? Are there things a guy should say or should definitely not say? And how long is a good amount of time before the chat gets hot and heavy? Thanks.

13 response(s), 18 votes
Nastia65 49 F
25  questions
NIPPLE stretching - 3/30/2018

Seen some LOOONG nipples on cam here...LIKE/DISLIKE...SEXY?

21 response(s), 48 votes
iSquirt6969 40 F
1  question
Real vs. Fake Breasts? - 3/30/2018

Are fake tits a turn-on or turn-off?

45 response(s), 56 votes
HollyChatsNJ 62 T
5  questions
Blowing A Kiss - 3/29/2018

I just did an internet search on something so simple as "Blowing a kiss" It comes up on Wiki as "Air Kiss" I've never heard that term. Also mentions Thrown kiss. I think I've heard that before. <br><br> I just call it blowing someone a kiss... <br><br> Have you ever heard of "Air kiss"? What do you call it?

25 response(s), 32 votes
epicurus43201 42 M
1  question
Ever heard of naked dry-humping? - 3/29/2018

A woman I was with recently loved to naked dry-hump. I never heard of this. it's basically fucking without insertion...like scissoring, but between a man and woman...not lesbians. anyone else have opinions on this?

24 response(s), 28 votes
Dylon34 42 M
2  questions
Is it sexual harrassment - 3/29/2018

Is it sexual harrassment if I tell a coworker that watching her sweet little ass wiggle past is the highlight of my day

33 response(s), 43 votes
big set - 3/29/2018

can a woman's breasts be too big to be sexy?

18 response(s), 28 votes