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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
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Is it that hard to say no thanks? 7/10/2016
Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response
just saying your not interested?
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How to eat PUSSY 6/22/2016
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat
pussy because there are too few of you out there. Furthermore,
some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are
not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help
you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's
found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly.
This is one rare customer and she ...
3 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
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changes on 04j.com 6/19/2016
So about three days ago 04j.com was at it again change the cam
vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here
new management or what
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04j.com CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS 6/13/2016
As modt Standard members now know 04j.com is charging point
soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC
4 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
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Don't Ignore, just say what you think! 6/7/2016
Too many folks on here will not just say, "thanks,
but not my type"....what ever happened to being honest
instead of just all of a sudden ignoring some one...rude!
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
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An older man and the younger woman ..... 5/20/2016
Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for
the youngest age of a woman a man can date.
So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year
old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I
am now called a pervert or creepy guy.
Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many
people in ...
9 Comments, 242 Views,
15 Votes
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Home 5/6/2016
I'm bored and want points
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Whats the best way to say not interested. 4/27/2016
I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger
then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee
Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude,
just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same
couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
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Why is it diificult for some to at least say "No Thanks"? 4/7/2016
With so many people from all over the world on this site,
it's fair to say you'll find someone you're
interested in meeting with pretty quickly, though it's
also fairly likely that that person may not be interested
in meeting you, for whatever reason.
That's fine, but as far as I'm concerned, basic
courtesy dictates that if you receive a message, then you
at last reply to it, if only to ...
5 Comments, 63 Views,
6 Votes
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when you hear no thanks? 4/4/2016
When you hear no thanks
4 Comments, 21 Views,
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Do you have morals! 3/26/2016
OK so this actually happened to me in about 10 years ago.
I was out partying with my best friend and his wife and we
went to a local bar where we live just to have a good time and
play pool..... As The night went on we all were getting pretty
buzzed up....Now let me say Jennifer his wife is extremely
gorgeous and I admit I've fanatized about her, anyway
I made my way to the bathroom when ...
3 Comments, 44 Views,
3 Votes
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being Gentle 3/23/2016
my own policy when it comes to turning someone down on an
adult site is simply to say, no thank you, thank you for understanding.
There is no advantage at a point of rejection to be offering
specific excuses, as it only creates a defensive situation.
5 Comments, 37 Views,
14 Votes
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Doesn't matter how you say it.......... 2/26/2016
It doesn't matter how you say it, the person on the other
end 95% of the time gets offended. Its a lose lose situation.
I have said it so many different ways, changed my profile
so hopefully they wouldn't even email me (that does't
work, men look at pictures), I have even just deleted the
emails being rude and not saying a word but that don't
help either cause they continue to email ...
9 Comments, 79 Views,
14 Votes
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You have to say what you mean.... 2/1/2016
There are some people who think that "no" is
the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them.
Some people believe if you say "no" you will
lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless
and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put
you in a poor position.
So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's
actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...
3 Comments, 27 Views,
10 Votes
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They get there and they aren't what you expected 1/21/2016
Has anyone ran into the situation where you invited someone
from 04j.com over with adult fun in mind only to find they are
not as advertised? How did you handle this situation. I'm
sure it is really awkward for everyone involved. Or maybe
there was something that just turned you off when they finally
got there. How did you handle saying "no thanks"?
6 Comments, 157 Views,
14 Votes
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I might be too blunt 1/13/2016
If I'm not interested it's going to be a straight
up answer. I am nice but blunt is anyone else like that or
am I the only bitch. If you n I have nothing in common I'm
sorry but it's not happening
NO THANKS
2 Comments, 33 Views,
5 Votes
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"No Gracias" 1/4/2016
There was one time where the person said please do me so hard
and I said no.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
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YES or NO 12/13/2015
we do say YES when its come about sex life and normally word
NO in sex life was just a word thats mean nothing. As long
we live and ability to want means YES to our sex life
2 Comments, 20 Views,
4 Votes
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Ass lick 11/22/2015
Why girl ass makes man horny..
3 Comments, 29 Views,
6 Votes
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Sent mixed signal and chasing a lost of interest 11/11/2015
This is usually the reason why people pursue after someone.
Because they thought they may be interested in them or may
possibly give them a chance however when the individual
decides to say no then the aggressor typically a man ( Man
dominated cultures and in this chase America) thinks the
chase (woman/man) is just playing hard to get. It is the
flirts, misinterpreted body language that has ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
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rejection on reason basis and strength of rejection 10/30/2015
some people just do not like to accept "i don't
like you" as an answer. what could be done in this case?
one of the good choices could be reasoning and explaining
the reason unless he/she is some kind of psycho, in which
case rejection should be strong and exempt from reasoning
2 Comments, 22 Views,
4 Votes
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NO! 10/29/2015
Hey Look Ppl - No is NO and they usually [90%] mean just that
= NO. Once should be enough! To keep going is not only pointless,
but it is also very annoying and can lead only to trouble.
Listen and comply.
2 Comments, 19 Views,
2 Votes
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JUST SAY "NO". 10/8/2015
Some people are just so sweet hearted that even on a sex site
they have difficulty saying NO to someone who is trying
to get them into bed. No one enjoys being rejected but...for
something as serious as giving my body to someone for their
pleasure and me indulging in theirs I feel a need to be extremely
picky. Maybe if you don't get many invites and you are
desperate to get laid your expectations ...
16 Comments, 155 Views,
31 Votes
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Traveled the Road Less Traveled 10/4/2015
Well Ladies and Gentlemen, I tried to travel down the road
less traveled and let me tell you... I learned some major
lessons.
As Oprah would say, what I know for sure is... what I like
and do not like and what I will and will not tolerate.
Let me explain I traveled down the road of younger guys and
what my experience was... the sex was great, but... and
we all know that the but ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
11 Votes
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How many times to say no? 9/25/2015
We have several members who continuously message their
interest in us. We do try to answer when someone takes the
time of message us but just how many times must one do that?
Is there a way to block a member when they become a nuisance?
4 Comments, 32 Views,
7 Votes
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How do you feel when you make a "date" for swinging and the other party does not show up? 9/12/2015
Whenever a party says they will meet for a sexual encounter
and they do not show up, what do you do?
6 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
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whoa can we meet you before your genitals 9/6/2015
Why ...just why lol do people think it is attractive to send
genital pics in their 1st ever message to you like hi this
is my stuff do you like....um I don't even know anything
about you yet...immediate turn off
5 Comments, 45 Views,
11 Votes
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How to say "no" 9/3/2015
My wife and I have been in this situation a few times and it
is always difficult. We were in a group situation, invited
to a party where there were several couples we knew and there
was one guy out of the bunch that my wife found very unattractive.
Later on in the evening there was group play going on and
we didn't end up playing at all because she was uncomfortable
with having to say no to ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
4 Votes
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Male Head vs. Female Head 8/28/2015
This is a repost of an blog I did in 2012
I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude
here on 04j.com. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor.
4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left.
This is a 38 year old man (now he's ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score |