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Posted:Oct 13, 2011 1:08 pm
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sitting here in a shitty, do mean very shitty mood I decide to re-read all my old blogs. I know my love Iron reads them that is when I don't have him blocked (lol do unto others dear) and I come across one that he actually replied to.. amazing that we share a house pretty much 24/7 and there was only 1 that he felt the need to respond to... anyway, I like reading, and like to find articles on sex & relationships on the net and this particular post was about:
Dating Tips: 9 Simple Things Women Want Sep 4, 2009 11:11 pm
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1. Respect. Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies, and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.
2. Romance. It's another night on the couch with takeout and TiVo? Just because we're staying in doesn't mean the evening can't be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. Date nights, physical affection in the car, kissing like when we first started dating -- all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and to be bathed. Bring home flowers for no reason. We're not talking $100 bouquets of roses here. Even the $10 bouquets from the supermarket are enough to make us smile.
3. Time. We understand relationships can't be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says "love" more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. This includes helping around the house. The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before we do, why not vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you'll be getting a big ole smooch when you come back.
4. Dinner. Of the homemade variety. You may not be good at cooking and you may not know how to boil water. But greeting us at the door after a long day with fish sticks (or whatever you can wrastle up) makes us swoon, because it shows that you've been thinking about us and our hectic day.
5. Communication. Women are vocal creatures. We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure. We wish we weren't, but the reality is that we often notice our wobbly thighs and forget about our gorgeous eyes. So let us know when you think we're hot. Tell us we're beautiful. It helps us feel good. Words of appreciation aren't half-bad either. Tell us you love the lasagna we made. Notice that we cleaned the bathtub. It doesn't have to be over the top, just let us know that you see the effort we put in, and you're grateful.
6. Consistency. This doesn't mean be boring and predictable. It means that we know you will (usually -- no one is perfect!) give us the love and support we need. Knowing that you're coming at this with the same desires and energy as we are goes a long way to making us feel secure.
7. Engagement. Of the mental kind, not the "I'm getting married in the morning" kind. You don't have to like everything we like (we might be a little concerned if you do), but showing interest in our passions, be it career-related, a sport, or a hobby, goes a long way. Listen when we talk to you. We're not speaking just so we can hear our own voice; we want to connect with you and this is one valuable way we do this. This also means paying attention to the little things. Whether it's the name of your best friend's husband or the fact that you hate Nicolas Cage movies, it's the little things you remember about us that's so endearing.
8. Humor and Humility. These two tend to go hand in hand. This doesn't mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain us, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down.
9. Challenge. Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work, but the good kind that surprises and motivates us to do, be, or achieve what we desire. Studies show that partners who prod each other to meet goals -- in other words, don't support lazy or bad habits -- are ultimately happier than those who don't hold each other accountable
And here is Ironhorse360's 1, ONE response to my many blogs....
"Days of flirting, romance, spending money, and maybe just maybe someone will get lucky. Whatever.....
I'm one of those men who prefers not to play the drawn out game and just get to the point! No BS, No Drama, No IF's, No Maybe's, No wannbe's... Just a simple... Assume the position Bitch... Works best... LMFAO!!!
Stupid magazine articals!"
Iron dear I have 1, yes ONE question for you about your response to my old blog... "Assume the position Bitch... Works best..." do you even remember what that posistion is? lmao ok those that know us know I will so pay for this later but hey if it gets me into "the position" it was so well worth it... but Iron after the Rangers game pls... lol
hugs n licks
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Posted:Oct 11, 2011 11:39 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2011 11:54 am
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nothing nice to say this month so i will keep it to myself.... hugs n kisses
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bucket list.... lmao
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Posted:Sep 14, 2011 5:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2012 12:29 pm
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Here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos before you die. And yes I found this while reading article's this morning...
Kiss a girl
Have anal
Have a threesome
Engage in group sex
Have phone sex
Masturbate
Use a vibrator
Use a sex toy on someone else
Be tied up
Tie someone up
Have sex in a public space
Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)
Sex in a car
Sex at a drive-in
Mile-high club (ok one i haven't done yet)
Sex with a stranger
One-night stand
Married sex
Sex on a boat
Sex in a body of water
Light spanking
Read erotica
Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game strip backgammon is fun too...
Sex in the shower
Sex standing up against a wall
Sex with no kissing (normal occurence in the relationship in in now)
Sex in the pitch black
Sex in the broad daylight
Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin
Sex in a tent in the wilderness
Watch porn together
Watch porn alone
Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
Sex on the beach
Blindfolds
Using ice sexually
Sexual role play
Whipped cream
La Perla lingerie sex (nope not yet)
Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex
Sex with someone much older
Sex with someone younger (legal!)
Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
A quickie in a skirt
A longie in the rain
Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
Feather ticklers
Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else
Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
Silent sex in a full house (I wonder does putting a pillow over your mouth count?")
How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?
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Eleven things we'd rather have than sex.....
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Posted:Sep 5, 2011 5:02 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 9:2 am
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Some of you know how I love to read articles, especially when it pertains to sex (gotta live vicariously) and I found this one particularly funny, so here it is! I did try to add my own thoughts & make it known when I did insert them.
By: Kathryn Williams
A recent study by Women at NBCUniversal raised eyebrows when it reported that the women surveyed placed the Internet, sleep, and showers higher than sex on a list of things they couldn’t live without for a month. (Men, unsurprisingly, chose sex behind the Internet and sleep. At least the sexes can agree on the first two.)
It turns out what we’re passionate about is not always passion (since I don't remember what passion is, I guess i agree). And when push comes to shove, we’d rather go celibate (like I have a choice in that matter) than without some creature comforts. I canvassed my friends to see what they’d rather have than carnal knowledge. From a glass of cold milk to The Real Housewives of New Jersey, some of their answers made me laugh and others made me reconsider my own priorities.
As a single gal (well those are his words not mine, I say we are attached, especially after 3 years together) who can't go without sex yet here I am going without sex for months and even years. But before you light a candle for me, remember that during those dry spells, I still had access to all of the following human necessities and BOB thank god...
Junk food. Whether it’s french fries, cheese, Chick-fil-A, or Ben & Jerry’s, junk food is always satisfying (unlike sex) and much easier to get on your lunch break. Hand over the chocolate & no one gets hurt!!! lol
TV. Sometimes guilty pleasure television is better than the other kind of guilty pleasure. Besides, watching Football (especially the RAIDERS) is basically like having sex.
Air-conditioning. It has been over 100˚F every day this week where I live. If I didn’t have air-conditioning, there is no way I would let any warm-blooded mammal near me, let alone on top of me, but then again he doesn't want to get on top of me, in me, or under me so.....
Coffee. You will pry my morning coffee or coke (depending on my mood) from my cold, dead hands.
A good book. Once I’ve started a really good book, I would probably go without oxygen if I had to in order to finish it. A book is a long-term escape. Sex is medium-term, if you’re lucky.
Wine. See coffee. (I wyld can live without this)
Friends. Call it chicks before dicks... roflmao I love this term. Some of us would rather go a month without nookie than without the daily life support provided by our closest friends.
Blackberry or iPhone. I would rather go without PDA (public displays of affection) than my PDA (personal digital assistant). Don’t judge me. Until Betty Ford opens a center for it, it’s just a habit. Well me Wyld would much rather have the Public or private displays of affection but I guess im just the maid here.
Shopping. I am a big shopper, (so is he which makes it even worse) but the thought of not being able to buy anything for a full month makes me break out in sweats. Good news for our economy.
Family. As with friends, without the sanity provided by regular contact with my family, no one would probably even want to sleep with me, now wait a minute he already doesn't want to sleep with me well except to sleep... hmm now who can I not call?
Pets. I had one friend admit she’d rather go a month without kisses from her husband than kisses from her dog (well Wyld would much rather have kisses from the kittens than the dog). Apparently her husband has stinkier breath.
Magazines? Yoga? If you had to go without for a month, what would you choose over sex? Looking forward to hearing your responses....
hugs & kisses
Wyld
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kissing...hmmm could use some more of it!!!
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Posted:Aug 10, 2011 1:06 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 9:2 am
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We know kissing as a social pleasantry, the appropriate ending to a date and a means of connecting with our main squeeze. The collision of lips and tongues that we often take for granted has a whole lot more bubbling under the surface than what meets the eye. Swine flu scares and mono aside, kissing actually does a body very, very good. Kissing Capital Of The World
1.) Kissing boosts immunity. A recent study reported in the journal Medical Hypotheses says kissing may increase a woman's immunity from Cytomegalovirus. Cytomegalovirus, contracted through mouth to mouth contact, can cause infant blindness and other birth defects if the mother is a carrier during pregnancy. Otherwise, the bug is relatively harmless in adults. Kissing has long been thought to be a way to pass along bugs and thus strengthen the body's defenses.
2.) Kissing helps you pick the best mate. Anthropologist Helen Fisher describes kissing as a "mate assessment tool." Discover Your "Type" (It Really Exists)
Much of the cortex is devoted to picking up sensations from around the lips, cheeks, tongue and nose. Out of 12 cranial nerves, five of them are picking up the data from around the mouth. It is built to pick up the most sensitive feelings—the most intricate tastes and smells and touch and temperature. And when you're kissing somebody, you can really hear them and see them and feel them. So kissing is not just kissing. It is a profound advertisement of who you are, what you want and what you can give.
Other researchers note that kissing is biology's way of determining who in nature you are most genetically compatible with.
"At the moment of the kiss, there are hard-wired mechanisms that assess health, reproductive status and genetic compatibility," says Gordon G. Gallup Jr., a professor of evolutionary psychology at the State University of New York at Albany who studies reproductive competition and the biology of interpersonal attraction. "Therefore, what happens during that first kiss can be a make-or-break proposition."
3.) Kissing burns calories! Depending on different reports, anywhere from 2 to 6 calories a minute. Not quite a jog on the treadmill, but an hours worth of smooching may burn off half a handful of M&Ms or half a glass of wine. Hey, it's something. Kissing & Being On Top
4.) Kissing keeps facial muscles strong. Sure tight abs or cellulite-free thighs may be first on the Tone Up list, but don't underestimate the workout your mouth gets during a makeout session. Researchers say you use 30 muscles while kissing and the smooching helps keep your cheeks tight. Nice. We'll take what we can get.
5.) Kissing naturally relaxes you. Scientific reports say kissing increases the levels of oxytocin, the body's natural calming chemical and also increased endorphins, the body's feel-good chemicals. Swapping spit is also noted to increase dopamine, which aids in feelings of romantic attachment.
so guys that happen to read this, be a good guy & give your gal lots of passionate kisses....
kisses
Wyld
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Girls guide to anal sex....yes some of us women really do like anal....
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Posted:Aug 10, 2011 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2012 8:22 pm
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By Jill Provost
Dr. Hilda Hutcherson loves sex toys, believes the world is much too pornophobic, and thinks more women should give anal sex a try. In other words, she's the gynecologist every guy wants his girlfriend to meet.
Women who don't enjoy anal sex, she says, are probably doing it wrong. Intrigued, I scheduled an 8am consultation with the doctor to get the goods on joining the backdoor betty club.
I'm pretty sure the butt wasn't made to be penetrated. Is anal sex bad for you?
You're not going to hurt yourself if you follow the rules.
There are official anal sex rules?
You've got to want it. You've got to use lots of lubricant. And you've got to take it slowly.
How much, exactly, is a lot of lube?
You need A LOT. You've got to rub it all over the penis. Then, using your fingers, put the lubricant around the anal opening and up inside.
One of my friends said Astroglide is not good for anal.
Glycerin-based lubes like Astroglide don't last long enough. A silicone-based lubricant is going to be a lot better for anal sex. If you use one of the others, you have to stop, put more on, reenter… it's just a mess.
Anal sex is probably a messy endeavor anyway, right?
No, no! I wouldn't say so, but everybody thinks you're going to have feces all over the place.
Really? Because I've heard stories.
Well, if she were constipated, yes. Otherwise, no, not if she has normal bowel functions. The anus does not usually have feces until it's ready to evacuate.
Can all women orgasm from anal sex?
Every woman has the ability to orgasm, physiologically, because the space between her vagina and rectum is so thin that, in the doggie position, the penis is going to press up against her g-spot. Some women find it's the easiest way to stimulate their g-spot.
So is that the position you'd recommend for women during anal?
For those just starting out, I think getting on all fours might be a little too intense, because she doesn't have as much control. Lying on your side in the spooning position won't allow penetration that's as deep. It's also a more relaxing position. When you become more comfortable, the doggie is the easiest way for a woman to orgasm.
Is it possible to hurt her if the penis is thrust too far in?
The penis is only so long! Contrary to what men believe, the average penis is five inches or less, erect. But if you're talking an extra-long toy then, yes, it's possible.
I think I just heard the male ego shatter. I found it interesting to learn that you can lose things in the butt. Does it happen often?
Not often, but it does happen. If people don't use something with a wide base, it can slip in.
In your book, Pleasure: A Women's Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need, and Deserve, you use the phrase, "being sucked in." It's not like a black hole, right? It sounds scary.
No! No! I mean, if something gets sucked in, you have to go to an emergency room most of the time to have it removed.
Have you heard any stories?
Oh all kinds of things: Light bulbs, various food items…
A light bulb?
Yeah. We couldn't figure out how it got in there, but all kinds of things… I guess whatever's handy at the time.
Maybe they were trying to act out a "how many light bulbs" joke. You said it's important for a girl to relax her sphincter muscles. How?
I use Kegels.
Is that like leggo my Kegel? How does that work?
She should squeeze the muscles when she breathes in and relax them when she breathes out. He should slowly push the penis in as she relaxes. You're working together.
So what you're saying is anal sex takes teamwork.
He shouldn't just push his way in. Men have to realize that if they make it painful, they're never getting in there again.
How does a guy get a girl to let him in the back door when "open sesame" doesn't work?
Well, the thing I can say to her as a doctor is, it's not unsafe. She's not going to be wearing a diaper, she's not going to have fecal incontinence, she's not going to be soiling herself or passing gas all day. From her boyfriend, she wants to know that he's not going to just get in there and go crazy. Men do sometimes—they lose their minds.
I'm guessing you're not talking certifiable.
Guys have these fantasies, and once they're in the midst of fulfilling them, they can lose control. A woman wants to know that he's going to work with her, and that if she has pain, he's going to stop.
You recommend easing your way in over a period of six days. Is there a Cliff Notes version?
You don't start out with the penis. Work your way up, stimulating the outside with a finger or tongue and then slowly use your finger to enter the anus. And then once she get used to that, you can go on to bigger and better things.
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Instructions to Men, Boyfriend, Husband's.
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Posted:Aug 10, 2011 11:47 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2011 12:57 pm
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Instructions for My Boyfriend
I know you love me, which is why I finally feel comfortable telling you what I want. It’s not so much that you’re doing anything wrong, but I’m too shy to tell you what I really want. There are things I want, things that turn me on, that I’ve always hoped you would do to me, so let me give you some direction.
First of all, I’m submissive, I want you to handcuff me, tie me up, and do anything to restrain me. Handcuff my hands above my head, and tie my legs to the bedposts, so that I can’t effectively move any part of my body. Start by just looking at my naked body, let your eyes linger where you want them to. The fact that you think I’m beautiful makes me wet.
Next I want you to focus just on my skin. Run your hands or some soft fur, fabric, or feathers down my body. Let your fingers linger, but not stop on the most sensitive parts of me: my neck, stomach, hips, and calves. Just let me feel your flesh graze down my ribcage, across my breasts, and down my waist. Now let me feel a little more. Gently scratch or graze my skin with your nails, run your long hair across my body, kiss the softest parts of me, make me quiver.
Start to bite me. Bite me on my neck, hard. Don’t be afraid to hurt me, a little pain is a good thing. Run your tongue along my collarbone, then down between my breasts, and let it flick across my stomach until you reach my hips. Leave soft, wet, lingering kisses on my hips, lick across my inner thighs, and down my legs. Touch and lick the back of my knees. Make me gasp, and squirm. Don’t ignore any part of my body.
Now start to make me want you inside me. Rub your fingers, or your cock against my opening, by now I’m sure to be wet. Don’t penetrate yet, don’t touch my clit, just make me suffer. Bite and kiss and lick my neck, and my breasts while you rub yourself against me. With one hand, grab the hair at the back of my neck and force my head backwards, so you can restrain me, and kiss my throat more easily. If I have enough slack to move my hips, and thrust against your hard member, I will. But don’t let me have you yet. The longer you wait to push yourself inside me, the wilder I’ll get.
I’ll start to struggle in earnest. I want you, I want to free my body and jump on top of you, and force your hard cock inside me. I want it so bad I could scream. Hold my hands down to make sure I don’t get free. After your done torturing me, if you think I need it bad enough, thrust yourself inside me with one hard sure stroke.
Start thrusting inside me, slowly. Every backstroke pull yourself out to the tip, and when you thrust back inside me push yourself in to the hilt. As I start to get close to cumming stop thrusting deep, and just pump the tip of your cock in and out of my wet hole. When I start to go wild, start to moan, start to cry out in frustration, start pumping yourself into me hard, and fast. Whatever you do, DON’T STOP. Right before I’m about to cum, pull out, and don’t touch me for about 30 seconds. I’ll scream at you, I’ll curse at you, but this is the way I want it: to be completely at your mercy, for my pleasure to be totally dependent on your whim.
Go down on me. Lick your way down my stomach, and lick past my vagina to my inner thighs. Let your tongue play around cunt, licking to the left, and right, but not inside, not yet. Slide your hands under my ass and grope me. Lick up towards my clit, and when you get there, lick, and nibble, and suck. Don’t put your tongue inside me, make me wait and yearn for your dick. When you get me close to cumming, stop, and don’t touch me for a few seconds.
Now, fuck me. Thrust yourself inside me and fuck me hard and fast. Grab me by the hips and pull me down to meet your every thrust. When you’ve got me close to cumming, pull out, and free my legs. Grab my ankles, and put my legs over your shoulders. Thrust into me as hard and as fast as you can. See how many times you can get me to cum before you shoot your load deep inside me.
This is what I want from you. It’s too bad I’m too pussy to actually give you these instructions. Since I can’t give them to you, I’ll give them to the world, and hope that some woman will get her fantasy fulfilled.
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today's bitch
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Posted:Jul 22, 2011 5:28 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2011 12:58 pm
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I really really hate being lied to!!!!!
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ramblings, bitching & vents for today
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Posted:Jul 21, 2011 11:23 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 9:2 am
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In looking at profiles I just don't get it.. I know this is a sex & or swinger site but come on people have some fucking class!!! I hate opening a profile & the first thing I see is a close up of a dick or a wide open pussy... is that all you people that do this think you are? You don't have a face or a personality just your genitals? Honestly the biggest reason I ever agreed to meet Ironhorse360 was his profile, he has no zero nada dick picks on it... they were all clothed pic's & at least had a bit of class...
Now for my other bitches of the day.... Do you people not read profiles before sending out emails???? My god, it states in mine that I only date within my race but yet I get emails from black men... NO you can't get me to change my mind!!!! I'm not interested in any bbc, i have a bwc at home that if I wanted it & he actually wanted sex I could have it anytime I want.... and I even have many bobs that are better to me than any bbc could or would be... yes I have a right to feel this way...
The age thing... omg I have & if your anywhere near their age, FORGET IT.... to me that is just nasty.... not that I haven't done it, I have but he/she has to be pretty damn special for me to go ahead & have sex with them if they are under 27..... again that is my right to feel this way!!!!
For now I think this is all, i'm sure I will have more later or tomorrow...Hope you have a wonderful day!!!
Wyld
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Posted:Jul 18, 2011 10:07 pm
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2011 9:45 am
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is any of it worth it?
you work your ass off someone you know lies to beat the system & dammit if they don't... that part of the democratic party i don't get, seems they really want everyone indebted to them & sucking on the government tit....
what are your feelings on this?
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Posted:Jun 30, 2011 2:31 am
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2011 10:08 pm
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so this was on my mind earlier yesterday now, and i just remembered it.
Where is the strangest place you have had sex or the strangest place you would like to have sex?
me, i have wanted to have sex in a cemetary for years now just can't seem to find anyone willing.... any takers?
hugs
Wyld
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well darn it....
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Posted:Jun 3, 2011 8:53 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 9:2 am
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My birthday has come n gone thank god for that but I didn't get my biggest birthday wish... Did get to go to a party in Ft Worth & see all my wonderful friends and as much fun as that was, my birthday wish would have been even better... I guess I will start telling Santa that he better get me the room full of bi and or lesbian women for my Christmas present... Well a girl can dream can't she?
Hugs n licks
Wyld
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Posted:Apr 23, 2011 6:23 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2011 4:36 am
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just random thoughts.... has foreplay become a thing of the past?
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