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Posted:Nov 24, 2016 6:39 pm
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So today, in America, we're supposed to talk about giving thanks and all that fun stuff. Personally, I'm not a huge fan of Thanksgiving for multiple reasons. However, I've been thinking a lot about what I'm thankful for.
2016 has been kind of a spectacularly shitty year and sometimes it's easy to get dragged down into all of that negativity. It's easy to focus on all the bad that has happened rather than remember all of the good things in your life that you should be thankful for.
I'm thankful for all of "the usual things" I've said in the past. I'm thankful for my health, for my family, for my friends. I'm thankful that I'm employed, that I mostly like my job, that I have a house and running water and all of the other amenities in my life.
And I'm thankful for A.F.F. which, even to me, sounds kind of silly. I spend a vast majority of my time on here complaining about the things I don't like about this site so, I figured I'd mention a positive. I've met some amazing people on here, people who I hope will continue to be a part of my life in some way. I've had some great conversations on here, this place has opened up the opportunity to meet people I would otherwise not have met.
And I'm especially thankful for a few of those people in particular. So thanks and all that sentimental stuff 
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And I'm Thanking You For Giving It To Me
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Posted:Nov 4, 2016 8:02 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2020 2:08 am
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This has been a very boring night. I've decided to write this post to hopefully cure some of that boredom. This is a follow up post of sorts to one of my other posts.
What I want and what I need.
I need someone who will not make me feel second choice. I am not a second choice. I will never make my partner feel like a second choice and I expect the same from them.
I need someone who will not keep their interest in me a secret. We're all adults here. This isn't high school. If you like me, be open about it-with me, with others and with yourself. I'm not saying shout it out whenever you're outside or in a room here, but don't treat me differently in private and in public. If you're fucking me, cybering me whatevering with me, there's going to be some indication outside of whatever it is we're doing.
I need someone who is going to use all the "naughty words" I like. Listen, I'm not a prude. I don't cyber in the rooms and I don't cyber just anyone just like in real life I don't fuck just anyone. That doesn't mean I'm a prude and it doesn't mean I'm all sweet and innocent. I like sex, a lot. I like talking about sex, a lot. I like talking during ex, a lot. Tell me you want to fuck me. That you want me to suck your cock and you love how wet my pussy gets for you. And I need someone who knows how to toe that line between making love and fucking, because I need both.
Make me feel how much you want me, it will make me want you that much more.
I need someone who knows that they want and goes after it. Don't tell me you want something and when I'm offering it to you, you ignore it.
I need someone who is going to be honest with me. I have my big girl panties on. If your feelings have changed, let me know. If your feelings were never there, first of all don't act like they were there and second of all, just tell me.
I need someone who is going to accept me, flaws and all. Because there are a lot of flaws but there are a lot of positives too.
And in return I'll give you all of me.
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Joy to the fishes in the deep, blue sea
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Posted:Sep 8, 2016 6:44 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2020 2:09 am
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I was talking to a friend on the way home from work yesterday. We talk about everything but there were a few things that have stayed on my mind.
One of them was about Catfishing. Now, for those of you who are not familiar with the term, I can almost guarantee you are familiar with the concept. Catfishing is when you meet someone online and they lie about who they are.
My friend and I recently had this experience and they recently told us they had fibbed a little about who they were.
I was fine with it. She was fine with it. We were a little taken aback but mostly I was just amused. They didn't create some elaborate back story. I didn't feel like everything they had ever told me was a lie. It did take me a bit to wrap my head around it but in the end, they were still my friend and I still enjoyed their company. Some of this person's other friends were extremely upset and I do believe friendships have been ended now because of it.
I don't view this person any differently, if anything, I like them even more because they were (eventually) honest with me and with everyone else. That's not an easy thing to do.
Now, let's all be honest. We KNOW there are people who are catfishing on here. Whether it's because of their age or their appearance or whatever thing it is they want to change about themselves for a little bit...it doesn't really matter to me.
I enjoy people' personalities. I enjoy chatting, laughing, talking about different things with anyone who catches my eye. What you look like doesn't impact that.
This is getting a bit rambly, I might have been slightly distracted while writing this. Basically, I'm just urging people who are catfishing others to be honest. I promise, there are people who will still be your friend, who will still love you, who will still find you attractive. And remember that you being honest, eventually, counts more than another person finding out the truth from someone else.
And for those of you who have been chatting with people who are catfishing, I'm urging you to understand why people do these things. Chances are, it's not being done to intentionally lie to *you* specifically. Just remember that they are still the friend you have been chatting with and when they're being honest right now, they might need you to be their friend even more.
So, what are your thoughts on this? Have you been catfished? Have you ever catfished? How did you react?
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What Turns You On?
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Posted:Sep 5, 2016 10:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2016 5:07 pm
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Everybody is different, obviously. Everybody has different things that turn them on, that make them shiver or, sometimes in my case, make me bite my lip. So what are the qualities in a person that turn you on?
I love hands. I love a man's hands, looking at them,feeling them. If I like you then chances are I've looked at your hands (or thought about them) and my thoughts have trailed off to what exactly you could do with your hands, whether it's holding my hand in yours or your fingers trailing over my bare skin.
I love voices. There is nothing sexier than a sexy man with a sexy voice telling me what he wants me to do to him or what he want to do to me . I like to give and receive. And apparently, I'm kind of into southern accents. I love talking with a guy about anything and everything because the other thing that turns me on is great conversation.
I love good conversation. I love learning about people, telling silly stories, having debates, talking about anything and everything. I love laughing with a person. Nothing is as stimulating as fun, witty, intelligent conversation.
I could go on but honestly, I'm up past my bedtime. I just couldn't sleep and I've had a silly smile on my face the last hour. Night everyone!
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What a Brwn Wants, What a Brwn Needs...
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Posted:Aug 31, 2016 8:23 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2016 10:16 pm
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So it's not a secret that some people who have to have a lot of control in their everyday lives could possibly enjoy losing some of that control in and out of the bedroom. I'm not special, I can definitely be one of those people.
I am, in real life and when it comes to sex, a notoriously impatient person. When it comes to people, or my orgasms, I know what I want and I want it NOW.
But that's not always what I need. I have a job that is very stressful and I have to be in control of a lot of different variables all the time. I can sometimes be a little bossy and as a general rule, I tend to overthink.
Sometimes what I really NEED is for someone to help me shut off my brain, to give me something to focus on and feel something other than the events of the day that are generally on my mind from sun up to sun down.
Sometimes what I really need is for someone to take control, to tell me what to do because they know it's going to make me feel good. To make me focus, not on my work or my life, but on the feel of hands on my body, their voice in my ear coaxing me closer and closer to completely letting go.
And then there are times where I just need to talk about nothing and about everything. To do something mindless and silly, like, watch cartoons at midnight on a work night before I'm sent to bed with a smile on my face. That can be just as satisfying for me.
It's pretty great when you find both of those things in one person. It's even better when you find those things in one person that you genuinely, kind of, really like.
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Casual Dating is Never Casual
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Posted:May 17, 2016 5:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2016 7:39 pm
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We're all looking for something. In life, on here. What are you looking for? Most days I don't know.
I joined here just as a kind of joke. I didn't expect to find anything and instead I've made some great friends, had some great relationships. I found a husband, who would've thought of that?
I think it's funny that when I was on here not necessarily looking for anything in particular, I had it basically thrown at me from every direction. Now, when I'm on here to make friends and to maybe find more than friend, I'm finding it a little difficult.
I'm still married. I plan on staying married but my situation is maybe a little different. We aren't swingers. I'm not just looking for a quick fuck or a partner swap. I mean, to be perfectly honest, there are times when I might take that, but ultimately that is not what I'm looking for, it isn't what I want and in the end, it's not something that makes me feel great about myself.
I want to date someone. I want to have a friend who wants to do things together and also have sex. Lots of sex. Lots of really great sex. But also you know, do things together. Like you know, date someone, be a part of their life.
I don't want to be some quick fuck in the back of the car before you go back home to your wife/girlfriend/whatever. I like beds. Ones you don't have to pay for.
Will I find this? I don't know. I haven't up until now. I know that it might be a lot to ask of a person but hey, we want what we want, right?
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The Art of Conversation
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Posted:Aug 9, 2015 9:33 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2016 5:38 pm
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...is dead, apparently. Mostly dead is more accurate.
Not everything has to be about sex on here, I should know, I've made a lot of really great friends on here and none of our conversation have been sexual. That is in part because we treat each other like human beings and not like giant, typing sex organs.
Guys-Having a dick is great okay? I'm a big fan of what some of you have to work with but that does not mean the first image of you I want to see is your limp/hard giant/miniscule member pouncing out of the screen and into my face. Post a body shot or a face shot or partial face shot. Respect yourself enough to represent yourself with something more than your cock!
Also, (you know what really grinds my gears) when you message a girl, have a little decorum. Respect her. Realize that just because a girl is on here, it does not mean that she is a slut//whatever. Standards still exist and respect from both parties should still be given. I know that I'm much more likely to respond to a simple "Hi" than a sloppy, mostly disturbing screen cap of what you'd like to do to me. You don't know what I'm into, 75% of you haven't or can't read my profile and I don't even know you.
Which brings me to my next point! I LOVE SEX. This does not mean that you can treat me like I'll just fuck anything or anyone. I'm pretty sure this applies to the females on here that want to actually meet people. We have standards and guys (or gals if you're the one struggling with this) YOU SHOULD TOO! Do you really want to stick your thang into something that's had who knows what inside her? And girls, do you really want to chance ruining that perfect pussy for some dick that will fuck anything?
Conversation is a semi-lost and beautiful art. The mind is an erogenous zone that is BEGGING to be stimulated. And also, 5 or 10 or 15 minutes of conversation does not suffice. Get to know a person, find out about them, keep the conversation going, for yourself as much as for the other person.
Basically, have some dignity people. If you wouldn't do it in a bar/grocery store/coffee shop/other traditional date meeting venue, then it is probably not okay to do here.
Yes we are on the internet and yes we are shielded by anonymity and yes we are on an adult site. But that doesn't mean we can't be treated like actual people.
So...just think about that next time you want to message someone or the next time you're wondering why people don't write you back or im you back or whatever.
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The Art of Conversation
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Posted:Aug 9, 2015 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2015 5:41 pm
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...is dead, apparently. Mostly dead is more accurate.
Not everything has to be about sex on here, I should know, I've made a lot of really great friends on here and none of our conversation have been sexual. That is in part because we treat each other like human beings and not like giant, typing sex organs.
Guys-Having a dick is great okay? I'm a big fan of what some of you have to work with but that does not mean the first image of you I want to see is your limp/hard giant/miniscule member pouncing out of the screen and into my face. Post a body shot or a face shot or partial face shot. Respect yourself enough to represent yourself with something more than your cock!
Also, (you know what really grinds my gears) when you message a girl, have a little decorum. Respect her. Realize that just because a girl is on here, it does not mean that she is a slut//whatever. Standards still exist and respect from both parties should still be given. I know that I'm much more likely to respond to a simple "Hi" than a sloppy, mostly disturbing screen cap of what you'd like to do to me. You don't know what I'm into, 75% of you haven't or can't read my profile and I don't even know you.
Which brings me to my next point! I LOVE SEX. This does not mean that you can treat me like I'll just fuck anything or anyone. I'm pretty sure this applies to the females on here that want to actually meet people. We have standards and guys (or gals if you're the one struggling with this) YOU SHOULD TOO! Do you really want to stick your thang into something that's had who knows what inside her? And girls, do you really want to chance ruining that perfect pussy for some dick that will fuck anything?
Conversation is a semi-lost and beautiful art. The mind is an erogenous zone that is BEGGING to be stimulated. And also, 5 or 10 or 15 minutes of conversation does not suffice. Get to know a person, find out about them, keep the conversation going, for yourself as much as for the other person.
Basically, have some dignity people. If you wouldn't do it in a bar/grocery store/coffee shop/other traditional date meeting venue, then it is probably not okay to do here.
Yes we are on the internet and yes we are shielded by anonymity and yes we are on an adult site. But that doesn't mean we can't be treated like actual people.
So...just think about that next time you want to message someone or the next time you're wondering why people don't write you back or im you back or whatever.
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Insert Name Here
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Posted:Nov 26, 2014 4:55 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2015 8:18 pm
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Do you like trivia?
Do you like fun?
Do you like me? Of course you do, what am I saying?]
Then come one, come all and join Insert Name Here. Please, leave the drama at the door.
Rules and restrictions apply.
P.S. I'll write a real blog post later.
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woot woot
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Posted:May 22, 2009 8:47 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 6:36 pm
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So...it's been an eventful week to say the least.
It was my birthday, yay 
And I got the best birthday present ever. I got into my number one transfer college. Guess who's moving to Iowa in 3 months?
Well, besides that....I went to a strip club. It was hilarious, I loved it. I was amazed what those girls could do in those heels, I swear, I don't think I'd be able to stand in them, let alone dance and contort my body that way. I have to say though, the best part of the night was finding out the blonde girl who had taken a liking to our group went to my college. It was hilarious, too bad I'm transferring, it'd be so funny to see her around campus.
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:)
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Posted:May 6, 2009 5:43 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 6:38 pm
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Remember
Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot... goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life's treasures are people... together.
Realize that it's never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have health and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a star.
And don't ever forget... for even a day...
How very special you are.
~Douglas Pagels Collection
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I just stumbled upon this and I wanted to post it somewhere I wouldn't lose it. Sometimes I find it's easy to forget...
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the joys of May
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Posted:May 4, 2009 12:22 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 6:37 pm
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Happy National Masturbation Month
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i feel like i'm on facebook
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Posted:Apr 28, 2009 11:48 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 6:35 pm
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alright the challenge was thrown out there so how could i refuse it?? these are questions from a few other peoples blogs and now its my turn.... i hope at least a few of you answer this honestly.
1 Would you kiss me?
2 Give me a nickname and tell me why you picked it
3 Describe me in one word
4 What was your first impression of me, from my profile or blog or otherwise?
5 If you could give me anything what would it be?
6 What do you think is my best character trait?
7 Would you consider me to be your friend?
8 If you could pick one song to describe me, what would it be?
p.s. I totally stole this from Muffers
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