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Lectores
Posted:Jul 31, 2011 10:35 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2022 12:09 pm
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Si algunos de mis lectores desean hablar conmigo por favor dime como me podre comunicar con ustedes...cualquier cosa estoy a la orden.
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something to think about
Posted:Jun 20, 2010 1:23 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2012 11:05 am
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There is something very funnny I read in another blog here. A woman makes post saying "You know what really sucks, when you like a guy and it turns out the he is married o attached"....Another person responded saying "what also sucks is when a guys sends you an honest email and he's not attached and you decline his invite to talk".....I thought it was hilarious, but makes you think its something that happends a lot here.
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Numero de Edad o Madurez de la persona????
Posted:May 23, 2010 2:28 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2012 11:05 am
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Llevo 7 años como miembro de esta pagina, y he tenido experiencias muy buenas y otras no muy agradables. Puedo decir por experiencia he pasado buenos tiempos con mujeres mucho mayor que yo y otras de mi edad. Las mujeres mayores que han tenido experiencias conmigo me han dicho que lo que le han atraído para salir conmigo y tener sexo ha sido mi madurez; sino fuera por eso no hubieran salido conmigo. Mientras tanto hay otras mujeres en esta pagina que no han querido salir conmigo simplemente por mi edad. Han dicho que aunque he demostrardo ser muy maduro y respetouso, aun soy muy joven para ellas, considerando que soy mayor de 30 años. La diferencia de edad entre ellas y yo es un promedio de 10 a 15 años. Eso me pone a pensar....Es el numero de edad algo tan grande por cual una persona tiene que descartar a una persona para salir con ella?....no sería mejor juzgar a la persona por su personalidad y madurez?....Personalemente creo que la edad es simplemente un numero y no define a la persona. De hecho una de mi mala experiencias en esta pagina fue con una mujer de 38, profesional con su carrera establecidoa, aunque era mayor que yo me demostro no tener nada de madurez y discrecion. Por lo tanto pregunto, aunque yo se que varias cosas que determina la razon por cual salir con alguien de esta pagina. Entre estas dos opciones cual es mas importante: la edad o la madurez de la persona????
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Vacation
Posted:Dec 10, 2009 6:57 am
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2009 6:22 am
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I'm going on Vacation this Sunday the 13th until the 20th....so If anybody by anychance is going to be on the adventure of seas cruise in carribean, please let me know, so we can meet up.
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Wedding Awkardness
Posted:Aug 12, 2009 7:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2011 9:51 am
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This past weekend I went to a wedding of a friend. Besides the fact that I didn't really anyone else in the wedding, I felt kind of awkard. Me and her had a FWB relationship a couple of years back. It lasted almost 2 years, no one else knows about that happened between us. It was something special and it's kind of our secret. It was a family gathering environment, I was only one of 3 friends that the bride and groom invited. So i felt honored , but at the same time I kind of felt a bit weird. I never met her fiance before, it was a first for me. On the other hand here is a friend of mine which I had a special type of relationship with was getting married. All I kept thinking in my head was all the times we had together. She is the falling in love marrying type, and I could see she had this glow about her that day. I could really see how happy she really was, and I was so happy for her. I could really see that she found her other half and I wish her the best. At least I have the memories. Has anything similar ever happen to anyone????
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Gente conocido
Posted:May 19, 2009 1:43 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2011 10:01 am
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Llevo casi 6 años aqui en 04j.com, siendo Puerto Rico tan pequeño...uno siempre tiene el miedo de aqui alguien te reconozcan....Todo miembros de esta pagina buscan discrecion un 100%, debido a la naturaleza (mente cerrada) de la gente de Puerto Rico...Recientemente observe un perfil de otra miembra que habia visto anteriormente, pero luego puso unas fotos de su rostro, me sorprendi pq yo la conozco personalmente...Yo quisiera saber si algunos de ustedes han tenido esa experiencia anteriormente aqui.
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MEMORANDO SOBRE USO DE LOS BLOGS
Posted:Apr 22, 2009 6:24 pm
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2011 10:26 pm
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Los blogs es un medio utilizado en esta pagina para uno escribir sobre cualquier cosa que le venga a la mente. Cualquier idea, pensamiento, cuento, experiencia, opinion; no hay limite, aqui hay tema libre. A la vez, el formato de los blogs te permite la opcion de poner si deseas o no que la gente en general comentan sobre su blog. Si usted va escribir algo de cualquier indole, simplemente para expresarte y no deseas que ninguna persona comentan sobre tu escrito; entonces desde un principio antes de postear tu blog, ponle la opcion de que nadie podra comentar. Si eres una persona que no puede aceptar comentarios que escrito respetousa y objetivamente, entonces no pongas tus blogs para recibir comentarios del publico general. Si eres una persona adulta, yo espero que tengas la madurez para escribur un blog en cual no ofendas a otra persona simplemente por comentar objetivamente. Yo llevo 6 años en esta pagina y he tratado a todos los fellow bloggers con todo el respeto que merecen, pero desgraciadamente de vez en cuando se cuela una persona cafre. Pero hay que tener tolerancia y paciencia con varias personas.
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Common courtesy
Posted:Dec 8, 2008 1:13 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2012 11:18 am
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Well I was planning on writing a blog on this topic for a couple of months now.....now I actually have the time to sit down and do it....A couple of months ago when I was a gold member (last summer), I would look through women profiles, and if I would find any of them of interest I would write them a decent and respectful email saying that I would really like to have a chance to talk with them and get to know them.

Well I managed to make contact with a couple of women and chatted with a one of them. After the chat she gave me her number and I called her and we talked at least once. Everything seemed cool, We agreed to meet up later in the week, she told me to call her on the day we agreed, I called her 4 times and she never answered. After that I wrote a email here on 04j.com and her personal account to see what happened she never answered...I kept trying her number a couples times for the following 3 weeks, she nevered answered ....and i wrote a couple of emails during the next month....I even asked her if she's not interested in seeing, she should at least tell me so, so I dont have to bother her anymore, she never even answered that simple question...I also wrote a couple of other women here on 04j.com, and after one reply they never answer again.....which brings me to my point.

I' m a very considerate person, If someone sends me an email and asks me a question...I take the time to answer them....What pisses me of is this, it's not the only the situation with the person I mentioned before....what pisses me off is also the other women that I have written to and they never replied (women who have active accounts and sign in every day)...they just leave you hanging....whats the matter with people this day and age???....I respesct the person who at least answers me and tells me that they are not interested....That way I would know that I have no more need to keep on writing emails to them and bugging them....If I do then it would make me seem as a very persistent person, and that makes people feel very uncomfortable.

People should have the common courtesy to at least tell you that they are not interested in you....and tell you the reasons why....that way we can part on a friendly manner and you dont have to hear from them ever again......On the other hand if you never answer people they are going to keep on writing to you and never leave you alone. Whats wrong with taking 30 seconds to write "sorry not interested because....."?????...its that simple

Anyone else feel the same way????
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cock pics
Posted:Jun 11, 2008 10:40 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2009 7:09 am
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Now that I'm a silver member....I can now understand why some women in this blog have said that they are tired of seeing cock pics.....I mean thats all there is in men's profile....It's pretty funny actually, now I understand why so many women here, prefer to see other pics besides that....Estan inundado.
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Sex takes 3 to 13 minutes......
Posted:Apr 3, 2008 7:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2008 6:15 am
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I have just read an article of a sex study on the CNN web page.....read it and let me know what you think....heres the link..

http://04j.com.com

Sounds interesting
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CHEMISTRY?????
Posted:Mar 3, 2008 9:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2011 10:15 am
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This is something that happened to me recently, and is still bugging me....I recently met a member here online, and we chatted and everything and we got along great with a our conversations.....we certainly clicked and enjoyed talking with each other, There was a since of chemistry.....I had sent her my pic...We both were eagerly anxious to meet each other in person.....Well the other day we decided to meet up for the first time...she told me she was really anxious to meet me and I felt the same....Well when we met up at a coffee shop, I was kind of nervous...she is a very beautiful woman....we started talking, but I noticed that she seem to be uncomfortable, she would'nt make eye contact with during the conversation.....I asked her if she wanted to go somewhere more private since she seemed uncomfortable.....And out of nowhere she comes and say that she doesnt think this is going to work because she doesnt feel that there is chemistry between us......She said all of this within the first 5 minutes that we met....she told me that "chemistry" for her is physical attraction and she didn't find me attractive and that it was best for her to leave...thats it everything lasted 10 minutes....I was dumbfounded that she comes to tell me this especially since she had seen me already in a pic that I had sent her and after engaging in conversations with her

What bothers me is, that I don't really believe in her definition of "chemistry"...I found it to be shallow and unfair, since she didn't really give a chance to get to know me better....For me chemistry has to do more with how you get along and click with a person's personality, and not their physical appearance....It's just weird that you have hope when you talk with someone and then when you meet up, to have them come out with something like that.....I mean being rejected like that after raising your hopes, is really fucked up.....Talk about judging a book by its cover....

What is your definition and take on chemistry?...

Please dont ask who the person was, because I'm not saying....
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Perspectives on Valentines
Posted:Feb 14, 2008 1:41 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2008 5:26 am
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Being alone on Valentines day gives a certain perspective on things.....I was in Plaza Las Americas on February the 13th and 14th....I was walking around and it was amazing to see the long lines at certain stores, these stores specializing of chocolates, candy and teddy bears.....The lines were huge, anybody could've thought that it was christmas....My point is that it proves to me how comercialized Valetines Day has become; and it leads to me ponder if in this day and age is Valetines more about giving gifts than it is about love????...
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Unexpected encounter
Posted:Feb 6, 2008 11:36 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2009 11:00 am
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About 2 weekends ago I was at my alma mater studying for a test I was going to take. It was saturday, so the campus was pretty much empty. After a couple of hours studying I decided to take a break and stretch out a bit, so I went outside and got a cup of coffee and sat on a bench in front of the library. After about 10 minutes a woman came by and sat down beside me. We started to talk, it seems she was there taking her to a math competition, and she herself was also an ex-alumni and divorced. We talked for about 30 minutes and then we decided to go for a walk to the building where we took our classes and where are major departement was located....as we are going up the stairs she grabs my hand I looked at her and she gives me a smile...when we reached the 3rd floor where our old department was located I leaned in and kissed her....she didn't move, she stayed there and gladly recieved it....she told me that she liked how I kissed, and that she wanted to feel more of my lips caressing her body....I was stunned, this never happened to me before, I took her to the 5th floor of the building, and it was completely empty. I took the end of the isolated hallway to a corner that was out of view...We started kissing each other passionately, she started to unbutton her blouse as we continued kissing.....I started to touch and carress her breast and that made her kiss me even harder....she then slid her hand down my pants and started to grab my cock....I started to lick gently on her nipples, which were big and pink and she started moan, controlling herself making sure she doesnt scream loudly in case anyone would here her....she kept on throbbing my cock.....and all this time I kept thinking in my head, I cant believe this is happening to me....I started to slid my hand inside her panties...I slid my finger in her pussy, it was so hot and wet.....this drove her wild....I kept on fingering her rapidly, she started to kiss my neck and nibble on my hear....she told me to do it harder....and I kept on.we were there nearly an hour.....Suddenly we heard some footsteps and we stopped....we decided to fix ourselves up and leave, she gave me her number and told me to keep in touch...I still havent contacted her since that day.....The last time I ever did anything like that on the college campus was with my ex girlfriend 10 years ago.....It was totally an unexpected encounter for me, I never did anything like that with a stranger.....It was adventerous and fun.

Has anyone ever had a similar unexpected experience like that?....If so, Please share.

Ha
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