so after a very long time on several of these 04j.com sites I finally start talking to someone and felt we were kind of hitting it off. That is until she asked for a pic of my package. I had told her I am a bigger guy when we first started talking. I send her the pic and she asks how big I am so I am honest and tell her. I get a very quick good bye. It is frustrating being a bigger guy and this makes it even worse. This gal didnt have much room to talk. Dont get me wrong she was decent looking but she was no runway model herself. I know I am not gonna get hooked up with some thin thing nor do I want to. I have a great personality so it will be her loss problem is on a site like these how can they get to know your personality when all they see are pics. tell me what you think