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Are You Pushing Your women into the Arms of Another man?
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Missing is not a small word for what i felt when my love is not around... missing can't describe the pain, when seconds seems like hours, hours seems like days and days seems like century... days seems endless and night seems like never ending nightmare... at first the concept of your love being with you is so strong that you feel them with you, looking at you, sitting/standing at several places.. when talking to someone you came to a point where you think that if he would be here , he would have said that and just that mere thought make you smile but you also feel pain inside growing along with it... sometime you feel alone altough you are accompanied by many... some time you just want to hug your love but he is not there, you want to cry on his shoulder, you want to tell that you can't bear his absence BUT you can't, you never can instead you only think it wuld hurt your love more to know that... sometime you just want your day to be ended so you would go home and share things with your love but when you reach home he is not there, the person who make house THE HOME is not there, the place you live is so empty without him that feeling is so painful even i lost my words to explain that.. when love is not around you forgot when you last eat something... you don't feel like eating.. as the day passes by, light falls into dark another thing start coming to haunt you, increase your agony... how you gonna sleep without love... you try to shut your eyes but you can't make yourself go to bed , because no one is there to kiss you good nite, no one to hug you while you are asleep,you can't feel the warmth of your love beside you...it's like hell where you are helpless, then you decide to sleep at love's side of the bed, and hug a pillow like he used to... and this is only the story of one painful whole day... don't know how many days are there more to suffer... but you know you have to manage not for you but for your love... because at the end of the day, he is the only one who does matter the most.. missing you like hell goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 If time and time again you are attracted to a certain "type" and the results lead you to be played, used as a booty call, or hurt in general, I think it is time to change your tactics and not seek out that type of person. If these things have happened to you, then you should be aware of the signs and be able to see them coming long before you are hurt. I have been hurt a few times. I've been played and used. I don't really have a particular "type" of woman I seek out, just "particular qualities in a woman I seek. I think I have honed my senses thru my experiences, and I have become pretty good at spotting a bad one at a distance  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 i agree . this happened to me just recent . i was freinds with a guy for little over three yrs .and we talked about everything . the problem with it is i felt like a dumping ground. he had more than one female freind he was hanging out with . and i did not care until i started really like it and we went to far one night and he did not care the next day  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Sadly it's fact of life today You won't be able to tell in advance whether you know them a day a week a month or a year . They are commitment phobic sad creatures who just like the thrill of the chase . They end up alone and forever looking and thinking it's bad luck they're still single never married no kids .if he's a bachelor and over 45 yrs he's going to stay that way . If he's 50 plus and a bachelor and you're looking for long-term run run run .Lots of them online on dating sites with sob stories of why they never married or had kids . It's cos they're too selfish or screwed up no matter what kind of spin they put on it . If he's very good looking has money run even faster in fact don't even bother looking he's a player .  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 It's always best to get to know someone before opening your legs  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Before any man take a ride on my booty, they better bring authentic medical records.  If they do, it could be a sign that they will be ready to be in a committed relationship  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 I respectfully disagree with some of this outdated article.  goodbuddy781
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Notice what happens after you hook up. If he cuddles you before falling asleep, you're probably fine. Rolling over and falling asleep is not necessarily a deal-breaker. Sex is physically demanding for men; falling asleep afterward is more about exhaustion than how he feels about you. However, if he jumps up immediately after doing the deed to check his email, or seems anxious for you to leave in the morning, that's a bad sign. You may have more at risk than having your heart broken with casual hooking up. goodbuddy781
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Warning Signs Determine whether you ever actually go out on dates. Whether he asks and you accept or you ask and he accepts, it's all good. However, if he only texts you late at night and never calls, he's keeping his emotional distance from you. Keep in mind that it's possible to text someone while actually talking to someone else. If he only contacts you to get together on short notice, it's a sign that you have a low priority in his life, and you are probably being played. goodbuddy781
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Is he into you or are you just a booty call? Don't agree to a "friends with benefits" arrangement expecting more in the future. It probably won't happen, and you may very well lose a friend in the process. Although some hookups evolve into real relationships, they are the exception. Guys who are into booty calls usually just want to have sex without spending much time or money. Inevitably someone hotter will come along, or he may actually fall in love with someone else. When that happens, you are history. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 I need time to calm down before I can discuss things if I'm upset to that point. I'm pretty easy going- but sometimes a complete lack of awareness of what is going on in another person- or worse yet, complete disinterest- frustrates me to no end I communicate worlds better by text, email or other written words- because I can find the exact word that doesn't overstate or neglect what I'm trying to get across In real conversation however, I am usually torn between getting my point across in a fast manner- & finding the right words. Hence, sometimes I come across a lot stronger than I intended. Women too need Women time & alone time & have work & tasks & cannot answer texts or phone calls whenever I think a lot of that article applies to both sexes- & my experience would add that it would be a benefit to many men to listen more-   goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 I agree that both sides need space and that discussion of all things is the most important part of a relationship but getting angry and upset is surely something which happens because of a lack of communication.peace goodbuddy781
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Talking about the future feels awkward and forced: Planning for your future should be exciting and should fill you both with hope. If talking about where you will be in a few years makes one or both of you feel uneasy and sad, this is probably because of a shared sense that the relationship should not or will not exist in a few years. Similarly, if imagining staying together makes you feel dread and depression rather than a sense of optimism, perhaps your feelings of love have been worn down by the relationship's superficiality or by constant interpersonal struggles. It is also worth noting that if you cannot even picture a future with your partner at all, this is probably an indicator that you're aware of how incompatible your long-term desires and needs really are. goodbuddy781
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You no longer feel as though you genuinely like your partner: There are many different signs that you no longer like your partner's personality or their contributions to your life. Perhaps spending time with them has become a burdensome bore to you, or when you think about them you have stopped smiling and feeling a warm glow of affection. You might find every little thing that they do to be deeply annoying rather than endearing, and you may find that even the sound of their voice has started to grate on you. If any of this sounds familiar, it is highly likely that you no longer even enjoy your partner's personality and companionship at the level of friendship (let alone romance) goodbuddy781
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You are so right! We all have some responsibility for the downfall of a relationship.
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Other comments 3 I thank God for my aggressive self after my separation. I hope and i pray that i make it with my baby.Thank you for this  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Breaking up is hardest for the person left behind . People invariably assume if you're a woman that you're partner cheated or walked . Women are empowered nowadays don't have to or won't stay in a damaging relationship . If you're feeling more sad than happy its time to leave........living on your own has lots of positives as anyone who's being on their own for years will testify . It's the feeling of needing to have someone that leads people to hook up with unsuitable people. It's why people stay in unhealthy relationships .....they're scared of being alone goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 I was dating online someone for four months and it was good relationship and he was working I think he was, but I feel that letting him go was right thing, Even though it pains me, Best not drag him to my home and eat him like some dragon lady I can't be something scary...I have to move on, and keep trucking...crying I still feel that painful sting... why did I let him go, But I think he find someone better than me. Maybe fitter. She take care of him and his family, She be in local. sigh I am not local to anyone nice.  goodbuddy781
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Push yourself out there Don't sit around at home waiting for something to happen. It won't. This is your life. You are in the driving seat and you are the only person that can make things happen. Although pushing yourself to do new things now that you haven't got a partner by your side to help you through your worries is difficult, it is important to tackle your emotional barriers and get out there. Do what you've always wanted to do, even if it seems small. If you've always wished that you could be a talented artist, sign up for an art class. If you've worried about your weight in the past and have always wanted to do something about it, take out a gym membership. A sudden and dramatic change in your life, such as the end of a relationship, can offer you wonderful opportunities for new life experiences. Grab onto them and you'll soon realize that the future has so much to offer. The end of a relationship doesn't need to cause an end to your happiness. Reconnect with family and friends and discover the new, confident you. You'll be amazed at how resilient you are and how quickly you find joy again goodbuddy781
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There is no reason why beginning new relationships cannot be fun. Bring knowledge gleaned from the past to the fore, and do not let past experiences hinder your perception. You might just discover that dating in your forties is superior to dating when you were younger goodbuddy781
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There are several actions that you can take in order to get over relationship memories that make you blue. You can imagine that the person in question is in front of you, and tell them how you feel. Get all of your angst and repressed feelings out by saying them aloud. Allow yourself to become angry if this is how you feel. However, when you have said all you need to say, verbally forgive the individual and decide to conclude that you want him or her to lead a happy life without you. Letting go will free you and help you enter new relationships with a clean slate. Nonetheless, if you still feel the burn of old relationship pain, make sure that you are aware about how your past might creep into present dating situations. For example, if someone cheated on you previously, recognize that you might become jealous, possessive, or paranoid. If you notice such emotions occurring, ask yourself if there is any real evidence to support your concerns. Try not to jump to conclusions, and do give your new partner a chance to prove him or herself before you react to circumstances that you might have judged incorrectly goodbuddy781
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Baggage Emotional baggage can be a burden if you do not recognize it and take steps to manage debris from the past. Previous relationships that went wrong might have left a sour taste in your mouth. The result is likely to be that you are wary of bonding with anyone new and suspicious about his or her intentions and behavior. Luckily, you have the power to deal with the fall out stemming from past relationship blunders. Recognize whether you hold any grudges against previous partners. If simply thinking about someone fills you with remorse or anger, you probably have not closed the chapter that occurred when you parted ways. Maybe, you can remember arguments in full or cannot look at photographs of you together without feeling emotional goodbuddy781
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Mistakes you do not need to make again If you ever dated someone who showed signs of being poor relationship material before and suffered the consequences, now is the time to cash in on what you have learned. Usually, when someone seems like a bad egg, he or she is a bad egg. In the past, you might have thought that you could transform your crummy date with love and understanding. However, now you know differently and can leave such a person where you find them, safe in the knowledge that having a relationship with him or her would have been a disaster. In addition, there will have been occasions when you dated people who developed into bad partners. Your relationships started out looking promising, but went downhill rapidly, until you were dumped. Dejected and sad, you sat around wondering what was wrong with you instead of recognizing what was wrong with them, or simply that you were poor matches and had grown apart. These days, you can spot warning signs that your relationships are unhealthy before they develop into heartache goodbuddy781
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By the time you are forty, you have probably reached a certain level of emotional maturity that you did not possess in younger years. In addition, you will have accumulated greater baggage. Your knowledge and bias based on past relationships is bound to influence your experience of dating when you are a more mature dater. However, if you use balanced knowledge wisely, and understand how previous dating situations might influence you, there is no reason why dating in your forties need not be rewarding. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 10 Boy ... how true ... i might be up in years but my mind is good ... i get stuck with this a lot of times... women are so good at it .. when they don't get the upper hand on you ..they scream out blue murder .. some just like to dangle you on a string ... i get tired of money hits ... i know a lot of guys are scammers and fakes .. but there are lots of women in that boat too.. just be aware ... i can read most now .. and just move on .... good this is out there to remind others .  goodbuddy781
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