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Other comments 12 excellent description.... to summarize it all: we all at one time fall for PRETTY WORDS.... also they are professional cons..... they are GOOD at the game. I stayed in a marriage for 25 years, because I listened to the PRETTY WORDS, not the actions... however, when I saw the actions, his PRETTY WORDS were always the stronger of the two.... yeah, people say, "you just didn't want to know", my reaction is: "the hell I didn't", I just couldn't catch him..... Now, at my age, I would give a million dollars to find a good man, and he wouldn't have to speak any PRETTY WORDS, he would just need to wrap me in his loving arms and let his heart speak! goodbuddy781
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Other comments 11 Ahh but some of us are the reverse. We look for the good guys, beat our heads against the wall when they'd rather be with mean/ bossy girls - especially when we're only ever viewed as 'just friends' material. I could equally ask why is it men _say_ they want women to be honest and straight-forward and then ignore any woman who is? Or I could ask why men moan about having to pay for everything and then get shirty on a date if I offer to pay. Both genders can be guilty of confusing inconsistencies. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 10 This a great article and so true. I was married to a so called bad Guy for many years. I will be very careful the next time I choose someone. The thing is that opposite sides attract and the good kind men will be attracted to the Bad ladies. So in the end no one will be happy for very long. You see the cheaters should all be together the males and females but they choose the ones they can walk over. I met a man who was complaining about his ex- wife and my ex had the same ways. I think that both our partners should have been together. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 9 i ever try to be more sincere and faithful in my relationships but i am rejected by females ever.I,m always surprised ,why women prefer bad guys and attracted to them?I tried to be a bad guy to attract women but i failed due to my nature.Now i am 42 years old but don,t have any girlfriend and i am disappointed that no female want me because women want evil and bad guys.Women ever blame on men that they are flirt but they never think about their poor choice.All men are not flirt it,s a result of their own choice.They suffer from their own selection. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 8 The most accurate point this article makes is that most women are attracted by a challenge. And most nice guys are never a challenge. This doesn't mean you can not be a challenge if you are a nice guy, and also does not mean you have to be "bad" when being a challenge for women. It usually means you don't kiss a**, you can give a negative compliment and you don't apologize for having s*xual desires! Gentle men are a thing of the past, mostly because of women. Women do not want poetry or chivalry, at least not when you approach them. They want a cocky, confident MAN who has the balls to take what he wants. Is this good relationship material? Please don't become a "bad guy" be proud of being a nice guy, but don't be whipped by some woman who you know nothing about except looks. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 7 There is elements of some selective 'half truths' is this article and on the other hand it's totally wrong. It's not a universal given and it's all relative as most things in life are. It's subjective depending on the person. Women with low self esteem and abandonment issues will unconsciously pick the men that will full-fill their sick need for abandonment. They will choose insecure relationships because it will match their insecure relationship with their father. The degree of dysfunction which occurred will be to the same degree that they will the person who will match that dysfunction in their present lives. The worse they were neglected the worse the partner they choose can often be. If they were beaten as children they can often gravitate towards a domestic abuser in later life. However, the converse occurs on the other side. A healthy well adjusted young woman will choose nice men who also have a healthy sense of self esteem and will treat them right. Men also can choose women who match their own childhood relationships with their mothers. There is a theory that we unconsciously choose the very people whom will expose the shortcomings and dysfunctions we need to address in ourselves. So this article is wrong in that it makes a bold and sweeping generalisations about 'women'. It's actually barbed in a tone of misogynistic resentment towards women. I feel he is actually twisting a certain amount of half truths to take a pot shot at women with his own subjective readings from popular psychology. So women picking bad boys is relative to the degree they have suffered dysfunction and how they feel about themselves and the converse is true where healthy women will choose nice men relative to the their own sense of self worth. The person who wrote this is to be possibly a manipulative individual who uses any awareness and insights into how he can manipulate vulnerable women. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 All my days I have seem to attract dominate women hence they see me as pu**y whipped to the 10th degree. Many have no respect because of that. A guy needs to earn that respect. First impression counts. If a guy shows he is strong and in control of his life there is a natural attraction ftom women as they seek a leader not a follower. Ever notice in every romance story there is always a hero and a damsel in distress? No matter how much women today claim they dont need a rescue they dont want to be led around on a leash and they think they are so empowered to run corporations or even the presidency deep down they still want a man who is not a momma's boy or some panty waist. Women may want their equal as men do but, the tide is shifting with empowerment of women who are declaring they had enough of abuse from men and making choices to suit them. There is nothing wrong with that. However, men need to still maintain their status in the race or fall on the wayside. The bad guy vs nice guy is always in conflict within himself. Some men display more of the bad guy persona for protection of his ego against other bad guys. Bad guys also have to be in touch with their goodness offering compassion. Women will sometimes gauge how they will be treated by their men by how men get along with their mother. If men dont get along with mom they wont get along with women in general. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 From a psychological perceptive, both victim and the masked share mirrored narcissism. The victim unmasks the narcissist. Victim evolves into the narcissism baring a mask or continues being the victim. While the narcissist finds a new victim...and so the act continues. From a spiritual aspect, both light and dark, dance as one to experience pain and pleasure. The dark becomes light and the light becomes dark. The transfer for karma is completed. One that played the light in previous act becomes the dark in this next drama. One that played the dark in previous play becomes the light in this next scene. This cycle or wheel is known as dharma. For one becomes whole, bringing contrast to living. From an electrical view, On a circuit board of resistance, power, and currency. Can you turn her off, there? And can you turn her on, here? If one can do this in many places. ...This is "power"...they are attracted to it. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Yes this article is true but real recognizes real and a good woman will choose a good man over the bad guy anyday. Bad guys are bad news and vice versa! I say be smart and choose wisely or you could have a lifetime of heartbreak just from thinking with your eyes instead of your brain  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 Because devil has corrupted and spoiled almost all women and men, men is better to not get married with woman in this life!So to be alone better than to have woman. This world is evil ,soon have its end.so many people loves evil and refuse good. Those that accept good and refuse evil,shall be saved and live in perfect good world!  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 1)Girls pick the guys, not the other way around. 2) Some girls DO go for dirtbags and Bad Boys. Dunno why, but then again attraction is primal. 3) IF the female survives and IF she wakes up, she'll recognize the good feeling of not living in constant fear. If not, she may be one of many self-induced DV casualties. In my line of work, we'd find a damsel in distress, move heaven and Earth to help her find shelter, and keep the beater from her, and in short order, she's selected another beater, just as bad as the first. Perhaps a psychologist can give a better analysis. 4) Assuming this particular female wakes up, what sort of damage has she sustained? Permanent damage? STDs? Kids? Is she even desirable at this point? 5) I suppose the results vary by the individual, but this is what happens when we are governed by emotions, unchecked by logic. 6) Contrariwise, I suppose just as many, if not more, women are very practical in mate selection. Guys who were nerds in high school, but now commanding 6 figures, are as likely as not able to meet up with a fine woman. There is an ancient Chinese saying: "In writings (books) there are Golden Houses." The translation being, those who land a learned profession can obtain fine houses, wives, etc.. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Coz women love bad guys perhaps? Are somehow attracted to bad guys maybe? I got no clue,and believe me i've tried to understand women... James Bond 007 compared to that mission of understanding women its a joke. At least from the point of view of a pragmatic person and pretty much skeptic.  goodbuddy781
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Fear of Commitment Some women unconsciously pick bad men to date because they are still hurting from a recent break up. Commitment is the last thing they want, even though they may not be aware of it. If a woman chooses a guy she knows has a bad character, then there is next to no chance that the relationship will develop into something more meaningful. Hence the odds of the woman getting hurt again are significantly reduced. After all, a man cannot break a woman's trust if she doesn't have any confidence in him to begin with.  goodbuddy781
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Love of Drama A loving and contented relationship can come to feel boring for the type of young woman who craves drama and excitement. When a woman is happy and content with a good man, there aren't as many dramas, arguments or disagreements. Instead, things are pretty much peaceful and serene. Being with a bad guy is usually painful, but there is no shortage of drama. A relationship with a bad man is always full of discord and upset. There is very likely to be a pattern of breaking up and getting back together. This pattern is bitter-sweet, and therefore addictive. After a while, women who date one bad guy after another come to think that love should hurt, and feel that anything less than pain is mundane.  goodbuddy781
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She Feels Special The bad guy knows he can have his choice of women, and that gives him extra appeal. When a woman becomes the girlfriend of a bad man, she feels that she is special because he picked her rather than one of the hundreds of other women he could have had. This makes the woman feel gorgeous, and gives her ego a boost. Her bad boyfriend may be unfaithful, but that's fine provided he comes home to her at the end of the day.  goodbuddy781
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He Seems Confident Because bad guys are usually players, they tend to have a lot of experience with women. They are the men that know exactly what to say and do to pick up women in night clubs and other venues. Bad men know precisely what it is they want, and they are not afraid to take it. This gives women the impression that bad guys are confident and self-assured. Nice men are not brazen enough to approach a woman and start flirting insistently. That's because they worry that it will make them seem overly forward and presumptuous. Hence the nice guys are often overlooked.  goodbuddy781
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A Challenge Unsuitable men don't usually want to commit to one woman. They are womanizers, and they enjoy playing the field. Thus this type of man represents a challenge to a woman. She thinks that she'll be the one to transform him into a faithful and loving partner, but she won't. She also believes she can change him, but she's wrong about that too. Nevertheless, it's human nature to long for what you can't have. Nice men do not present much of a challenge to women. That's because decent men are usually open and upfront about their feelings, and this can make them seem too easy to have.  goodbuddy781
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Dangerous Excitement Bad men do not spend their evenings in front of the television with a mug of hot chocolate. Instead they go out, get drunk, flirt with several women, sleep around, and maybe even break the law. While definitely not advocating any of those things, one would have to admit that the lives of bad men are anything but boring. In fact they can seem very glamorous. This sense of danger and excitement can make unsuitable men seem very appealing. Dating a bad man makes a woman feel that she is a little bit wicked and naughty too.  goodbuddy781
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Have you ever watched the woman you want go for a man that you know is a waste of space? If this is something that's happened to you, perhaps you wondered why on earth an intelligent woman would make such a poor choice. This article explains why women pick unsuitable men to date and offers hope to the good guys out there. You may have noticed that certain women always seem to go for men that treat them badly. If you're a decent guy, seeing the women you want go for complete losers time after time can be rather exasperating. So why do some women waste their time with bad guys? After all, the vast majority of women are able to spot a bad man when they see one. There is actually more than one reason why women tend to make poor choices when it comes to dating men.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 8 The first thing I look at on a woman is her rear end, and as a way to judge her health, not in a s*xual way. A woman only gets a flat rear end in one of two ways: too much alcohol, or she's never done sports regularly in her life. I'd rather see a woman with a round rear and a flat chest than vice versa. Having said that, a good personality matters more. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 7 Abso f-ing lutetly! Only sick men like breast implants. Could you imagine men having rubber implanted into their tool! This world is so dumb now!!! Cosmetic surgery and fake implants.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 There are so many things that go into making a woman attractive and sexy. her smile, the way she walks, her personality, her hips, her legs, her butt etc. etc. there are so many women who are small breasted but extrmely hot. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 As a younger man larger breasts were of s*xual desire. As I've matured, I've taken a look back at my serious relationships and none had large breasts. confused Yes they are a sight to behold, but as far as a necessity for a loving sensual relationship, it is all about the woman who enjoy pleasure from what they have. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Science has proved that men always look at what attracts them. Women look at men's faces. If men are looking you in the face all the time , he is not really attracted to you. Google it. Women show their bosoms to trick you into looking there so they can write you off. It is a FACT!  goodbuddy781
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