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Gossip indicates that a person is nosy, untrustworthy and disloyal. Letting your man know that you are a gossip is not a good way to win his trust and admiration. Women need to leave past relationships in the past. Talking about old boyfriends or ex-husbands is the quickest way to push a man into the arms of another woman. He doesn't want to hear about how great your ex was. He doesn't even want to hear about how much of a jerk your ex was. Comparing your current man to an old flame is a sure way to ruin your relationship. Your current man is not in competition with your ex and should not be made to feel that way. If you want your relationship to last, show your man that you can be loyal and trustworthy. Be a good friend as well as a love partner. Don't cling to him like plastic wrap. Trust him enough to let him enjoy a night out with the boys. Let him be his own person and remember that silence is golden. Let his actions speak louder than words. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 "Thus without trust, there can be no romantic relationship." This statement kind of sum it all. If you cannot trust, don't go into any relationship. People might betray a trust, but don't mistrust until one have a reason not to TRUST. Trust is a factor. A partner might fail one, but there is the probability that the person might become trust worthy, after learning his/her mistake. Trust is very important, unless one wants to go insane in a relationship  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 once bitten twice shy FACT  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 In truth, we dont trust because we make bad coices. Theres noone to blame but ourselves. When a man or woman chooses each other its important for them to research the mental illness within the fanily first. Then they must review their compatibility afterwards. Next, they must be fheir friend's needs answered. And lastly, the can be lovers. Along with looking to the uncertain future with similar sights, they can defeat any foe as long as they work together. But for the most part, keep all others out of your relationships if you want them to grow! For mysery really loves company  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 from personnal expierience : do trust but try to not be naive  the people/men on my way seem to have something in common with that person called "ex" it's quite difficult to forget that part and to stay quite open and without this openess, the relationship cannot really last "There will always be people who’ll hurt you. Still trust them but be careful" GGM  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Thank you for this Article. I am definately agreed. As I had an experience . I don't trust anyone since I broke up wiht 9 years relationship with my ex-husband. I'm afraid to brake up again. but now I am more stronger than before. My world open wider and I say thank to him to leaved me . I deserve someone better. Hope all you guys whoever having same problem to sort out and be strong and find true love  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Unfortunately, there are no guarantees when it comes to romantic relationships. There is always the chance that you will be betrayed in the future. This risk of betrayal is part and parcel of entering into a relationship. Getting involved with someone new is always a leap of faith, but it's a risk that sometimes pays off. Betrayal is and always will be a part of life. It's how you deal with it that matters.  goodbuddy781
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Look Around You If the experience that left you unable to trust has shaken your faith in humanity, take the time to look around and observe other people. You can often tell by a person's behavior whether or not they can be trusted. People who tend to gossip and stab other people in the back obviously shouldn't be trusted. However, some people keep quiet about other people's affairs, and avoid saying negative things about others. Such people are generally trustworthy and reliable. Slowly Does It Once you've healed and dropped any emotional baggage you may have been carrying, you'll be ready to start a new romantic relationship. When you meet someone new, take the relationship very slowly. Gradually allow yourself to trust your new partner little by little. Choose carefully who and what you trust; trust only those who earn it. Observe how your new partner reacts to the things you confide in them. If your new partner keeps small confidences, then you can probably trust them with bigger ones as time goes on. You should also make a point of talking to your partner about your trust concerns. If you do this, they may be able to help you to overcome the problem. goodbuddy781
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The end of a romantic relationship can be very painful because it involves loss. Coming to terms with the loss of your relationship and your partner is difficult. If the breakup occurred because your confidence was betrayed, you may even feel that you've lost your ability to trust again. Some people remain single for the rest of their lives after experiencing a breakup involving betrayal. However, it's possible to trust again provided you're determined enough to do so. Here are some ways to help find out how. Ponder the Alternative People often find it difficult to trust again after a painful breakup because they're afraid of the same thing happening again. Betrayal generally feels like a sickening kick to the gut, and it's an experience no sane person wishes to repeat. Nonetheless, the alternative to trusting is even more frightening to contemplate. Romantic relationships need trust in order to develop. Thus without trust, there can be no romantic relationship. Do you really want to live the rest of your life without a loving companion by your side? No individual can enjoy living life as a solitary island because human beings are social by nature. Time to Heal If you've just broken up with someone who betrayed you, the last thing you should do is seek a relationship with someone else right away. You need to give yourself time to heal. In order to heal, you'll need to take the time to think about what happened and how it has impacted your life. If you try to sweep it all under the carpet, the issue will become bigger than it really is. If you give what happened due consideration, it should help you to find effective coping strategies. You'll also discover that life goes on, and a cruel betrayal is not the end of the world. Be Patient If you've been betrayed by someone, trusting again will not come easily to you. Hence you should expect a few setbacks and disappointments on your road to recovery. These setbacks are normal, so do not beat yourself up about them. The healing process will take time, and so will learning to trust again. Be Realistic Sometimes a person can end up feeling betrayed because they put too much responsibility on the shoulders of their romantic partner. If you burden someone else with the responsibility of meeting all of your needs, they're bound to let you down sooner or later. Making someone else responsible for your happiness is unfair and unrealistic. First of all, happiness has to come from within. What's more, other people can meet some of your needs. It is not necessary for your romantic partner to be all things to you. You Can Trust After your relationship ends, you may feel that you can't trust others anymore, but that's not strictly true. Most people put their trust in others every day, even if it is just in a small way. Some of the people you trust on a regular basis are actually complete strangers. For instance, when you purchase something in a store, you trust the cashier to give you your change. Similarly you trust your doctor to prescribe the right medications when you have a medical complaint. People have to put their trust in each other every day if they are to get on with the business of living life. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 13 Such a very good suggestion. Though I know nobody's perfect, but I will practice it for my self to find my dream lover  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 12 Oh so true - too many women are willing to settle for less than they are worth and vice versa - this is a well written article that both sexes could learn from  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 11 Perfect is not possible, but we must set boundaries, we must know who we are, and what we want in a potential mate.Have fun, laugh,get to be best friends first,live life in harmony goodbuddy781
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Other comments 10 Great advice. It is helpful when you are out there in the world of singles after being married quite a few years.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 9 If it's not working, get out: Never settle for anything less than what you need in a relationship. Once you resign yourself to mediocrity you won't be able to change it. Life is far too short to let the chance of true happiness with Mr Right escape you. Finding that Knight in shining armour could happen in the next few minutes, or it might take years. Some women may never find him, but that doesn't mean you stop looking for the magic that comes with your perfect man. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 8 What you see is what you get: If you think you can mould a man to meet your needs you will be sorely disillusioned. The behaviour you see is what you'll get and believing you'll change him later is self-defeating. You started out to find your perfect man, not one you could fix.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 7 Know the difference between lust and love: Intimacy draws on strong emotions and these feelings can be mistaken for love. Lust is a short term sensation while love can be forever. If you think you've found the perfect mate, take your time developing that relationship. Sex makes the union special, communication makes it last.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 6 Communicate your needs: Start communicating early in your dating relationship. Sharing your feelings with a man is okay as long as you do it correctly. Do not reveal your intimate feelings too early and never show your feelings in a negative manner. Being open about what you expect in a man and a relationship is a good thing. If you're afraid that honesty will chase him away then he's probably not the man you were looking for in the first place. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 5 Find a friend and let the relationship follow: Do not let your search for the right man consume every waking moment of your life. Relax and enjoy meeting people and making new friends. Remember that it's a search for Mr Right, not a hunt for prey  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Act according to the standards you've set for him: What kind of gentleman will you be attracting if you continuously use foul language? Having a social drink is one thing, getting drunk is something else. Unless you've set the standards for Mr Right very low, take a good look at your habits and mannerisms – and fix those bad ones. Crass or sophistication – it's your choice. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 Go where you would expect to find Mr Right: Go to a bar, get a bar-fly. If your Mr Right is someone responsible and enjoys outdoor activities, you'll not see him sitting in a pub at 2 o'clock on a sunny afternoon. You have to keep asking: "Where would I find my perfect man?" The answer determines where you should be.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Dress to attract the right man: Short skirts and abundant cleavage may catch his eye, but don't expect Prince Charming to take you home to meet mom and dad. You've set the profile of the man you want to catch, so dress the way he'd want his lady to look.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Determine what you really need: What is it that you want in a man? What are your needs in a relationship? This is the time to be brutally honest and make a list of what you must have – not what you're willing to settle on. These can be the obvious physical characteristics, but more importantly, this list has to contain the emotional attributes of the person you want to be with. Not easy questions, but the answers will become the treasure map to your perfect man.  goodbuddy781
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Is there a Mr Right for you? Does the man of your dreams actually exist? Of course - he's just a bit more difficult to locate, that's all. Finding your perfect man is not always easy and the road can be full of disappointment, but your journey can have a fairytale ending if you follow these few simple rules. goodbuddy781
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Get off his social media. Even if you plan to stay friends, take yourself off his social media accounts for now. Seeing pictures of him is just going to hurt you, especially if he starts posting about another woman. When you've given your heart some time to heal, you can always add yourself back. Recognize what was positive in the relationship. You're not leaving this relationship with nothing. You still have good memories of happy times you spent together. Remind yourself to be thankful for those times instead of angry and sad. You also might have learned some lessons about love and life, and that's valuable even if it's hard. Look great. You may feel like moping around the house in sweatpants, but it isn't going to get you anywhere. Give yourself a day or two to wallow in it, and then force yourself to stop. Put on clothes you know look great on you, fix your hair and wear makeup. You are going to feel much better if you are happy with the way you look. A bonus is that if he sees you out and about, he'll remember what he's missing. Be physically active. Laying around on the couch eating ice cream may ease your pain for the moment, but it's going to hurt you in the long run. Instead, battle your sadness with something that's good for you. Go for a hike, jump on your bicycle or ask a friend for a game of tennis. If you're angry, go to the gym and pretend his face is on a punching bag. Do whatever you can to keep moving. Revisit an old hobby or start a new project. Is there something in your life you used to love to do? Maybe you enjoyed painting, building furniture or playing the piano. Or is there a project you've been putting off that you could work on? Being productive and finishing a project will take your mind off your loneliness and give you a sense of accomplishment that will make you feel good. This is the perfect time to remember how much you loved an old hobby. If you don't have anything to go back to, try something new. Take a yoga class, learn to sew or join a softball team. Your goal is to put your positive energy into something that takes your mind off the relationship. Go out with someone new. When you feel ready, accept a date or ask someone out for coffee. Don't start looking for another commitment, but remember that you are attractive and desirable. Keep it light, and have fun flirting with new possibilities. Stop having sex with him. If you are still sleeping with your ex-boyfriend, stop immediately. It relieves the pain for a little while, but it's only going to break your heart over and over again. Intimacy with an ex creates a huge barrier to healing. Don't do that to yourself. Being dumped is a horrible experience, but there are smart ways to get through it with as much positivity as possible. Try these 7 strategies to keep you going after a break-up goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Oh I am full positive energy just running out time...biological clock is rapidly clicking telling me like timer I will so DONE when I reach 40! almost super insane...sigh trying this method...find my other me to complete the crazy circle of life how that hard...hmm its so hard I've been trying all means of dating services and all them failed...help So yawn sleep doh I am still here.. goodbuddy781
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