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Vocabulary Thought I would make an addition of words and phrases and sayings and images that inspire thoughts, imagination and creativity[.t  |
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This is a word and condition that is at the epicenter of all things sexual and kinky for me.
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For ne as well and has been too long since I have been blindfolded.
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I can't decide if I want to be blindfolded or not... My first experience was pretty crap.... "put the blindfold on and leave the door open".. .he said... " It will be fun." .. he said. The bastard never showed up, so I'm led in bed like a complete douche with the blindfold on waiting for the door to shut!! ,,,,, half an hour past the allotted time, I gave up, felt like a right twat! It was his loss because when he asked me to do it again I said not fucking likely 
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10/20/2019 11:39 am |
There has to be trust even without a blindfold. Especially, in our situation, being attached. That is the first and biggest hurdle to get past when finding a lover. Can you trust this person to NOT throw you under a bus and hurt you and others? That is a deeper intimacy then just wearing a blindfold and being vulnerable. I’m sure as we move forward- we will have deeper/Intimate discussions💕 I’m looking forward to getting to know you💋
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from sub's view, it is totally necessary to trust Dom...to give your control to Dom, first you must trust the Dom...but in a way, it works both way....Dom must totally understand the needs of Sub...
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That's the beauty of a true D/s relationship in my humble opinion. Learning and discovering the needs. For me it doesn't begin with sexual needs, but those unique needs that makes the sub a submissive. The needs include a number of aspects including but not limited to, emotional, intellectual and physical. At the core , the submissive has power in giving her submission. That is something that has to be earnex.
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This is a word and condition that is at the epicenter of all things sexual and kinky for me. That's what came out of my mouth after reading this entire post. Thank You For Sharing !!!!!!!!! Happy Sunday!!! This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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That's the beauty of a true D/s relationship in my humble opinion. Learning and discovering the needs. For me it doesn't begin with sexual needs, but those unique needs that makes the sub a submissive. The needs include a number of aspects including but not limited to, emotional, intellectual and physical. At the core , the submissive has power in giving her submission. That is something that has to be earnex. That's the beauty of a true D/s relationship in my humble opinion. Learning and discovering the needs. For me it doesn't begin with sexual needs, but those unique needs that makes the sub a submissive. The needs include a number of aspects including but not limited to, emotional, intellectual and physical. At the core , the submissive has power in giving their submission. That is something that has to be earned. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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Me too, Joy. It's the sensory deprivation, in my humble opinion. I've been experimenting with different sensations, alone. The best experience I had (Non Sexually), was in a Float Spa. You know, a Sensory Deprivation Tank half full of Heavily Salted Water, making one float and feel weightless. It was mind expanding. I can only imagine what that would feel like with someone I trust, sexually.  This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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I can't decide if I want to be blindfolded or not... My first experience was pretty crap.... "put the blindfold on and leave the door open".. .he said... " It will be fun." .. he said. The bastard never showed up, so I'm led in bed like a complete douche with the blindfold on waiting for the door to shut!! ,,,,, half an hour past the allotted time, I gave up, felt like a right twat! It was his loss because when he asked me to do it again I said not fucking likely I'm glad you told him no the next time he asked. My father taught me that Trust is Earned, and Respect Is Given until Lost. I wish the world saw it that way. Happy Sunday! This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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There has to be trust even without a blindfold. Especially, in our situation, being attached. That is the first and biggest hurdle to get past when finding a lover. Can you trust this person to NOT throw you under a bus and hurt you and others? That is a deeper intimacy then just wearing a blindfold and being vulnerable. I’m sure as we move forward- we will have deeper/Intimate discussions💕 I’m looking forward to getting to know you💋 Trust and Communication. Still pretty freaking quick with them fingers, huh? You should hear how fast I can talk. Bwahahahahaa SundayFunday! Happy Sunday! This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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from sub's view, it is totally necessary to trust Dom...to give your control to Dom, first you must trust the Dom...but in a way, it works both way....Dom must totally understand the needs of Sub... Happy Sunday! This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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Absolutely Trust is a two way street regardless of one's status. Couldn't agree more.
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Don't you feel they should trust each other? That should come before any kink, in my humble opinion. Happy Sunday! 
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Absolutely Trust is a two way street regardless of one's status. Couldn't agree more. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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yesss...and to trust, one must start to communicate!!! sooo true...girl... Some people aren't as good of writers as others; some are better creatively than others, and some have other talents. Wouldn't you say that to think that everyone is the same is a ridiculous statement? I talk like a fucking lot, write a lot too. But, in group situations, I'm as quiet as a mouse in person. I'm an introvert, Large Groups Overwhelm Me. One on one? I can keep up with a lot. In groups, unless in the blogs, like now, I struggle to keep up with conversations. There's just so much stimulation and I have ADD that I'm treating naturally without pills. Also, PTSD from bullying. PLUS, I'm an emotional sponge empath who can get too caught up in negative energy if there's not enough positive energy to combat it. I've been doing energy work, still perfecting the craft, but it's had positive results with my maintenance man here in Orlando where I live. Happy Sunday This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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You just have to be straight. Some do it in wroting. Others do it with speech. Some do it nonverbally instead of verbally. And some do it with actions. It doesn't mean exposing your soul and peeling all the layers at once. Honesty is hard sometimes because it requires you to look at yourself and in some cases become vulnerable.
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You just have to be straight. Some do it in wroting. Others do it with speech. Some do it nonverbally instead of verbally. And some do it with actions. It doesn't mean exposing your soul and peeling all the layers at once. Honesty is hard sometimes because it requires you to look at yourself and in some cases become vulnerable. It's many in the rest of the world who struggle with it. I'm a complex creature who has more layers than an onion.  Vulnerable isn't something I struggle with either We, as a society, need to be more vulnerable with each other, in my humble opinion. A Dose of Reality and Authenticity is what's really needed in this world. Wouldn't Y/you Say? Hi Everyone, My name is Deborah legally, but most call me Debbi. Happy Sunday This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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10/20/2019 7:12 pm |
The submissive doesn’t have any power- if he doesn’t exist to the D. The D will entertain other’s- to replace what he/ she is missing. It can be a vicious cycle of control. Which is why- Trust is so important. Can I trust that you will not abuse your power to mentally destroy me? Being a submissive- mentally is just as important as physically. Since, I am dominant in most aspects of my life. I can be submissive- behind closed doors. However, I’m still learning and listening to your words.
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The submissive doesn’t have any power- if he doesn’t exist to the D. The D will entertain other’s- to replace what he/ she is missing. It can be a vicious cycle of control. Which is why- Trust is so important. Can I trust that you will not abuse your power to mentally destroy me? Being a submissive- mentally is just as important as physically. Since, I am dominant in most aspects of my life. I can be submissive- behind closed doors. However, I’m still learning and listening to your words. AT all Times. They can change their mind It's the mistake that's often made, in my humble opinion. I, too, can be very dominant. Pushy Even. I'm working towards balance, I'm a natural peacemaker. (Middle Child) It's not always easy, as I've been ignored most of my life. And, I feel people should listen to what I have to say, because though some of it is silly, much of what I'm saying can bring one peace. If they just pay attention. I like to have fun with the best of them. But, Sometimes, I like to feed the soul.. the belly... the mind.... the darkness... the light.... and sometimes, I just want to make people laugh. I don't see things all one way. Life is not all about one thing Unless you're talking Love and Peace. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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The submissive has the power to say no. AT all Times. They can change their mind It's the mistake that's often made, in my humble opinion. I, too, can be very dominant. Pushy Even. I'm working towards balance, I'm a natural peacemaker. (Middle Child) It's not always easy, as I've been ignored most of my life. And, I feel people should listen to what I have to say, because though some of it is silly, much of what I'm saying can bring one peace. If they just pay attention. I like to have fun with the best of them. But, Sometimes, I like to feed the soul.. the belly... the mind.... the darkness... the light.... and sometimes, I just want to make people laugh. I don't see things all one way. Life is not all about one thing Unless you're talking Love and Peace. I agree. The submissive holds the power with either a yes or no. A great deal of groundwork has to be done to get to that point.
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10/21/2019 8:47 am |
I guess I have never experienced the power of someone saying No. In all my sexual relationships- I have had the power of control. Even when he/she thinks they have control- I allow it. I never experienced a power struggle. I give, I receive and I am pleased. I’m not sure I am even willing to learn. It’s just who I am. I enjoy your writing - it excites me! 💕💕
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I guess I have never experienced the power of someone saying No. In all my sexual relationships- I have had the power of control. Even when he/she thinks they have control- I allow it. I never experienced a power struggle. I give, I receive and I am pleased. I’m not sure I am even willing to learn. It’s just who I am. I enjoy your writing - it excites me! 💕💕 But you'd like to relinquish some of that control? Maybe you just need to make a few baby steps in that direction. Sounds like you need a good mentor and Domto help with that process. 😉
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IGood Morning Debbie. I agree. The submissive holds the power with either a yes or no. A great deal of groundwork has to be done to get to that point. Peace! I know what you mean. In my distant past, I jumped headfirst into relationship D/s and otherwise that were NOT good for me. I'm slowly moving past the pain of it all., though. I just need time. I'm working on a relationship right now with someone I love and trust implicitly. He's a Good Man. Storm We have been laying the foundation work since his birthday last year. Happy Monday This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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I guess I have never experienced the power of someone saying No. In all my sexual relationships- I have had the power of control. Even when he/she thinks they have control- I allow it. I never experienced a power struggle. I give, I receive and I am pleased. I’m not sure I am even willing to learn. It’s just who I am. I enjoy your writing - it excites me! 💕💕 Look, I have a story here, it's going to be a super long one though. Bwahahaha Dear Lort, I'm a wordy woman. I'm cracking up here. Sorry Hold On I don't have to look at a keyboard....my eyes are watering. I crack myself up "Geek in the Pink" By Jason Mraz I can save you from unoriginal dumb dums They Hype is Nothing but the HooHah Soul I'm Developing My Own Language Here We Could Be The Talk Across The Town You Might Regret What You Let Slip Away I'M The Geek In The Pink Dear Lort, I Love My Brain!!!!!! This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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