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Flirting?  

101daydream 58M
20 posts
10/19/2019 12:02 pm
Flirting?


I'm trying to understand flirting. Also is it different went its women flirting with men compared to men flirting with women? Does it matter if they are 60 or 600 miles from you? Does age or age groups matter ? You have anything else that helps please post it . Thank you All

AnewWoman 65F
273 posts
10/19/2019 1:04 pm

Common sense should make you ask, Why would this person be interested in me? You are actually pointing out another good reason being a standard member sucks since you can't even view the flirter's profile to verify anything.


Allforfun69ing 51M
9 posts
10/19/2019 1:23 pm

Find out if u have things in common. Exchange face pics and hope to at least meet them for drinks. Then if all good have fun.


Allforfun69ing 51M
9 posts
10/19/2019 1:24 pm

I get flirts from all over the world lol. I must be either awsome person or there bots. I vote bots lol


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/19/2019 1:46 pm

Flirting is an age old tradition, it really doesn't matter if your 18 or 100. Flirting should be enjoyed by one and all and no matter how close or far apart two people are. It's also another form of communication with those you want to get to know better. Great question and have a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
10/19/2019 3:39 pm

The flirt feature is designed to get you to pay for the site.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/19/2019 5:09 pm

    Quoting  :

if they can flirt, they can send a message.. ... If the psychology of the online-flirt is the same as the off-line flirt. Then the online-flirt is to see if you do want to message to each other.

Doesn't really matter if they are outside of you "Local area".


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/19/2019 5:17 pm

I'm trying to understand flirting. ... You're 54 and don't understand flirting? That's pretty sad.

Also is it different went its women flirting with men compared to men flirting with women? .... Yes, it can be separate/different objectives.

Does it matter if they are 60 or 600 miles from you? ... No. Better, though, if they are real and close by.

Does age or age groups matter ? .... No. To some, that may matter, but I don't know why it would matter. A flirt is a flirt.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/19/2019 6:11 pm

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Okay sure... but why should he waste the time typing out a message, when a flirt is good enough and simple enough to see if there is any interest from you.

Sure, offline, in a social setting a man may just come up to you and start talking to you, but at the same time, there is nothing wrong with the man, if he , from a distance , flirts with you [makes eye contact, winks/smiles at you], to see if you're at all interested.


Ilfix4u 70M
60 posts
10/19/2019 6:59 pm

I agree with ( Heathen-G ) A flirt is a way off getting someone's attention , If they come back and look at your profile then they have shown interest, then the ice is broken now you can start messaging .


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/20/2019 1:58 am

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Them looking at your profile doesn't indicate interest. It indicates they want to look at your profile to determine IF they're interested. .... Tell that to the women.

Plus, you have to consider that many women view profiles invisibly, so you'd never know they viewed your profile. ... There there really isn't anything to consider.

men see you viewers [women view] them and automatically assume the woman is interested. .... The assumption isn't completely wrong.

Anyway...back to flirting. This is what people do to determine interest .


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/22/2019 5:17 pm

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What purpose does it serve to tell women something they already know? ....Never said a man should tell a woman something she already knows. She been getting the "Obvious" from males since she hit puberty.


And, yes, there is something to consider, considering I wasn't speaking to you. ... Doesn't matter. This is a public forum...and I am certainly speaking to you.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/23/2019 2:35 am

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-Where did I say that a man should tell a woman something she already knows?.... You asked, and I said that in response.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/23/2019 1:14 pm

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"Incorrect".


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