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Not a poor man's dating site.  

ThisWorksRight0 29M
5 posts
8/6/2019 11:02 pm
Not a poor man's dating site.


Any way to earn points other than filling out profile information?
I have no problem either buying points or going gold but if I don't have to I'd much rather earn points.

Any ideas or help?

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/6/2019 11:44 pm

Blog posts are one way.


Fem76033 41F
284 posts
8/7/2019 1:41 am

if you click on where it says points it gives you a list of how to earn them...

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Fem76033 41F
284 posts
8/7/2019 1:41 am

Accounts
Top Fans Message your Top Fans (earn 10% of top bids) Variable
Receive a Buzz 25 pts
Upload a Photo (200 points max) 20 pts
Upload a Video (200 points max) 20 pts
Update Status (100 points max) 1 pt
Complete Profile Introduction Section (20 points max) 20 pts
Answer Each 'Additional Question' 1 pt
VIP Membership 500 pts
Blogs
Create a Blog Post (Approved posts / 100 points max) 20 pts
Comment on a Blog Post (Approved comments / 100 points max) 10 pts
Magazine
Add an Article (100 points max) 20 pts
Reply to Questions (100 points max) 5 pts
Vote on Replies to Questions (100 points max) 5 pts
Vote on Article (100 points max) 5 pts
Referrals
Friend Registers (2,000 points max)
Get points for each of your referrals to 04j.com. Click here to get a link to tell your friends. 100 pts
Friend Registers and Upgrades Get those same friends to upgrade to a Gold or Silver membership and you'll earn even more points! 2000 pts
Groups
Create a Group Post (100 points max) 10 pts
Comment on a Group Post (100 points max) 5 pts
Others
Post Comments on Photos & Videos (200 points max) 2 pts
Post Comments on Status (200 points max) 2 pts
Liking (photo, status or video) (50 points max) 1 pt
Responding to an Initial Message (100 points max) 5 pts
Reading Message With Flowers/Virtual Gifts 25 pts
Sell Bling (Upload up to 400)

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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/7/2019 10:38 am

I have plenty of points to get free gold. But, they want a personal I.D. Such as driver license, passport or other. I refuse to post a personal I.D. On this site. Too risky.


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
8/7/2019 6:35 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I have plenty of points to get free gold. But, they want a personal I.D. Such as driver license, passport or other. I refuse to post a personal I.D. On this site. Too risky.
They say that they won't use your personal ID on the site, but it sounds a bit bogus to me.

Just for S & G, I've sent in a pic of my license held up to my face, so they can clearly see it's me, three times now. Every time it has been rejected, so I'm not so certain this offered feature ("Get Certified") is all that it's cracked up to be.

They had no issue with a "verified photo" of me, however.


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