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Why do people cancel last minute?  

Mchamplain10Ver2 52M
18 posts
7/3/2019 11:54 am
Why do people cancel last minute?


Is it me? Am I really the asshole everyone says I am? Maybe?? Lol

I guess it's a big first step to just bare yourself to some guy or girl for the first time. Maybe the fantasy is much better than actually meeting. All I know is I try to do what I say and say what I do. Who could ask for more?

Any thoughts? Hopefully I haven't let anyone down.

tootsandcowboy 56M/50F  
17 posts
7/3/2019 12:37 pm

be realistic,if a person/couple has one pic and the face is blurred they're not going to meet...same as a couple profile with 12 dick pics and no wife lol


Arij7777 29M

7/3/2019 1:04 pm

Aow


Mchamplain10Ver2 52M

7/3/2019 1:22 pm

Very true. but the fakes aside a lot of real profiles can't commit. Mostly married guys on here hiding in the closet just wanting a taste of forbidden fruit. It may just be hard to take a step and reach for that cock you've been craving. Was a big step for me I must say.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/3/2019 1:28 pm

The attention people recieve here generally fulfills
most validation criteria.So there really is no need
to take any unnecessary risks.Anonymity creates
a very palpable suspicion.

Using more than all the road!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/3/2019 1:41 pm

Why do people cancel last minute? A good question but you failed to state the situation. If you are like others who make the same claim there is often a reason why they don't state the situation.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


dogslife2live01 72M

7/3/2019 2:01 pm

original question... sorry for the standard reply

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
7/3/2019 2:02 pm

I don't have a clue..I just got stood up yesterday.. he actually cancel when I'm already on my way.
and this is not even a date,,,only for sex.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/3/2019 2:08 pm

Because their mouth overloads their ass and their portrayed confidence is non existent. They get cold feet.


Mchamplain10Ver2 52M

7/3/2019 2:39 pm

Well said nostalgic68. As for the ladies same here been stood up just after paying for a motel room. At least we know were not alone, cold comfort.


Mchamplain10Ver2 52M

7/3/2019 4:38 pm

No I get what your saying Big but they never follow up after the hot chat and blah blah blah meaning they never meant to go through with it. I'm not trying to be negative because I jump right back on the horse and take another shot. I'm just saying if chat is all they want then just be up front.


Mchamplain10Ver2 52M

7/3/2019 5:15 pm

You are wise beyond your years Bigg. It turns me on wanna talk dirty? JUST JOKING!! No your points are valid. Just hoping for a little honesty on a dishonest website I guess. Maybe i'll have to go back to "fetlife" all the pervs know they're pervs there.


NaughtyAuntie69 66F  
16 posts
7/3/2019 5:40 pm

"The people who talk about it the most do it the least"

True words applicable to many subjects

Naughty Mature HotWife in the 805
NaughtyAuntie69


Mchamplain10Ver2 52M

7/4/2019 4:21 am

Very true Naughty. Brings us back to the big talkers. I've decided that being on the dominant side of things I have to take what I want. It almost easier to get into peoples heads and convince them they need to fuck me. They can't seem to make up their own mind. Problem is some people just want to be spanked, abused.... and no real sex. You have to be flexible and give the people what they want.


Mchamplain10Ver2 52M

8/10/2019 4:02 am

People seem to go quickly from nervous excitement to just nervous and then back out. Not a problem if they don't leave the person hanging.


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