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Blogs > rm_bri28ma > buff geek in C-ville, VA

The real world  

rm_bri28ma 47M
186 posts
1/9/2007 4:20 am

Last Read:
3/13/2007 5:22 pm
The real world

I hate to bitch and moan, into cyber space even more than in real life, but this is just silly! I really appreciate the comment I get during cam shows and emails that I get through 04j.com complimenting me, but there's a huge disjoint between those comments onnile and the interactions I have with people in the real world.
I'm pretty sure it's not me...I'm friendly and outgoing...hell, I'm downright flirty most of the time! I rarely get a smile out of people though, let alone some fun flirty banter or body language. Have we forgotten how to flirt??? Now, I know people can hook up. You just go to a bar or a club, get-drunk-off-your-ass-so-you-can't-think-about-what-you're-doing and just find someone to fuck. But what ever happened to all that middle stuff? The chase...the courtship? Even if it's not romantic, where has the passion gone from our lives?
Online, sure, people are bold and outgoing...does this mean we've all developed online alter-egos for ourselves that hide behind our mousy real-life selves? If you can't tell, I have a real problem with that and I strive to be as consistant in my personality as possible, no matter what the venue.
But what about you? Do you have an online alter ego? Do you find that the anonymity of cyber space gives you the freedom to be who you "really" are?...or are you openly flirty and sexual in real life as well. If so, how do people receive your advances?

rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
1/11/2007 5:03 am

 Play-
I know there are a few good, real folks out there...and you're one of them! Please do look me up if you get down here . Hugs n gropes

-B


skierchick 60F
3948 posts
1/21/2007 6:02 am

 B,
so great to catch up with you last night. Ur so damn sexy! I can't imagine why the women in GA aren't flirting with you. Wearing a ring on your finger by any chance? That will impact the flirt factor.
SkierChick


rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
1/21/2007 12:11 pm

 Skier-
I know...talk about a blast from the past. I wear my ring from time to time, but since I dor work with my hands I often don't just to keep it safe. I don't know what it is. I've even had one woman who I asked say that I was intimidating. me?!?!?!?!? Who'dve thunk, huh? Maybe I need some outspoken, ballsy New Englanders down here to show these polite southern belles how it's done ! HUGSSS babe! -Bri


damncookies 35F
7 posts
3/8/2007 7:17 am

 I think a lot of people do hide in the internet, because it is where you can be whatever you want to be. I am the same person I always am, but that is because I hate fake people and people who try to act like something they're not. People might find you intimidating because you are so hot they get tounge-tied when you are talking to them . I don't know what else to tell you hun other than good luck.


rm_bri28ma 47M
352 posts
3/13/2007 5:22 pm

 Cookies...thanks babe...it's been great talking to ya! Kisses allll over! -b


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