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Xdstephanie 67T

5/25/2019 11:48 am

Here to be myself without ridicule or abuse, I crossdress to relieve my anxiety xx


Timetraveler2 60M  
159 posts
5/25/2019 12:01 pm

We all have our reasons for being here, and they can change over time. This is an Adult social media site, and how we interact with other members is our own business. I just wish there were not so many scammers on here. The active bloggers are the best/truest people around.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
5/25/2019 12:01 pm

Mainly to interact If there was a local (to me here or in the UK) person who wanted to meet me, I'd be open to that. I've made a few virtual friends who are fun to talk with. The site is also a bit of an eye-opener: it is also (to 90 not a swinger site since swingers do not interact in the rude and inconsiderate manner of many (manly men) here and swinging is always based on mutual respect.


1just4fun61 63M

5/25/2019 12:07 pm

I'm here for a lot of reasons, and everyone should be on here for what ever makes them happy or horny.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/25/2019 12:29 pm

You know hun you have EVERY RIGHT to be here as much as any of us do. And ignore the naysayers, maybe they are jealous as it does run rampant here on the site. I am not here to meet up with anyone but FRIENDS here now as I have been there and done that!! I hope you are enjoying a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
5/25/2019 12:36 pm

You say only here to blog and then "Ignore my profile below."

In profile below you say you want to meet.
I think you send a mixed message by keeping that part of your profile up.

You know they don't read all of a profile and pick out the words they want to see. Then ignore others like the very first sentence about NOT meeting.

You have a great body and many guys who want to "hook up" will hope you'll change your mind about them. Dreamers!


ericasatin 69T
529 posts
5/25/2019 12:55 pm

Been on here for many years now. Here to meet and chat with others like myself. Met some very nice people and some that are rude.Keep posting your pics. I think you have a very nice body.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/25/2019 1:19 pm

People can be here for whatever reason they want to be. It is really no one elses business. However, being clear on why you are here and having that on your profile is a good idea for everyone here. If someone can't understand and/or handle that it is their problem.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/25/2019 2:29 pm

I am here for my own reasons and surely do not think I have to spell them all out in my profile. I have learned to ignore the rudeness and know where my delete and block functions are. Most of the "complainers" have very thin profiles(if any at all). Be here the way you wan to be. Let it make you happy and keep growing.

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
5/25/2019 3:00 pm

Just ignore them, people can be here for whatever reason they want. they dont have right to question whoever. I just gave up my gold membership and stop looking for sex at the moment. but I loveeee blogging and reading blogs...therefore thats my main reason in 04j.com now....


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
5/25/2019 3:23 pm

At first I was here to possibly meet people, but that didn't pan out, so now I'm here to read blogs and write blogs myself.
When I blog on this site, I can write freely about sexual type stuff that I wouldn't write on other social-platforms.


ltrlover1 66M

5/25/2019 3:50 pm

I completely agree with Imthatgirl, reading the blogs give a lot of insight as to what others want and see in themselves without hesitation, they can be open and real, thats a pleasant thing

baffled


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
5/25/2019 5:34 pm

This is a good ole world and it allows us to do almost anything we want to here, what ever your reason for being here is YOUR business, WHAT you post is your business , Just like people that don't like a certain TV program, Man turn the channel!!! No one forcing you to watch, move on..

I have likes and dislikes as all of us do , but I don't let something get in my way if I can just simply walk around it!!! These people need to get a real life and stop letting their petty issues bother them and others..

I hope you have a good holiday, be safe if you travel...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


NotPikachu 40M

5/25/2019 6:43 pm

I'm here to get my pika chu'd


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
5/25/2019 7:11 pm

I'm mainly use 04j.com as a time waster. When I'm on I'm usually also watching sports or something on TV. I read some blogs, perv some pics and videos, check out the group posts and sometimes I read a few articles. When I have tried to interact, most women don't even respond or I'll get a "don't bother me." I think the majority of people on here have zero interest in meeting. The site has gone way downhill from what it was a few years ago.


Justsittinhere06 61M

5/25/2019 7:44 pm

I like being on here for all the above reasons. Lots of variety.


Fukm3nowallrite 53M

5/25/2019 7:54 pm


Azbear1969 54M
85 posts
5/25/2019 11:14 pm

I first got on 04j.com a long time ago mainly to chat with people. It was until my second time returning to 04j.com that I got around to looking to meet, and did meet some wonderful people. My third return to 04j.com was to meet others, which I have and to actually try and start writing erotic stories. I don’t judge people being on here for whatever their reason for being here is.


old_stick 62M
83 posts
5/25/2019 11:50 pm

It saddens to me that you need to put this question out there. Whatever reasons, other than malicious ones, should be accepted. It may be an adult site but respect must still apply!


Pal4Perks 63M

5/26/2019 2:00 am

I joined this site to meet people. If I wanted chat, videos, and fake friends, I would have joined Facebook. The cams girls are a waste of time, and money.


Pal4Perks 63M

5/26/2019 2:17 am

I'm on this site to meet people for sex. All of the side shows on this site are monetary extracting distractions. Focus folks, none of you joined this site for the side shows. The side shows are why 90 percent of profiles are fake. As of this moment this postings poll, says on 23 of 99 have a priority to meet someone. So, approximately 2.5 percent of the people on here are real, and trying to meet someone, anyone else that is real, is distracted. Sad!


jasonarg3 40M
80 posts
5/26/2019 3:07 am

Why do people think they have the right to question u..do what makes u happy..F*** the rest xx


jasonarg3 40M
80 posts
5/26/2019 3:09 am

Why do people think they have the right to question you..do what makes u happy hun xx


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/26/2019 4:37 am

There are many reasons to ignore people here.....and out there. There are as many reasons for being here as there are people in the world. Noone needs to or should judge another for......any.....reason. As noone lives in anothers shoes. We all have our reasons, be it public or private, and we will explain those reasons ( or not ) with those that we feel comfortable with. Its all about building relations, in my book....and NOT about sex, as that will come, and can come anytime we choose. Carry on in whichever way makes you grow ~~


dangpkin1 28M
22 posts
5/26/2019 5:51 am

here to enjoy the virtual side


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