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AFF frustrations (Men who don't want to lick pussy)  

Madhatter8775 48F
11 posts
11/6/2018 9:56 am
AFF frustrations (Men who don't want to lick pussy)


This is my second time being on 04j.com with a 15 year gap in between and boy has a lot changed. No longer is it easy to meet someone that is honestly interested in finding a FWB or at times just meeting the person. My first time on 04j.com I made a lot of very good friends that I still speak to even though we have moved on with our lives. I also met one very special guy that stole my heart in more than one way, to bad we grew apart.

Why is it so hard to find a guy that would like to be with a fun loving, smart, sexy, funny, passionate, affectionate woman for more that just one encounter? Why is it so hard for men to put their mouths on a pussy and take the time to make a woman cum? You want me to put your dick in my mouth and swallow your cum, but you can't take 10 or 15 minutes to lick my clit?? You say that pleasuring a woman is what you long to do and that you will do whatever it takes, LIARS!!!!

So I have decided to move on to women to see if I have any better luck here, well I can't honestly give an accurate assessment because I have just started to look but I am not getting my hopes high. I do not have much experience with women but I would love to find someone that will allow me to explore, guide me in the right direction and be patient.

Here is to wishing everyone Good Luck in finding what it is that you are looking for on the hamster wheel called 04j.com!!

dctshane2 36M
1 post
11/6/2018 10:06 am

You just have to find someone that loves it and can get off on eating pussy alone.... like me


benard69 66M/66F  

11/6/2018 2:30 pm

Well with about 20 actual women on her it might be another 15 years before you get that clit licked correctly...


johns_folly 64M

11/6/2018 9:44 pm

10-15 minutes, is that all? I can spend quite a few minutes enjoying a womans pussy making her thrash and cum multiple times. It ain't bragging when you know what you're doing and do it right.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

11/6/2018 10:09 pm

I have pretty much accepted that this is not someplace you should be looking to meet people in person, the ones who frequent the site anymore are much more interested in cyber with people who will never meet them. Also not my first time around and a whole lot has changed

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Dontwantsameol 46M
58 posts
11/7/2018 2:49 pm

Wow my wife tells me not too.... she says that's gets old all the time. As for this site good luck it never works right and most of the people are either made up by the site or people just trying to make money. ( that's been my opinion)


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
11/9/2018 11:18 am

I would say it's actually a valid preference for a man to not want to lick pussy. That said, such a man has *no* business demanding that a woman suck his cock. I have heard there are women who prefer to give fellatio but don't like receiving cunnilingus. Boggles my mind, as I enjoy cunnilingus very much.

I wasn't on this site years ago (signed up in 2011, then forgot about it for a while), so I don't know how it used to be. But it's definitely really frustrating that so many men who messaged me seem to not understand that FWB means *friends* with benefits. They want to jump right to the benefits, ugh.


Madhatter8775 replies on 11/9/2018 3:17 pm:
I totally agree, I think that is going to be the topic of my next blog. The difference between NSA and FWB.

rockhardcock2005 55M

12/1/2018 7:36 pm

I would love to lick you and worship your body with my mouth


justingone66666 43M

1/18/2019 1:18 am

As a man I find it that another man who doesn't go down on a woman is an absolute disgrace and she's not even have that woman's time or company. Eating pussy is the best thing in the world I don't care what you say


Ricktouches 69M
1 post
2/17/2019 4:55 am

Never give up on the search for good sex.


fogelfun39 57M
43 posts
6/21/2019 5:30 pm

I was raised with the concept of "ladies first" and that has carried over to adult activities as well. It's just common courtesy


randa91 56M/54F  
3 posts
10/19/2019 6:01 am

I spend a lot of time going down on my wife. I love it...especially when it gets so wet it's hard to hold on...lol


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