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Helping those who are less experienced?...  

Wtng2suckU 37F
49 posts
7/8/2019 6:30 am
Helping those who are less experienced?...

So I have had a few encounters lately with guys who clearly have no idea what they are doing. I can feel how much they want to please, they just don’t know how. This made me think... maybe it’s my job to help them learn/improve?

I am definitely a unicorn, I cum easily and NEED to please my partner. Maybe that would help in situations such as this because 1) they would be able to get me off and feel accomplished, 2) hopefully I could make them feel comfortable, and if anything I know I could please them, that might make them more willing to “learn” and not take it as me telling they a horrible and don’t know what they are doing. Not that I feel that anyway, I just don’t want them to be discouraged. I want them to build their confidence.

This made me think of all the times guys have told me that I should teach how to suck cock.... maybe I could help men and women...

I know It would take time and money to become a licensed sex therapist, both of which I don’t really have at the moment. Thought I would bring this discussion here and see if anyone had any thoughts or ideas...??

Thanks babes!

❤️

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
7/8/2019 9:49 am


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
7/8/2019 10:14 am

 You may want to emphasize that you want to show him how to please YOU.

The biggest variable with man/woman sex is how a woman feels during an encounter. It's all over the place. Some are super comfortable, loud, orgasmic and very in the moment. Others, are self-conscious, reserved and require a relaxed, patient partner.

You may have come across partners who are simply not used to a woman like you. So please make sure you explain that the pointers are only about getting you off since every woman is different and doesn't come with a set of instructions.

Keep it light is my suggestion.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


matto0827 49M
4 posts
7/12/2019 6:57 pm

 I had that same problem in the past. What worked for me was a little foreplay. She let me slowly undress her piece by piece copping a feel in all the right places. I became more relaxed and I was able to give her a great time.


blackhammerohio 44M
16 posts
8/14/2019 9:43 pm

 How many guys and BBC is what u need


rm_cndycne4u2 49M
234 posts
8/19/2019 12:04 pm

 I'ld like to have sex with you.And have you tell me what to do.


marksmaker3754 44M
48 posts
9/3/2019 8:31 am

 sounds like a delicious endevour


JonnyCanuck76 48M
12 posts
9/23/2019 2:37 pm

 I think you would make a great teacher! i know I'd listen.


releaseme2u 57M  
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31 posts
5/5/2020 12:04 am

 I'd love to be your student.


thetrueenigmia 31M
5 posts
8/19/2020 10:01 am

 I think this would be a very worthwhile endeavor! There are plenty of folks who struggle with this aspect of their lives and someone who can point them along in a gentle way is needed! For me personally, the first intimate relationship I had was with a woman who taught me because I had a willing attitude and I wanted to please her. From that relationship I built up confidence in myself, learned to really pay attention to my partners body and know what they like or dislike and has made my sex life one of intimacy and understanding with my partners and I.

All this to say YES! I believe you would be fantastic in the role! =D


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