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2/18/2020 3:34 pm |
Heathen_G, "This is a sex site. Men get on this site to find sex...with whatever, and for what ever strange reason , some of them seem to be contacting you for sex." Stop dodging my questions! Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog??? Suck down your ego for once and admit guilt. You'll be much more respected if you do, because the mountains of fact, proof, evidence and source outweigh what you merely "claim", "theorize", "want", "wish, "hope" and ignorantly bypass all of the factual evidence that YOU'RE WRONG about the overall various purposes this site offers to it's members! There is no "strange reason" of why these losers are contacting me. The only reasons they are contacting me is exactly what I have been telling you from the beginning..... * They are clueless of what this site is. * They are ignorant/lazy and don't bother to read corporate bulletin of what this site is upon joining. * They are ignorant/lazy and don't bother reading profiles PRIOR to contacting anyone. To show you just how ignorant and lazy men are, I sit here with my IM open to see if my one friend comes online (to then email with him). As I have sat here for the past half hour, I'm literally counting 23 men (who are ALL premium and paying Gold members here who have the ability to read profiles) on my IM's inbox all contacting me and expecting answers and replies, even though my profile clearly describes to every one of them that I have no points and that I cannot IM anyone due to that fact. It's undeniable proof that laziness and ignorance are absolute and positive factors of why nothing at all works on this site for anyone at all, which is why nearly no real women exist, reply to men (even if they can) or meet. As I've told you before, we all sign up on site with identical odds and identical chances for whatever we seek of relevancy. It in everyone's conduct once you're on here which will determine anyone's level of success at anything. To those who wish to be lazy/ignorant, you'll gain poor reputation, earn hate, be exposed, chase women off, etc... To those who bring their A-game, you'll find much better odds, earn respect, gain reputation and be liked throughout the community. Choice is all of ours. "Stop whining about this. Stop bitching about this... Stay or leave.... but again, you are on a sex site." Learn how to read! I've already previously told you that I'm not whining, that this is not ONLY a sex site and that I'm staying because I have my reasons here which the site also offers to it's members.
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Attn :Rochblue.... Stay or leave ... But do stop bitching and complaining about men contacting you.....this is a sex site. They are on the appropriate site to seek sex, even with you.
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2/19/2020 11:08 am |
Heathen_G, "Attn :Rochblue.... Stay or leave ... But do stop bitching and complaining about men contacting you.....this is a sex site. They are on the appropriate site to seek sex, even with you." Now you're just being a nitwit. Third time telling you: Staying on this site. Been here for 20+ years and for various things over that time period. Not going anywhere and have a firm understanding of what this site is, what it's design is for and for who the site offers it services to. If men would have respect, decency and an ounce of brains, then I'd have no reason to complain about it, would I? Food for thought there, sonny. Like clockwork, I see you dodge the questions I continually ask you. Why? Because you knew that if you truthfully answered them, then you'd be contradicting everything that you keep misrepresenting this site to be as solely a "sex site". You're nothing more than a coward. You refuse to drop your ego or to admit guilt, so instead you repeatedly table-turn, accuse, dodge questions and point fingers at me instead. How childish! Giving you yet another chance to answer these questions directly, as I stated several times above. Here it goes: Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog??? Now answer them. "They are on the appropriate site to seek sex, even with you." You have the mentality of a snail. Sure, for those people who come here seeking sex, you're absolutely right...they've come to an appropriate site for that kind of thing IF THEY ARE CONTACTING RELEVANT PEOPLE FOR RELEVANT REASONS PER THAT SEARCH!!!!!! Hello!!! They are NOT contacting a RELEVANT person for RELEVANT reasons if they are reaching out to me for sex when my profile clearly tells them contrary of that!!! See the difference there???? Example: How far do you think a straight man is going to get if he's contacting a lesbian for sex? Nada! It lacks RELEVANCY! Example: How far do you think a white male is going to get if a woman claims she strictly ONLY has interest in black men? Nada! It lacks RELEVANCY! Example: How far do you think a 65 year old male is going to get if a woman claims she strictly ONLY has interest in men who are 40 and under? Nada! It lacks RELEVANCY! Example: How far do you think a male is going to get if he's seeking ONLY sex and is IRRELEVANTLY contacting a woman who strictly ONLY has interest in socializing/online-only activities on site? Nada! It lacks RELEVANCY! Maybe some day you'll wake up and understand this simple concept. No RELEVANCY? No chance! No contact! Simple! "Even with me"? See, that's what you can't yet wrap your head around, no matter how many fucking times I sit here explaining it! My profile specifically says I'm not here for sex. Duh! Therefore, I'm not a potential option, if in fact a certain member is coming to this site for sex and has an initial interest in me. Once he reads my profile, it tells him that. Case fucking closed. She's off the market and is on site for the online-only things. This means that for someone seeking sex, bypass her because she's telling you on her profile that: A. ) She's ONLY here to socialize. B .) She's NOT here to meet. C .) That her profile is kept up to date at all times and if that were to ever change, so would the criteria! What the fuck are you NOT understanding? You're like the biggest nitwit on this site. No wonder it doesn't work for anyone when people like you roam around cluelessly!
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Staying on this site. Been here for 20+ years ... Then high time for a break. Join a gym, work out for 5 or so years. have a firm understanding of what this site is, ... Your understanding has some cobwebs. If men would have respect, ... Men have respect to give, but only if respect is earned. You are not earning respect. However, you do have to respect the site. You keep saying, "Only"... I have not when trying to convey to you why men are mostly on this site. [If men would have] decency and an ounce of brains, .... That for one, is disrespectful. Nobody is going to give you respect talking that way. then I'd have no reason to complain about it, would I? ... Your complaining, is unreasonable for this site, as I've informed you before. you keep misrepresenting this site to be as solely a "sex site". ... See , there you go again, thinking this "Soley/only" a sex site. I've never said that this site is as such, but have informed you to be aware that this site is a sex site, and "Sex" is pretty much why most men are here. Sure, for those people who come here seeking sex, you're absolutely right. ... Yes, I know I'm right. They are NOT contacting a RELEVANT person for RELEVANT reasons if they are reaching out to me for sex when my profile clearly tells them contrary of that!!! .... You're on the site, you are fair game for them to take a chance. Don't like it? Go find another kind of site. Without taking a chance, the result will always be "Nada". So much better to take a chance, against relevancy. My profile specifically says I'm not here for sex. Duh! ... Doesn't matter. You're here. They're going to contact. Duh! case closed.
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2/21/2020 12:44 pm |
Heathen_G, Ut oh. Here comes the childish retort now, once you've realized you've been backed into a corner and without a factual, logical explanation that can justify your fictional mentality. Plan B: Retort and start silly, childish and off-topic slurs to feed your ego, rather to simply admit guilt and facts as they are at face value. You are precisely the problem of what's wrong in society and on this very site. "Then high time for a break. Join a gym, work out for 5 or so years." Wrong. I actually do gym several times weekly and use this site as a form of socializing and entertainment purposes, just like hundreds of millions others do on the FFN. Know purpose. "Your understanding has some cobwebs." Wrong again! It's your understanding that entirely has cobwebs. Read! Comprehend! If the site itself that you are on here specifically says it's purpose CAN be used for personals reasons and CAN be used for social media/networking reasons and that it IS a combined site for such purposes, then that DOES NOT mean that it is ONLY designed for the intent of sex/hookups ONLY. What don't you still understand there? Even if we were to determine if this is a personals-only site (which it isn't)....even then in that one category, people would still have various avenues, options and reasons of what they were seeking here in many different forms.....sure, some might be here for sex (obviously), but others seek in-person friendships, love, companionship, romance and things like that, too. However, it's way more than that. This site offers so much to all kinds of people for all kinds of reasons. I'm just sorry that you're too thick-headed to comprehend and realize that 700+ million members on the FFN are not all here seeking solely sex. It's you who has the cobwebs. "Men have respect to give, but only if respect is earned. You are not earning respect. However, you do have to respect the site." Wrong! The vast majority of men on this site have zero respect! That's a blatant fact. I agree with what you're saying, though. My own quote that I constantly use with others is "give respect, get respect". As I have told you before, you are not seeing things from a woman's perspective here on site. That's the problem! You're theorizing things, not basing it off of what we're seeing and dealing with as women here on site from our experiences here with others. You cannot have both sides battling over earning respect, while neither can do so because of the battle. There has to be balance. You talk to me nice, I talk to you nice. You write me for the right reasons, we establish friendship. You talk to me like a respectful human being and as a woman, and I'll bend over backwards to make sure you're a loyal friend. Turn on me and mistreat me, you'll not only get the verbal repercussions of it, but you'll also earn the hate, get exposed publicly for your idiocy and will earn yourself a poor reputation to other members and community watchers on this site to those few available women who actually do exist here. Like I said before, we each sign up on this site as an equal. We all have identical odds and chances for whatever we come here seeking and it's all upon how one chooses their conduct which will determine their fate. It's honestly a very simple concept. Respect the site? The site itself earns no respect. Again, I have been here for 20+ years and the complete transformation of this site only tells me that it's a greedy and corrupt business. What's more, how do you actually earn respect for a site when it has the terrible history linked to it's fairly recent past in lawsuits, security breaches and things like that? Research it if you don't know what I'm talking about. Again, for my simplistic purposes here, I'm simply riding things out and utilizing this site's freebie options until eventually every single thing about this site cracks down into a payment. You don't earn public respect by making a site which is illusioned to be for the purpose of bringing people together, when in fact all that it's doing is contrary to purposely dividing and making it an impossibility for people to unite via business, money and sheer greed. "That for one, is disrespectful. Nobody is going to give you respect talking that way." I'm generalizing in that comment. Again, each individual determine's his/her fate around here per their conduct. You aren't seeing things from a woman's perspective here and what we deal with. That's the almost entire problem with you. You act like I'm coming here and reaching out to others and demand respect once they reply. Reality is this: I contact nobody at all first. For those who contact me, yes, I expect respect. I expect that they are reading my profile, I expect that they have a common level of RELEVANT reason and purpose of contacting me and I expect that they are contacting me in agreeing compliance of what my profile tells them. If I say I'm here to chat...contact me to chat. If I say to keep balance...then don't ignore/disappear or have me continually pulling teeth for replies. If I say to chat with me non-sexually....then keep it clean. If I say I'm not here to meet anyone....then don't ask to meet or attempt to persuade me or to think that you are some exception to that rule. Get with it! This isn't rocket science here or anything! If the road sign says the speed limit is 55....then don't expect to get ticketed if you're going 70. If the road sign says "one-way" and you're traveling the wrong way on that one-way street....you're going to run into conflict! If the road sign tells me that I'm permitted to be here for certain reasons...then that's why I'm here. You see, it's all in conduct. And as I've explained before, those who are ignorant and lazy and who aren't reading these road signs are the idiots who are only earning their own hate, bad reputation and disrespect around here. You're barking up the wrong tree. "Yes, I know I'm right." Key words "FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO COME HERE SEEKING SEX"...that doesn't mean we all are. That means that plenty of others are here for other reasons, as well (hence social media/networking...ya know, like the very blog you're on). "You're on the site, you are fair game for them to take a chance. Don't like it? Go find another kind of site." You're a terrible listener! Do you understand what the word 'relevant' means? Relevant (defined): * closely connected or appropriate to what is being done or considered. * appropriate to the current time, period, or circumstances; of contemporary interest. True, I'm on site for reasons that the site itself clearly defines as being a "COMBINED PERSONALS AND SOCIAL MEDIA/NETWORKING SITE". Hello!?!?! That means I am also fair game to be here if my sole purpose is for the latter reason. What do you not understand yet?? If I specifically tell people on profile openly and publicly that I am NOT here for sex and that I am NOT here to meet and that I AM ONLY here to socialize and use this site for online_only purposes, then I have done all I can do. For those who ARE seeking sex, who ARE seeking meets then there is NO RELEVANCY! Capisce yet? You don't show up at a formal dinner party in blue jeans and a tee shirt if your invitation specifically tells you it's FORMAL. "Formal" being RELEVANCY to ONLY show up in fine dress wear! "Blue jeans and tee shirt" being IRRELEVANCY to NOT show up in casual wear! You seem to never comprehend the most simple concept and facts, ever! "Without taking a chance, the result will always be "Nada". So much better to take a chance, against relevancy." There is already "nada" chance if someone's profile specifically tells them: A .) Their profile is ALWAYS kept up to date. B .) That they are here ONLY to socialize and for online-only reasons. c .) That they are NOT here to meet anyone. You act as if this "chance" thing exists when in fact your idiotic logic doesn't ever stack up to making sense at all. "Doesn't matter. You're here. They're going to contact. Duh! case closed." Does matter! Duh! You don't realize that it's because of all of these idiotic losers that this site is in shambles, why almost no real women exist, talk or meet men. I can take 10 minutes to surf women's profiles and can likely find a handful of them which all tell you this in one way or another. When you read them, add it up....they are all sending you the same exact message around here that the idiots with this mentality are destroying this site to the core, which inevitably has driven hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of real, legitimate, decent and willing women off of this site over the years because of it. But hey, if you don't care that this site is 80% meat market, 17% site-generated fake profiles, 2% catfish and 1% of real and legitimate women (to have that 1% be broken down into 0.5% bi/lesbians who ONLY seek other women and the other 0.5% of combined real women who either have zero interest to meet men, talk to men or have anything to do with them because of what losers they are due to behavior, laziness and ignorance), then hey, have at it. After all, you're the one who is on here supposedly seeking women and for the purpose of sex . 700+ million people worldwide on the FFN, you'd think this place would be oozing with legitimate, willing and decent women. It's not. Look around. You need a reality check. Where are all of the women and where have they all disappeared to over the years? It DOES matter if men are IRRELEVANTLY contacting women who have NO RELEVANT intent or purpose!!!! It's precisely what has driven us off. You're not seeing that because you live in a bubble, you don't see things from a woman's perspective and because you have this idiotic level of mentality that this site is only one thing, when in fact it serves lots of other purposes for lots of other people and for lots of other reasons. If/when men finally understand this, women will gladly and eagerly begin flocking back to site by the thousands. We simply have zero incentive to do so because of how deplorable men like you have made this once-fun and potential place to be. So that's why women like me ceased searches or simply remain here for the simple entertainment like blogging, camming, reading stories, blinging or posting/rating photo contests and things like that. Site has zero about potential for the average male coming here seeking sex because his idiotic mentality, behavior, conduct has shaped his environment which now lacks real females. Because of that fact, that drove fierce competition due to gender imbalance. Because of that, women are now being bombarded and overwhelmed with dozens of idiots daily who aren't even of any relevancy of why most of us women even exist here to begin with. And that's the problem. So if you can't respect why I'm here for my simple and legitimate purposes, then it's you who needs to be schooled or to simply go away. This is an endless series of blogs with you that gets us nowhere due to your ignorance of fact. Oh, and by the way....I'm still awaiting an answer to my last blog question I have asked you now several times. I find it ironic that you pick and choose just the things you quote about which would start controversy and argument, yet you bypass and ignore the same question that you're asked to answer when you find yourself backed into a corner. Again, here it is... Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog???
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You've done an abundance of childish retorts and jabs... now here is my one: You're fat.....You're not in the gym enough. AND you DO have to respect the site you're on. You DO have to expect chubby chasers asking you about sex. That is just the kind of site you're playing on. Desn't matter if "ALL" are not here for sex , there are a majority who are here , and rightly so, here, seeking sex. If you're on this site, or affiliated sites, you are fair game. If women are not interested in sex, or not interested in men inviting them to have sex, then those women should not be on sites like this one, and certainly should not be upset about men seeking sex, on a sex site. Now go away.
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2/22/2020 10:51 am |
Heathen_G, You're forever ignoring my question yet... Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog??? "You've done an abundance of childish retorts and jabs... " No I haven't. I don't retort on anyone, nor am I childish. Stick to facts, relevancy, evidence and proof. The only reason you're called out in such terms of things like "idiocy" is because you repeatedly cannot stick to any of this stuff and about what this site is vs. what you fabricate it to be. Therefore, he we are endlessly covering the same stuff and getting nowhere. "now here is my one: You're fat.....You're not in the gym enough." Now who is the one who is retorting childishly? The irony is overwhelming with you! I thought you lived by the golden rule of 'give respect, get respect'? Too funny! You make no valid point of me being fat, other than boosting your ego in a childish attempt to put others down. Typical of losers on site like yourself. Considering that my profile clearly is public and for all to read, there is no mystery in the fact that my profile's 'Body Type' section tells any reader that I'm a BBW. No mystery there that you must come here to attempt insult for what everyone already knows of my physical self. Again, too funny! So by the fact that I'm fat means that I'm not in the gym enough? As usual, you're clueless in life about everyone and everything. You do realize that there are fat people who go to the gym seven days a week and are genetically coded in their DNA and metabolism to be forever fat. Similarly, there are skinny people out there who can sit on their ass all day long and not go to the gym at all and be forever skinny for the very same reason. Perhaps you still have many cobwebs that require dusting in your shallow-minded life. 61 years old and I'm perplexed how you've made it this far through life being so clueless. Rather than come here on this blog, how about picking up books and educating yourself? You can start by going to the corporate page of this site, for starters. "AND you DO have to respect the site you're on." Sorry, I have no obligations and I do NOT have to respect anything I don't find valuable reasons to respect. What makes you think that I MUST respect this site...or anything else of choice in life, for that matter? "You DO have to expect chubby chasers asking you about sex." True....if that's what my profile were to outline....but it doesn't. "That is just the kind of site you're playing on." Wrong! I'll specifically say that this is the kind of site that CAN (heavy emphasis on the word 'CAN' ) be used for. It also CAN be used for other reasons. No matter how much I go over this and with fact, proof and sources, you are blind to that fact. It's a combination site! "Desn't matter if "ALL" are not here for sex , there are a majority who are here , and rightly so, here, seeking sex. If you're on this site, or affiliated sites, you are fair game." I may as well be talking to the wall. Sure, this site CAN be used as a sex site for sure and true, the majority of men on site are here for that search. That's fine and dandy. But for those who are NOT here for sex, then not only understand that this site has multiple purpose, but also respect those who are here for reasons other than sex. Remember, the 'give respect, get respect' model? The entire purpose of someone's profile is precisely to outline each person's reason of choice of why they are on this site! True, I'm fair game IF and ONLY IF my profile is telling the crowd that yes, I have come on here seeking sex. Otherwise, you're disrespecting me. Not sure what I'm not getting through to you yet. You're the problem on this site and in society of why no women exist, reply or meet. Wake up to that reality! "If women are not interested in sex, or not interested in men inviting them to have sex, then those women should not be on sites like this one, and certainly should not be upset about men seeking sex, on a sex site. Now go away." Now you're just being ridiculously ignorant and comical! So by your logic, if I (or any other woman on this site) are not seeking sex, then we shouldn't be on this site at all? What!?!?!? How do you then explain the dozen or more social media/networking options this site offers to it's members here when you open your eyes and clearly see options of chat (chat rooms/IM/email), web camming, erotic stories, blogs, groups, blinging, What's Hot section, Sex Academy section, photo contests, adult movies section, adult magazine section, etc...????????? By your flawed logic, you honestly think that 700+ million combined FFN members ALL come on this and it's sister sites entirely for the search of sex, only sex and nothing at all but sex? That's hilarious!!!!!! Even more funny when you can make a single mouse click by going to this site's corporate page and reading that this site's very design tells every and any member here that it IS a COMBINED SITE for the use of ADULT PERSONALS uses (friendships, sex, dating, romance, love, swinging, etc...) AND for SOCIAL MEDIA/NETWORKING uses. I'm not going anywhere because I belong to a site that is offering me services for SOCIAL MEDIA/NETWORKING purposes, NOT for the sex/personals purposes. Still don't understand how simple that is, do ya? Can't wrap your head around that concept because your ego is sky high and what you simply want to believe this site is doesn't stack up to the reality of what it really is. That's what it's all about with you and men like you. Educate yourself or YOU go away! "...and certainly should not be upset about men seeking sex" I'm in no way upset over men here seeking sex. Again, I'm agreeing with you that they are at the right place for that search. What I am not agreeing on is why idiots aren't reading the very site they belong to and understand that they belong to a combination site that people come here for ALL kinds of purposes OTHER than sex, why the idiots are NOT reading profiles, why idiots aren't comprehending very simple and basic criteria and why the idiots aren't respecting what's written. So sure, if they come here seeking sex, fine and dandy....just contact the correct people for that search and for RELEVANT reasons, for RELEVANT purpose and for RELEVANT intent. A guy seeking sex makes zero sense in having the ability to read profiles, ignoring to and then proceeding to blindly contacting a woman who clearly tells them that she's here ONLY for socializing and NOT to meet. Duh! You'll never get that basic concept! Do you purposely blow through stop signs when you're in your car or do you observe it, read it and comprehend it's purpose and meaning and then respect it to make a stop? If your directions tell you that your destination is located on Pine Street, then you aren't going to find your hotel if you're heading the wrong direction and ignorantly insist that it's on Chestnut Street. You'll never understand analogies like these. You're unbelievably thick-headed. No mystery why the site is in shambles because of this crackpot mentality. All the while, you're getting agitated with me. At the end of the day, a fact is a fact! At the end of the day, this site clearly describes to anyone here of what it is and why it exists as a combined personals site and a social media outlet. FACT! You're trying to go against the grain here. You're getting pissed off at me and I'm simply the messenger here. I do not own this site. I do not compose the corporate page. I do not tell the population here of what this site's design and purpose is. The site itself tells us that, not me! At the end of the day, it is the site itself that says these words to it's members here: "Every day we’re finding new ways to help our members engage, communicate and connect with people who are looking for exciting experiences both online and offline." See where it says "COMMUNICATE" and "ENGAGE" and "BOTH ONLINE AND OFFLINE"?????? My purpose here: ONLINE! I belong here as much as the guy seeking sex OFFLINE! If you can't understand that, go away! End of story! "Today, FriendFinder’s award-winning portfolio of services synergistically combines the technical and brand assets of online personals, social-networking, live video chat, recorded video, online chat rooms, webcams, instant messaging, photo and video sharing, and premium content. " See where it says "COMBINES" and "PERSONALS" and "SOCIAL-NETWORKING (and goes on to specify a few of those things)"???? My purpose here: SOCIAL-NETWORKING! I belong here as much as the guy seeking sex OFFLINE! If you can't understand that, go away! End of story! You can go on your daily rant day after day until you're blue in the face and be pissed off at me infinitely. That does NOT change the fact that this site specifically outlines it's purpose to tailor my needs here as a member to actively engage in social media/networking and online-only purposes. End of story. Don't like that FACT? Then perhaps it's you who needs to gtfoh or educate himself!
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I thought you lived by the golden rule of 'give respect, get respect'? Too funny! ,.... Nope .... don't live by that at all. Respect is earned. tells any reader that I'm a BBW. ... That means < "Fat", or "Obese", or "Morbidly obese". Society is not really PC. The site is a sex site....again, you kept saying , "It's not ONLY".... however, it is a sex site where people go to find sex and sexual attention. this site CAN be used as a sex site for sure and true, the majority of men on site are here for that search. ..... No, this site IS a sex site first, .....and CAN be used for other stuff. But for those who are NOT here for sex, then not only understand that this site has multiple purpose, but also respect those who are here for reasons other than sex. .... No.... you're on a sex site, any chubby chaser may take his chance at you. Remember, the 'give respect, get respect' model? .... No. Respect is earned, not merely given. Way too late for you, but if you want respect from anyone else, you have to earn it. Not just give it. I'm fair game IF and ONLY IF my profile is telling the crowd that yes, I have come on here seeking sex..... No... you placed a profile on this site. men will take a chance at contacting you for sex. Keep this in mind: "If women are not interested in sex, or not interested in men inviting them to have sex, then those women should not be on sites like this one, and certainly should not be upset about men seeking sex, on a sex site. ..... That sounds like you....Now go away."
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2/23/2020 7:16 am |
Heathen_G, You're forever ignoring my question yet... Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog??? "Nope .... don't live by that at all. Respect is earned." Then that's exactly the problem with you then. Nobody can just sit around not giving respect, yet expecting others to magically respect you. You don't earn a paycheck by sitting at home and doing nothing. You don't earn a home with a Jacuzzi, a pool, two sports cars and a home cinema by sitting on your ass and doing nothing. The same applies to respect. You cannot sit around expecting others to respect you for no reason if you have the crackpot mentality that it's you that they should earn their respect from and without reason as if you're some sort of almighty Pharaoh or something. Respect is a two-way street. Give and receive; receive and return. It's simple, not one-sided. "That means < "Fat", or "Obese", or "Morbidly obese". Society is not really PC." It doesn't matter what BBW means. This entire comment altogether is purely irrelevant and sidetracked from what we were talking about because you felt some need to retort and degrade me as retaliation of the answers you were getting solely on the fact that you cannot agree to written site purpose for ALL people who come here and not just your bubble perception. For the record, BBW can mean anything at all, from chubby to obese....and for those who are morbidly obese, people have even coined the term SSBBW (super sized). Get used to those facts because the American statistics constantly show an endless rise in the number of people within our population who are overweight and/or obese. Again, like everything I ever tell you, that is fact. If you have a problem with BBW's, then I suggest you not talk to me or simply move somewhere like Ethiopia, Nepal or Japan, since the US is ranked about #1 for the highest rate of overweight, obese and out of shape people in the world. Not a surprise that this level of irony would come from someone as dense as yourself. "The site is a sex site...." As I have said before, you can sit here day after day until you're blue in the face, but that doesn't change the facts about what this site is. It's NOT solely a sex site, it's a combination PERSONALS SITE (in itself has many purposes other than purely sex), as well as an adult-based SOCIAL MEDIA/NETWORKING outlet. "...again, you kept saying , "It's not ONLY".... however, it is a sex site where people go to find sex and sexual attention." Correct, it is NOT ONLY anything at all. What point are you trying to make here?? This site is NOT cut out for one and only one purpose. It's design is for many purposes, hence it's description of COMBINED PERSONALS "
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2/23/2020 8:34 am |
Heathen_G, You're forever ignoring my question yet... Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog??? "Nope .... don't live by that at all. Respect is earned." Then that explains why you are exactly the problem then. You simply cannot go on through life expecting to do nothing and magically have people bend over backwards for you in earning your respect for them. Nothing in life comes like that. You never receive a paycheck for sitting home and doing nothing at all. You never earn a home, a Jacuzzi, a pool, two luxury cars and a home cinema if you sit on your ass and expect something to magically appear in your life without reason. Same is true with respect. It's a two-way street. Give it, receive it; receive it, give it. It's not some one-sided thing. "That means < "Fat", or "Obese", or "Morbidly obese". Society is not really PC." No, it necessarily doesn't mean that just because someone is BBW that automatically that translates into meaning the largest side of it. BBW can mean anything from chubby to obese. To take it a step further, people have even coined the term SSBBW (super sized) to those who are obese/morbidly obese. Nevertheless, you're off topic anyway and BBW has nothing at all to do with anything pertaining to our discussion. You only childishly felt a need to bring that sort of thing up as retort and retaliation against me for degrading purposes simply because you dislike the answers I'm giving you pertaining to the factual reality of what the site itself tells us it is. Since you cannot accept those facts at face value for what it says, you find a need to be a man-child in order to justify what isn't a fact at all. You'd better get used to the fact that BBW's exist, because according to global statistics, the US is among the highest rated country for overweight, obese and out of shape people. As with everything I describe to you, it's based on fact! If you dislike BBW's, overweight or out of shape people, then I highly suggest you don't talk to me or move to some other country of a low body mass statistic, such as Ethiopia, Nepal or Japan. This level of irony from you comes as no shock to me with your never-ending crackpot mentality. You: Says "this is a (only) sex site", this is (only) a "hookup site"... Fact: Site description claims it's a combination personals site/social media outlet. You: "You're fat" (hence, has a problem with overweight people) Fact: * Endlessly converses with someone on a blog, knowing the whole while per my profile that she's a BBW. * Lives in the US, which has one of the highest global obesity rankings in the world. Washington alone is rated #28 highest obesity states out of the total 50 states. Judging by your logic, you should at least be living in Colorado, which statistically has the lowest obesity rate in the country. "The site is a sex site...." As I keep saying, you can go over this until you're blue in the face day after day, but that doe NOT change the facts of what this site tells all of us what it's design and purpose is for. I send you quotes directly from the corporate page itself....you ignore it. I tell you to go there, to read it over and give you direction to that source...you ignore it. Then ironically you get pissed off and annoyed with me, continually returning back and falsely claiming "it's a sex site, it's a sex site". Too funny!!!!!!!! "again, you kept saying , "It's not ONLY".... however, it is a sex site where people go to find sex and sexual attention." Correct, this site is NOT ONLY one of any one thing at all. It is a combination personals/social media site. That has been determined by facts, evidence, proof and source already. We're past that already. So what is your point? You are the one here who keeps saying "it's a sex site, it's a sex site, it's a sex site"!!! (meaning by you, that it IS ONLY designed for one and ONLY one purpose, not me). Incorrect!!!!! It's a combination site designed for many, many purposes and options for it's members here. Again, what is your point here??? "No.... you're on a sex site, any chubby chaser may take his chance at you." As usual, you're a terrible listener. You pick and choose comments that ONLY feed your flawed perceptions and override/ignore all evidence that proves you WRONG! And yes, as I have said, I'd be fair game to anyone seeking sex IF IF IF IF IF IF MY PROFILE SPECIFICALLY SAID THAT MY PURPOSE ON THIS SITE WAS FOR THE PERSONALS INTENT OF MEETING SOMEONE FOR SEX. IT DOESN'T SAY THAT, NITWIT! It says I'm here for SOCIAL MEDIA stuff....That means that anyone who contacts me for sex is irrelevantly contacting me. PERIOD! Go the fuck away! Write me with ONLY RELEVANT purpose and RELEVANT intent, per profile (which is what a profile's design is for)! Why do you think we have profiles if they aren't meant to be read or to be determining factors if two people are reasonably on the same page seeking similar things?? Duh! "Remember, the 'give respect, get respect' model? .... No." Comes to no surprise. "Respect is earned, not merely given. Way too late for you, but if you want respect from anyone else, you have to earn it. Not just give it." I've gone over this with you above already. You cannot give respect over and over again to someone and have the other person be a complete asswad to you. Similarly, you cannot be a total asswad and expect others to respect you. As I've said, respect is a two-way street. It's a give and receive; receive and give. That's all. There's no demand that one is here only earning respect when another half isn't giving it...and vice versa. No, it's never too late for anyone to respect one another. I respect the fact that you are on this site for your reasons of finding women for sex. I've never once denied that, or tried to tell you otherwise. Irony is, you have endlessly disrespected me by constantly trying to tell me this site is something which it is not and have told me to go elsewhere. This is precisely where your lack of education and your ignorance shine through, then gets translated into disrespect because of it. Had you merely READ all the supplied articles I've shown you and comprehended what they say word for word, then you'd have a really good understanding of what this site REALLY is, for all the different range of people it serves and for the many different reasons. Had that comprehension occurred, you'd respect me for that and have no issues at all for my purpose on site. But you don't understand anything! You refuse to listen and refuse to learn! Then because of that, you go around blaming the innocent for your own idiocy and lack of education. You rely on fiction, rather on facts. "No... you placed a profile on this site. men will take a chance at contacting you for sex." Ummm, hello!!!! If you openly admit I've placed a profile on site, then why the hell aren't you reading it, comprehending it's contents and most importantly, respecting me for precisely what it outlines! Again, your ignorance shines through to no end!!!! We have profiles! They are designed to be read! They are designed to determine if people seek basic and RELEVANT purpose or compatibility factors BEFORE and PRIOR to making contact with that person and ONLY IF those reasons are RELEVANT! Contacting a women for sex when her profile specifically tells a guy it's updated, she's here ONLY to socialize and NOT to meet says nothing at all about that guy's IQ level and everything about his laziness/ignorance level, hence, an immediate turn off to the millions of women like me who exist here for online-only activity. "Keep this in mind: "If women are not interested in sex, or not interested in men inviting them to have sex, then those women should not be on sites like this one, and certainly should not be upset about men seeking sex, on a sex site. ..... That sounds like you....Now go away."" Wrong again, as usual! Stick to the site facts!!!!! It says it's a combination personals AND social media/networking outlet! Period! That means that people can come here for either OR both reasons. You're an idiot! Period! You'll never understand that I have a legitimate right to be here if I simply ONLY want to be here for social media stuff. * Say I enjoy blogging....I can come here for that very specific reason ONLY! * Say I enjoy rating other members nude/sexy photo contests...that is adult-based and I can come here for that very specific reason ONLY! * Say I enjoy reading or writing erotic stories...that is adult-based and I can come here for that very specific reason ONLY! These are ALL examples of ADULT-BASED SOCIAL MEDIA!!!! What the hell part of that do you NOT understand yet????? If this site was strictly about being a personals-only or sex site, then why the hell would blogs exist? Why the hell would member photo contests exist? Why the hell would erotic stories exist? Why the hell would web camming exist? Why the hell would groups exist? Why the hell would blinging exist? Why the hell would adult videos/magazines sections exist? Why the hell would the entire 'Community' or the 'What's Hot' sections exist?? And why the hell would the site specifically outline itself to say that it's a combined personals and social media/networking outlet? Why the hell would the site itself specifically entail it's description to specifically tell us it's tailored for BOTH ONLINE AND OFFLINE purposes???? You cannot honestly answer any of these things, because you know if you would that you'd be backed into a corner and would have to admit or apologize for your ignorance and lack of knowledge to me. We all know you simply won't let your ego to be relaxed on that level, so here we are day after day arguing about the same shit, knowing damn well that with the mountain of evidence I tell you all the time, the facts never change and you are WRONG! Keep THAT in mind.
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2/23/2020 9:13 am |
Heathen_G, You're forever ignoring my question yet... Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog??? "Nope .... don't live by that at all. Respect is earned." Then that explains why you are exactly the problem then. You simply cannot go on through life expecting to do nothing and magically have people bend over backwards for you in earning your respect for them. Nothing in life comes like that. You never receive a paycheck for sitting home and doing nothing at all. You never earn a home, a Jacuzzi, a pool, two luxury cars and a home cinema if you sit on your ass and expect something to magically appear in your life without reason. Same is true with respect. It's a two-way street. Give it, receive it; receive it, give it. It's not some one-sided thing. "That means < "Fat", or "Obese", or "Morbidly obese". Society is not really PC." No, it necessarily doesn't mean that just because someone is BBW that automatically that translates into meaning the largest side of it. BBW can mean anything from chubby to obese. To take it a step further, people have even coined the term SSBBW (super sized) to those who are obese/morbidly obese. Nevertheless, you're off topic anyway and BBW has nothing at all to do with anything pertaining to our discussion. You only childishly felt a need to bring that sort of thing up as retort and retaliation against me for degrading purposes simply because you dislike the answers I'm giving you pertaining to the factual reality of what the site itself tells us it is. Since you cannot accept those facts at face value for what it says, you find a need to be a man-child in order to justify what isn't a fact at all. You'd better get used to the fact that BBW's exist, because according to global statistics, the US is among the highest rated country for overweight, obese and out of shape people. As with everything I describe to you, it's based on fact! If you dislike BBW's, overweight or out of shape people, then I highly suggest you don't talk to me or move to some other country of a low body mass statistic, such as Ethiopia, Nepal or Japan. This level of irony from you comes as no shock to me with your never-ending crackpot mentality. You: Says "this is a (only) sex site", this is (only) a "hookup site"... Fact: Site description claims it's a combination personals site/social media outlet. You: "You're fat" (hence, has a problem with overweight people) Fact: * Endlessly converses with someone on a blog, knowing the whole while per my profile that she's a BBW. * Lives in the US, which has one of the highest global obesity rankings in the world. Washington alone is rated #28 highest obesity states out of the total 50 states. Judging by your logic, you should at least be living in Colorado, which statistically has the lowest obesity rate in the country. "The site is a sex site...." As I keep saying, you can go over this until you're blue in the face day after day, but that doe NOT change the facts of what this site tells all of us what it's design and purpose is for. I send you quotes directly from the corporate page itself....you ignore it. I tell you to go there, to read it over and give you direction to that source...you ignore it. Then ironically you get pissed off and annoyed with me, continually returning back and falsely claiming "it's a sex site, it's a sex site". Too funny!!!!!!!! "again, you kept saying , "It's not ONLY".... however, it is a sex site where people go to find sex and sexual attention." Correct, this site is NOT ONLY one of any one thing at all. It is a combination personals/social media site. That has been determined by facts, evidence, proof and source already. We're past that already. So what is your point? You are the one here who keeps saying "it's a sex site, it's a sex site, it's a sex site"!!! (meaning by you, that it IS ONLY designed for one and ONLY one purpose, not me). Incorrect!!!!! It's a combination site designed for many, many purposes and options for it's members here. Again, what is your point here??? "No.... you're on a sex site, any chubby chaser may take his chance at you." As usual, you're a terrible listener. You pick and choose comments that ONLY feed your flawed perceptions and override/ignore all evidence that proves you WRONG! And yes, as I have said, I'd be fair game to anyone seeking sex IF IF IF IF IF IF MY PROFILE SPECIFICALLY SAID THAT MY PURPOSE ON THIS SITE WAS FOR THE PERSONALS INTENT OF MEETING SOMEONE FOR SEX. IT DOESN'T SAY THAT, NITWIT! It says I'm here for SOCIAL MEDIA stuff....That means that anyone who contacts me for sex is irrelevantly contacting me. PERIOD! Go the fuck away! Write me with ONLY RELEVANT purpose and RELEVANT intent, per profile (which is what a profile's design is for)! Why do you think we have profiles if they aren't meant to be read or to be determining factors if two people are reasonably on the same page seeking similar things?? Duh! "Remember, the 'give respect, get respect' model? .... No." Comes to no surprise. "Respect is earned, not merely given. Way too late for you, but if you want respect from anyone else, you have to earn it. Not just give it." I've gone over this with you above already. You cannot give respect over and over again to someone and have the other person be a complete asswad to you. Similarly, you cannot be a total asswad and expect others to respect you. As I've said, respect is a two-way street. It's a give and receive; receive and give. That's all. There's no demand that one is here only earning respect when another half isn't giving it...and vice versa. No, it's never too late for anyone to respect one another. I respect the fact that you are on this site for your reasons of finding women for sex. I've never once denied that, or tried to tell you otherwise. Irony is, you have endlessly disrespected me by constantly trying to tell me this site is something which it is not and have told me to go elsewhere. This is precisely where your lack of education and your ignorance shine through, then gets translated into disrespect because of it. Had you merely READ all the supplied articles I've shown you and comprehended what they say word for word, then you'd have a really good understanding of what this site REALLY is, for all the different range of people it serves and for the many different reasons. Had that comprehension occurred, you'd respect me for that and have no issues at all for my purpose on site. But you don't understand anything! You refuse to listen and refuse to learn! Then because of that, you go around blaming the innocent for your own idiocy and lack of education. You rely on fiction, rather on facts. "No... you placed a profile on this site. men will take a chance at contacting you for sex." Ummm, hello!!!! If you openly admit I've placed a profile on site, then why the hell aren't you reading it, comprehending it's contents and most importantly, respecting me for precisely what it outlines??? Again, your ignorance shines through to no end!!!! We have profiles! They are designed to be read! They are designed to determine if people seek basic and RELEVANT purpose or compatibility factors BEFORE and PRIOR to making contact with that person and ONLY IF those reasons are RELEVANT! Contacting a women for sex when her profile specifically tells a guy it's updated, she's here ONLY to socialize and NOT to meet says nothing at all about that guy's IQ level and everything about his laziness/ignorance level, hence, an immediate turn off to the millions of women like me who exist here for online-only activity. "Keep this in mind: "If women are not interested in sex, or not interested in men inviting them to have sex, then those women should not be on sites like this one, and certainly should not be upset about men seeking sex, on a sex site. ..... That sounds like you....Now go away."" Wrong again, as usual! Stick to the site facts!!!!! It says it's a combination personals AND social media/networking outlet! Period! That means that people can come here for either OR both reasons. You're an idiot! Period! You'll never understand that I have a legitimate right to be here if I simply ONLY want to be here for social media stuff. * Say I enjoy blogging....I can come here for that very specific reason ONLY! * Say I enjoy rating other members nude/sexy photo contests...that is adult-based and I can come here for that very specific reason ONLY! * Say I enjoy reading or writing erotic stories...that is adult-based and I can come here for that very specific reason ONLY! I've never once been upset by the fact that this site CAN and IS used by many people who specifically come here seeking sex. Why would I? They are surely on the right kind of COMBINATION site, if that's what they so choose to seek and they have every right to do so. You just can't get the idea that many women (and even some men) are on this site who don't seek that very same thing at all and only enjoy the lighter side of online activities for their reason here. So round and round we go here with idiotic and flawed mentality...I respect any reason(s) for why others come here and use this site, but men like you show zero respect for women like me who choose to use it for online purposes. Do you not see that irony yet when you're telling me I'm on the wrong kind of site for adult-based social media (even though this very site confirms that in writing) or that I should head over to a more vanilla site like "friend Finder" or by repeatedly telling me to "go away"?????? You're the problem! You aren't earning any respect from anyone (and you never will) because you fail and blatantly refuse to ever give it. Show me that you respect at least my existence on this site for what it is and for exactly what the site itself says I'm perfectly within range to be here for! If you don't respect me for the human being as I am, then so be it. Just respect what people come here for just like everything else in life! You don't have to love the fact that someone is a trans-gender or agree on their choices or that that some businesses even have specified bathrooms for trans-gender folks. You don't have to love some of the laws or agree upon them...but what you must do is acknowledge they exist and that they are to be followed. Moral of the story: We're all on this earth together as one. You don't have to agree on things. You just have to respect that we all have our right to do things as individuals. And when something is in writing, it's pre-established of what those rights are! There is absolutely 1,000% no denying that if this site is telling it's members here that this site CAN be used for an adult-based level of social media/networking, then guess what? No matter how much you bicker, disagree, put up a hissy fit or misrepresent it, the facts never change....the site continue to always give it's members here that option, if they so choose. It's in writing! Wake up! That's indisputable fact! These are ALL examples of ADULT-BASED SOCIAL MEDIA!!!! What the hell part of that do you NOT understand yet????? If this site was strictly about being a personals-only or sex site, then why the hell would blogs exist? Why the hell would member photo contests exist? Why the hell would erotic stories exist? Why the hell would web camming exist? Why the hell would groups exist? Why the hell would blinging exist? Why the hell would adult videos/magazines sections exist? Why the hell would the entire 'Community' or the 'What's Hot' sections exist?? And why the hell would the site specifically outline itself to say that it's a combined personals and social media/networking outlet? Why the hell would the site itself specifically entail it's description to specifically tell us it's tailored for BOTH ONLINE AND OFFLINE purposes???? You cannot honestly answer any of these things, because you know if you would that you'd be backed into a corner and would have to admit or apologize for your ignorance and lack of knowledge to me. We all know you simply won't let your ego to be relaxed on that level, so here we are day after day arguing about the same shit, knowing damn well that with the mountain of evidence I tell you all the time, the facts never change and you are WRONG! Keep THAT in mind.
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Attn R... This is a sex site. Men who want fat women will mostly contact you for sex, regardless of why you are here.. Are they pathetic or desperate? Most may be. Others , have an imprint for that.
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2/24/2020 10:52 am |
Heathen_G, "This is a sex site." Hey, no it is NOT JUST or ONLY a sex site! What it really is, is a combination site of various things. Read! Comprehend! Observe every damn option around you on this site! You're beyond stupid and ignorant! "Men who want fat women will mostly contact you for sex, regardless of why you are here" Hey goofball, men don't even realize I am a BBW because nobody even reads profiles at all. This is precisely why the clowns who are contacting me are clueless and contacting women such as myself on site for IRRELEVANT intent or purpose. You're a terrible listener, terrible at comprehension or are simply blatantly stupid or ignorant. This has all been gone over a dozen or more times with you now and it's all laziness and ignorance. Period! "Are they pathetic or desperate? Most may be. Others , have an imprint for that." It honestly doesn't matter what they are. They have their purpose on site just as everyone else does. They also have the equal opportunities to conduct theirselves appropriately and follow basic guidelines. We can endlessly bicker over all of this day to day, but it doesn't change the fact of what this site is, per it's outlined description IN WRITING, nor does it change the fact that the idiots are continually driving this site and it's women further and further away.
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2/24/2020 11:17 am |
Heathen_G, You're forever ignoring my question yet... Judging by the logic of what you've just told me here in this quote of it being a "sex site", please explain to me what this blog is that you're on?? Also, please explain to me how a straight guy like yourself wanders on to a blog that's written by another male and contains no other females on this blog to date, nor is the topic regarding anyone seeking some sort of sexual hookup??? In addition, how many females out of the total zero on this blog have contacted you, made sexual advances or have sought sex through this particular blog???
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2/24/2020 11:46 am |
Heathen_G, "This is a sex site, this is a sex site, this is a sex site...." WRONG for the 30th time! This site CAN have that potential for sure for the search of sex, but that isn't the same difference of being SOLELY or ONLY a sex site, dumb dumb. When the very site tells you IN WRITING what it REALLY is, then that overrides ALL of your fictional and fabricated beliefs of what you'd "like", "want", "hope" or "envision" this site to be. Reality is, no matter which day you return back to this site, the site description remains unchanged and so do the dozen or more online-only member options this site offers to us here. Deal with that FACT as it is at face value for what it says I WRITING and through your obvious OBSERVATIONS on site. Site description: "WHO WE ARE - Every day we’re finding new ways to help our members engage, COMMUNICATE and CONNECT with people who are looking for exciting experiences BOTH ONLINE AND OFFLINE." End of story! Want to know what a sex site REALLY is? * Head on over to a site such as swapfinder.com. There you'll see description given that the site is ONLY for the purpose of those who seek swinging. You will not see any description on that site offering it's members social media/networking options, nor will you see an entire community of bloggers, groups, web cammers, blingers, erotic stories, member photo contests or anything else regarding forms of leisure, activities, amusement or entertainment. The ONLY purpose of the site is to find other swingers. Period! ** Head on over to a site such as ashleymadison.com. There you'll see description given that the site is ONLY for the purpose of those who seek affairs and discreet married dating. You will not see any description on that site offering it's members social media/networking options, nor will you see an entire community of bloggers, groups, web cammers, blingers, erotic stories, member photo contests or anything else regarding forms of leisure, activities, amusement or entertainment. The ONLY purpose of the site is to find others for affairs. Period! *** Head on over to a site such as swinglifestyle.com. There you'll see description given that the site is ONLY for the purpose of swingers. Admittingly, you will see some forums and blogs on that site, but they are almost entirely cut out for the purpose of guides, discussion boards and/or educational "how-to" purposes. You will not see any description on that site offering it's members social media/networking options, nor will you see an entire community of web cammers, blingers, erotic stories, member photo contests or anything else regarding forms of leisure, activities, amusement or entertainment. The ONLY purpose of the site is to find others for swinging. Period!
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I think the better question is why your focus would have been on these pathetic men?
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Heathen_G, "This is a sex site, this is a sex site, this is a sex site...." WRONG for the 30th time! This site CAN have that potential for sure for the search of sex, but that isn't the same difference of being SOLELY or ONLY a sex site, dumb dumb. When the very site tells you IN WRITING what it REALLY is, then that overrides ALL of your fictional and fabricated beliefs of what you'd "like", "want", "hope" or "envision" this site to be. Reality is, no matter which day you return back to this site, the site description remains unchanged and so do the dozen or more online-only member options this site offers to us here. Deal with that FACT as it is at face value for what it says I WRITING and through your obvious OBSERVATIONS on site. Site description: "WHO WE ARE - Every day we’re finding new ways to help our members engage, COMMUNICATE and CONNECT with people who are looking for exciting experiences BOTH ONLINE AND OFFLINE." End of story! Want to know what a sex site REALLY is? * Head on over to a site such as swapfinder.com. There you'll see description given that the site is ONLY for the purpose of those who seek swinging. You will not see any description on that site offering it's members social media/networking options, nor will you see an entire community of bloggers, groups, web cammers, blingers, erotic stories, member photo contests or anything else regarding forms of leisure, activities, amusement or entertainment. The ONLY purpose of the site is to find other swingers. Period! ** Head on over to a site such as ashleymadison.com. There you'll see description given that the site is ONLY for the purpose of those who seek affairs and discreet married dating. You will not see any description on that site offering it's members social media/networking options, nor will you see an entire community of bloggers, groups, web cammers, blingers, erotic stories, member photo contests or anything else regarding forms of leisure, activities, amusement or entertainment. The ONLY purpose of the site is to find others for affairs. Period! *** Head on over to a site such as swinglifestyle.com. There you'll see description given that the site is ONLY for the purpose of swingers. Admittingly, you will see some forums and blogs on that site, but they are almost entirely cut out for the purpose of guides, discussion boards and/or educational "how-to" purposes. You will not see any description on that site offering it's members social media/networking options, nor will you see an entire community of web cammers, blingers, erotic stories, member photo contests or anything else regarding forms of leisure, activities, amusement or entertainment. The ONLY purpose of the site is to find others for swinging. Period!
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2/29/2020 3:13 pm |
Heathen_G, "However, this is a sex site." However, wrong! However, it does have potential to be PARTLY a sex site, among many, many other things that people come here for. There is nothing here on site being claimed as "JUST", "SOLELY" or "ONLY" just one thing, as you ignorantly continue to claim. 🤡
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3/7/2020 3:56 am |
I don’t know...I’m real... a real whore...
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3/12/2020 12:57 pm |
Brokenguy64, Whilst being a basic member I did get to go on dates and meet some Gals here...too bad the one I fell for wound up playing me...I would rather be fooled by one of those bots right now  "Yes, sadly, that's what this site and society itself has been reduced to. True, it is not impossible to find women here and there (even as a basic member), it is unlikely. Then once men actually do find someone legitimate, the issue generally then boils down to actually trying to figure out if she's decent, genuine and isn't trying to play you for anything other than who you are as a human being. It's that level that is at the point of impossibility to find anymore. So you see all of these different stage levels of nonsense going on around here... 1 .) First you must weed through and deal with tons of fakes, flakes, players/users, prostitutes, gold diggers, bots (even though the site claims not to use bots) or otherwise... 2 .) Then after finally finding a legitimate woman, you must grab her attention and interests. That's rarely ever achieved because of the business aspects around here with the site's limitations and restrictions ($$$$) and then even so, there are ghosts working behind the scenes to limit your chats going through, what's being said or for offering other methods of communications outside of this site are always mysteriously filtered and blocked (again, the $$$ game of corruption). 3 .) Then after a tiresome effort and strike of pure luck to jump through all of those hurdles and still come through with a legitimate woman who is interested in a man and wishes to meet him, the suspicions and skepticism then sets in to try to conclude if that woman sincerely likes you for who you are as a person and wants to be with you for that very reason OR if she's just playing you for whatever you may have that is in her best interests and benefit ($$$, materialistic items, a free night on the town, your baby, etc). 4 .) In the end, very few come out saying that they are basic members, met great woman and have had happy and successful encounters. The recipe for that equation simply doesn't sustain those happy ending results, normally. As they say, 'fight the good fight' and 'keep on keepin' on'. I wish there were better words to magically make all things better like they used to be, but the sheer reality is that society is in shambles and progressively continues to get worse and worse, as does the advanced technology used against you to ensure successes are rare and unlikely. It's a complete mess. I pulled out years ago because of all of this. If you're still seeking meets and whatnot, I do wish you the best of luck. Appreciate your kind and courteous reply to me. 
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