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Ask For the Order
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Ask For the Order This is, after all, a dating site of sorts. I get a lot of messages that invariably wind all the way up to .... "What are you up to [today/this weekend]?" Is that just because you want to know what kind of life I lead and whether I'm unemployed (if you ask about a weekday) or have no life (if you ask about the weekend)? Or are you asking to see if I want to get together? Because if it's the latter, this is a rather ineffective way of going about it. If you ask me a question like that, don't be surprised if you get an answer that involves me having something planned for my day/weekend. That may be because I actually have that plan for the day, or it might be because I don't feel like advertising that I don't have any plans. It varies. Don't take me telling you that I have plans on a specific day to mean that you can't ask me out for any day at all, ever. If I exchange multiple messages with you, that means I would consider it if you asked me to meet (unless I have explicitly said I am not interested and you keep messaging me back with questions or comments - that does not mean you are wearing me down). So go ahead and ask for the order. In a way that's not ambivalent. Here are some (really generic) questions that will definitely make it clear you are asking me to meet: "I'd like to meet you. Are you free any time this weekend?" "If you have any time one day this week, I'd like to buy you a drink." "I have the day off and would like to meet if you are free." It's still Texas here, so I expect a man to do the asking. If you aren't confident enough to do that, you aren't confident enough to please me in bed. Once I observe you delicately dipping your toe in the water with the asking me what I'm up to but not asking me out a couple or three times, I start to think you lack the confidence that I'm looking for. |
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Hi Curiousthatsall9. thanks for the post... I'd say this blog and your profile are precise and to the point. I hope you find what you are looking for. "I'll have what she's having..." this might work... Spice Girls - "Wannabe" Ha ha ha ha ha Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want So tell me what you want, what you really, really want I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want So tell me what you want, what you really, really want I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna really, really, really wanna zigazig ah If you want my future, forget my past If you wanna get with me, better make it fast Now don't go wasting my precious time Get your act together we could be just fine I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want So tell me what you want, what you really, really want I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna really, really, really wanna zigazig ah If you… To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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1 post 8/11/2017 3:42 pm |
i thought i knew a thing or two about women....But that info helps. Unless of course ambiguity is meant from the asker of the question as well.
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Very clear writing and good advice here. I know these posts are a little old but just wanted to say I came across your blog today and appreciate the way you write.
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