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rm_unlistedone 73M
2504 posts
5/3/2009 2:33 am

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Update and such things





Some interesting things have happened in the last while... well, year or so.

I've discovered I'm not the same man I was as little as two years ago. Glasses are now a full time deal. My hair... what there is of it.... is turning, not gray... but silver. (I think I kinda like that part!) Exercise and diet have kept me between 207 and 212. Sounds heavy for a 5'9" frame; but I carry it well and the doctor I visit, seems to like that weight on me. "It's muscle mainly, don't worry about overall weight." he tells me. And a very kind friend looked at me this past week and touched my arm and chest, smiled and told me I really had a lot going on. She could feel muscle and ribs and thought it very sexy. (Made my day!)

A very wonderful lady, who is working very hard going back to college (that I think the world of for doing so) was interested in me as a possible candidate in a mfm! What a compliment. Though I have a feeling the timing of such will probably never happen. At least, with me involved... though I hope she does live out her dream someday.

My birthday was last month... and some local lady left me a "Happy be_lated b_day wish on my cell... with a very sexy picture of her cute butt covered by a thong. (Cute little butterfly tattoo, also!) The problem is... I don't know who she is! I replied to her automated voice mail saying thank you for such a wonderful gift and asking her to return the call so I could find out who it was... but alas, no such return call has been made. So I am only lead to believe it's either a prank or a wrong number! Such is life. It did do a lot to make my birthday a lot better.

My extra time... excuse me... my time away from work has been totally devoted to yard work and getting my home just the way we want it to be. It's nearly complete.

Also, I'm very happy to report that after 18 and a half months of being a total monk ended with my wife. It still isn't perfect; but as with all marriages... it's a work in progress.

I miss my friends here. I miss meeting new friends here. I miss writing. Still pretty much at a dead end with that. Just can't seem to put any words together that feel right to me. But I haven't quit trying.

So, that's it for now. My window view has gotten greener, the flowers are awesome, and the air is fresh and clear. Perhaps this life is still worth working hard at... even though soon, I'll be trading in my profession and will look to start a new one soon. No fear in that, no worries. It's just time for this new part of my life to begin.

Take care each of you. Would love to hear from you from time to time. With a soft hug, me


rm_lyssyloooooo 62F
2131 posts
5/4/2009 1:09 am

Happy belated birthday to you, unlistedone.
Thank you for the update. I've had some challenges with writing as well and I know, like MJLover says, "all good words will flow when the timing is right." The greenery, flowers and fresh air are so worth working hard at life... and enjoying those simple pleasures. Hope to *see* you back soon.



Peace~n~Love~n~Hugs~n~Kisses...Lys


rm_unlistedone 73M
2718 posts
5/9/2009 9:20 pm

MJ....Thanks for the belated. With a grandson around, I would say you are putting all the attention that should be put, all on him. I don't have any grandchildren, nor do I see any in the foreseeable future. But I'm sure I will be one of those who gives them all the sweets they can have... then send them home for that sugar high. Thanks for the kind words about writing. I'm sure it'll come, sooner or later. I can see them in my minds eye; but can't transfer them to print. Isn't that strange? soft hugs to a good, sweet friend, me
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Lys... And thank you for the belated, also.

Yes, the writing will come, I'm sure of it. I had several things I wanted to write just before I got here tonight, and when I did, they had somehow just escaped me. It is terribly frustrating sometimes.

More hard work this week. Put in a new fountain with flower bed around it. Looks pretty good, even if I do say so myself. Well off to whatever. Take care and thanks for stopping in and sending along all the positive vibes. Sweet hug, me


angelofmercy5 66F
17879 posts
5/15/2009 11:54 pm

I'm never here....but a little birdy told me you had an update here. I thought of you all day on your birthday...well....I thought of my Grammy too! lol I hope you know that you have not been forgotten. Truly the exact opposite is true. I'm happy to at least hear a little about you. And glasses and silver hair.....all of that is superficial.....the real you is who you are inside. And that is pure class my friend. Pure class. 143...always


rm_unlistedone 73M
2718 posts
5/16/2009 4:10 pm

Well, bless my soul! Another wonderful dear friend stops in! Angel, thank you so much for this. I wish I knew which little birdy told you, so I could thank them.

The hair isn't totally silver. I wasn't too clear on that, I guess. But what I expected to come in as gray, is indeed silver. The rest is getting lighter with the sun.

I've often wondered how you and our other dear friend have been. It seems I've lost touch with everyone. And I miss ya'll so very much. But friendship and love lives on... even in times of separation. I just hope this finds you well... and happy.

And it's you, Angel... that is pure class. From your huge wonderful heart, right down to your Christmas Village that I long to see someday. 143, right back at you... with the softest, longest hug I can muster... me


rm_unlistedone 73M
2718 posts
5/30/2009 9:26 pm

Kancana.... Thank you, and it's a pleasure to hear from you, too.
I have been too long out of touch here. Big things are happening to me right now, in my life. Not to worry, almost all are positive and I'm looking forward to so many things right now.
Biggest hugs for my sweat friend that's so very far away in distance... yet always close to my heart... me


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