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Personality  

a_gothgrrrl 46F  
41 posts
8/27/2015 7:51 am
Personality


Walk.... with personality
Talk.... with personality
Smile.... with personality
Anyone else remember this song?

So riddle me this blogland. On a site where the ultimate goal is to make a physical connection why is there so much lacking from most? Did someone say that getting laid was easy? Well I suppose it is if you've got the cash but then I think this probably isn't the site for you..gold diggers and sugar daddys is that way---------------------------------->

I'm ALL FOR casual encounters in fact I quite enjoy them. However I do not want to have you in my bed, sweaty, disheveled, after a naughty bout of naked twister and turn to you and say

"Well gee that was great now get the fuck out of my house"

Gasp. How does one respond to that? Well in my past situations they have frantically scrambled to grab their clothing, leave my sanctuary, hopping as they put one leg in and stumbling all the way out the door.

I don't think that's going to work for me

I'm a gothy, nerdy geeky girl and there are a few things I love in people, especially men.

Can you dance?
No? Well that's ok cum out with me anyhow and watch me

Can you sing?
No? Well karaoke doesn't require you to do more than have a pair

The two things that make me stop (and my panties drop...when I wear them) is a sense of humor and a large helping of personality

Oh (hand mouth) you is so funny, tee hee hee, awww you make me pee self

Clever. Humorous. Quick witted. Relaxed. A way with words. These things will get my attention faster than a big dick or a nice set of titti...well maybe not that last one. Hey, a girl's gotta pick her battles. So anyone who took the time to read this (all 3 of you..I love you all so much *cries*) remember take a minute to post your cleverest (is that a word) foot forward and don't try so hard to get yourself back in that vagina (preaching) because when you relax the sea of legs shall part and the angels shall sing in the rejoices of your laid back approach.

Hallelujah!!! Amen!!!!

Trust me I've been on this site a long time....I pay attention

"I could make you all go away, any time I want to"


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
8/28/2015 8:40 pm

People that understand know that the perfect "Friends with Benefits" relationship places much more emphasis on the "Friends" part of the relationship than the "benefits".


rsexstr8wild 47M
110 posts
8/28/2015 11:52 pm

I think there's also an aspect of people not knowing the proper way to ask for what they want. Men who would normally be well mannered polite people, think they might get laid, and forget how to act. Even though it's an online "dating" site, you still need to do the dance. Be yourself (if that's not working irl, then you need more than advice from a blog), and relax. Fuck her brain, and then you can fuck her brains out.


3FreqsOnnaLeash 54G  
327 posts
11/14/2015 9:52 am

You are awesome. Just sayin.

And man, I wish you still lived up here, we could get into all kinds of fun trouble.


ruwithme66 57M
84 posts
8/30/2016 10:48 am

I agree with the comment about fwb. If you connect as friends, (love geeky), the benefits isn't a matter of if, but how fast i can get my hands on you.


m34markus 68M

1/10/2017 5:25 pm

"Trust me I've been on this site a long time....I pay attention"

Read the profile, particularly the 'ideal person'. She is already a sexual pervert, so don't be redundant as she ALREADY got you interested, right? And for fuck's sake, don't have your profile image be another pic of another stupid dick.


cty1wsk3 55M
15 posts
1/25/2017 10:31 pm

Then pay Attention to Me!


smokeymesa 55M
3 posts
11/30/2017 1:44 pm

A simple hook up isn't as simple as you'd think or should be. For a site where people post what they desire most are reluctant to act on them.

"Literature is mostly about having sex and not much about having children; life is the other way around." ~ David Lodge


a_gothgrrrl replies on 11/10/2018 8:43 am:
Agreed. I have found that most people share their desires here however acting upon them...well...let's say fear and insecurities set in and i find myself going to meet someone and no one ever arrives.

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