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How the Fakes Make it Harder  

vabeachhotwife 63M/62F
76 posts
2/7/2016 12:16 pm
How the Fakes Make it Harder

Couple profiles, where it seems like it's just one person. Or singles who say that they want to meet but only keep asking for more pictures and then ghost on us when it does come time to arrange for a meeting. Or the ones who make claims about themselves that they aren't able to live up to when she does meet them. They're out there and we've all had the unfortunate experiences of having to deal with them. And in the end, it just makes things a lot harder for those who are real and sincere.
Because of all the times that we've been burned by the fake single men, we've had to try a more complicated process of deciding to take it to the next steps. Hubby tries to discuss some basic topics in order to see if there's compatibility and if his situation and ours could work together. Then, if that all sounds good a basic email to her introducing himself to her. She responds, and the two of them communicate and eventually decide that they want to meet or not. It's not a perfect situation for the guys who are looking for a quick hook-up, we know. Our apologies to those guys who are real and could have been decent friends. They think that this is just another fake "couple" on the site. We understand, and can't blame you based upon the things that we've seen and heard. But it's what we've had to do in order to weed out the fakes before she gets involved.
So what do you think? Have we made this too complicated?

nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
2/7/2016 12:29 pm

 You gotta do wherever you think is right for you to cover your own butt.

But I have to say this to you. Fakes don't make it harder, some people just make it to easy for them. is even tempting to them. cause some people just throw themselves to anyone, with out checking facts before hand of who or what they are dealing with. personally I would not proceed to anything much less planning on meeting someone with out being 150% on board with the facts and proof.


vabeachhotwife replies on 2/7/2016 12:57 pm:
By harder, it was meant that those negative experiences make it harder for the ones who come later. They may be good, fun, and honest people. But are now dealing with the aftermath of what someone else did wrong to a prospective new friend.
Either way, you are right. You have to be sure before proceeding. After all the entire idea is to enjoy yourself, right?

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
2/7/2016 2:07 pm

 Nope, not complicated at all. If a guy can't understand that he's got to invest a little more than just a cock shot and a text or two, then he's not going to understand how to please a woman. Cut bait and move on.


vabeachhotwife replies on 2/7/2016 2:36 pm:
Most of those emails tend to happen on a Friday or Saturday. They've found themselves facing the weekend without a date and the possibility of a roll between the sheet. They aren't looking to take a little bit of time and effort to see if it leads to that. Maybe they'd already been talking with someone else, but that fell through and now they have to find a last-minute replacement......
But at the same time, as I've pointed out, it goes both ways. We understand how our desire to talk it through some first may remind them of a previous experience where they were the ones getting burned.

vabeachhotwife 63M/62F
394 posts
2/13/2016 2:43 pm

 Well, just posted a new blog about our most recent disappointment.......... Oh well.......


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