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Collared and Happy.......  

HaleyNight 68F
42 posts
4/28/2014 6:22 pm
Collared and Happy.......

Some of you who know me, already know I have found my place with a Master, who accepted me as an unskilled submissive. And some of you think that it is wrong for a woman or man to take this lifestyle and be told what to do and treated as a slave. But there is much more to it than the general idea, which is wrong in their thinking. It is not about being demeaned or being improperly treated. I was lost for quite sometime, true, I have always treated my men as if I was slave to them and pleased them every way possible, even though their understanding was misinformed.I am not one for cruelty or being turned into a slut for the pleasure and musing of one who misunderstands what "Master and Submissive" is truly about. I have been learning much about self and where I have been all of my life, as to the treatment of the men I have shared my bed and time with. I tell you ,I feel more self confidence with a Master than not belonging to a Master. I enjoy the feel of being cared for and loved for just being me. True there are rules that the Master has and is his right to tailor the sub to them. But once learned it is very beneficial in so many ways. It is more of an honor and holds a certain type of prestiege as to being owned and collared by a Master. This life style is not for everyone , but those who really wants to belong. Some think you just grab a woman/man and make demands of them and beat or degrade them as you see fit. But that is the LIE that many believe and not know the truth. I guess, I have been quite lucky, so far as my training and finding a Master. Both men are kind, loving and yes strict, but all in a way that is to help one grow, not tear away.My trainer, whom I thank dearly is Iggy, and tho he is very busy, he took what small amount of time he had, to teach me what I needed to know and understand. And in his methods I learned quite a bit, even if some times when I disobeyed he would punish me lightly, to give me an idea of some of the things that could be put on me, but more severely. Thru his training, my understanding of this lifestyle grew. You see, my spirit is of a wild nature, and I had to be tamed just a little, so that understanding could grow. And through this taming, knowledge flowed in quickly.
Last week, someone noticed my growth and spoke to me about belonging. My heart nearly shattered, finally someone wanted me! I worked hard at refinning myself, in a short time. My thinking of things and the understanding was enough for one such Master to look my direction. We spoke several times and went over what he expected of me. My wild side he loves and cherishes. This in itself made me very happy. So, I have found my place with my Master , he is good to me and I to him. I want to please him , every part of my being is grateful he looked my direction. This maybe hard for some of you to understand, or even accept. I feel freer now than when I was alone. True, I do ask permission for things I want to do. But is not a burden, but a delight, just to be able to have support. If it is a bad idea and I have not thought it through, my Master helps in showing me the flaws. Things I am not able to do sometimes. The Master who has taken his time to accept me is Knightmoves. He is a kind and generous man, just as was my trainer. But my devotion now stands with Knightmoves, for he IS my Master, whom I cherish and am growing to love. From the bottom of my heart, I want to thank both men for helping and supporting me in this giant step forward in my life. Thank you Iggy for your training and time. Thank you Knightmoves, for noticing me and your loving care of my being.

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