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Are you a slut?  

evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
1582 posts
12/1/2012 9:24 am

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12/1/2012 4:49 pm
Are you a slut?
I am really not a fan of this word. I think it’s tacky and juvenile. It’s something I remember saying to friends in junior high.
For some reason the word slut is always referenced with cuckolding and hotwifing. Not sure why?
Speaking from experience I would say the majority of women are not turned on by being labeled as such. When my wife and I first discussed opening our bedroom, her being labeled as ‘easy’ or a ‘slut’ was something she desperately wanted to avoid.
“That word is just degrading to women,” she would say.
I tend to agree.

We have such a double standard when it comes to sex between men and women. Men are never referred to as sluts, while woman are.
The images are ingrained throughout the net, women taking multiple men with the subtitle that reads: “Slut wife is action.” Sure, the fantasy is cool and it adds to the theme, but afterwards, when we’re finished with that photo and we’ve moved on for the moment, that stereotype still remains; and worse yet, it grows.
Wouldn’t more women be open sexually if that title weren’t around or used?
I think so.
My wife and spend time reading blogs on this site and we both applaud women who don’t let ignorance drive their sex life or practices.
Sex is just as important as any other necessity in life, either food or drinking, and we ought to allow that appetite to be satisfied without prejudice or stereotypical judgment, regardless of gender.

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evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
2274 posts
12/1/2012 4:44 pm

 Thank you Hedonista13.

Women who embrace their sexuality and the desire, needs and wants for sex, either with one partner or many, to be very attractive
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rm_Hedonista13 58F
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12/1/2012 11:43 am

 Bravo! Primary refers to himself as a slut because it's the easiest way to get it across to people that he fucks a lot of women, now and in the past. It's a quick way to weed out those who are looking for a "faithful" guy or those who are simply looking to fill an agenda.

Yet, when he uses it in context with himself, people just giggle because it's still okay for a MAN to have multiple partners, but if a woman does...that's just awful and the connotation is not pretty!

I wish several words that define women and sexuality would go by the wayside!!!!


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