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How many no's does it take?
3/9/2020 7:50 am |
Well first off let me state for the record, That it all depends On the person and if there seems to actually be anything forming. Also I like to find out “Why” they are saying No.
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Well I'd never ask untill I was pretty sure I wouldn't get a no but never know
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I said 2 but really it is just 1 the 2nd email is just to thank them for at least responding since so few actually answer you at all
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3/9/2020 7:59 pm |
salio mi voto!
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3/11/2020 5:51 am |
Question is, How many times have you said yes...? If that answer is zero or very few, you are most likely here for attention purposes or looking for something you probably won't find anyway. That being said..... Men come here for quick hookups or looking for a FWB. Yes its true! Women are here for more than that. Many are here just for attention, due to lack of it from their spouse or lonelyness, or they are here for a "Relationship", which really isn't what this place is about even though many try to make it that way. Don't get me wrong I'm sure it happens, but its not really what guys are here for. Now, if you say no or ignore someone before getting to know them, you are most likely in this for attention. The sad part..... That guy who messaged you has probably messaged several other women in hopes of one taking him up on his offer..... It makes you no one special. I'll never understand why some women don't get that...? Telling someone "no" shouldn't mean you can't carry on an intelligent conversation with them.
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Question is, How many times have you said yes...? If that answer is zero or very few, you are most likely here for attention purposes or looking for something you probably won't find anyway. That being said..... Men come here for quick hookups or looking for a FWB. Yes its true! Women are here for more than that. Many are here just for attention, due to lack of it from their spouse or lonelyness, or they are here for a "Relationship", which really isn't what this place is about even though many try to make it that way. Don't get me wrong I'm sure it happens, but its not really what guys are here for. Now, if you say no or ignore someone before getting to know them, you are most likely in this for attention. The sad part..... That guy who messaged you has probably messaged several other women in hopes of one taking him up on his offer..... It makes you no one special. I'll never understand why some women don't get that...? Telling someone "no" shouldn't mean you can't carry on an intelligent conversation with them. It makes us no one special in his eyes, what you fail to realize is he is without a doubt, no one special in our eyes. And guess what? It is our eyes that matter, not his. That is what you have failed to understand.
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3/12/2020 7:29 am |
Depends on more factors
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Depends on the situation. If people keep contact with me over time (which some do) and we get to know each other better online, I may ask again at a later date--months later, or a year later.
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it depends on the situation, usually a no is enough, but a second attempt has often been worthwhile Lust was zu schreiben? [post Privater Briefkasten Privat Mailbox (private Mailbox)
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3/19/2020 9:36 pm |
No means no soooo
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A no is enough... Is something in language i missed? XD
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3/21/2020 4:58 am |
Getting a no is a good place to start. If told no, time to move on, but if ignored no way of knowing. So many times I hear of complaining that IM doesnt work, so if ignored on IM I will make repeated attempts. I have seen where someone has read your IM and doesnt respond, seems rude to me, cant be assured that they didnt loose there connection or something. Just trying to be respectful. Im only interested in those interested in me, to chase others sounds desperate and kinda stalkish .... ; )
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3/24/2020 6:17 am |
1 and done 
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especially in today's MeToo era, once is enough. Should be once is enough even before. Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age)
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3/30/2020 1:04 am |
/\/0,,, ][ didn't vote. /\/0,,, ][ didn't ask . ][f You can get anyone to tell You the Gods Truth,,, that would make You a Lion  Tamer ! 
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3/30/2020 9:05 am |
I voted for "1", but occasionally I'll ask again 2+ months down the road in case she has had a change of heart.
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3/31/2020 3:34 pm |
Either you are in or out, one no and I move on, I want a real player, not a game player.
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4/1/2020 2:08 pm |
it depends on how well you know her.
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I always accept the first no. However a polite no is better received. No need to be rude on the first time of asking
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I think never taking no as an answer can be bad and turn even creepy for a guy. I'm always nice to people in general. Over the years It has been a blessing and a curse. Some women that I have no interest in have taken being polite as being interested.. For me and the ladies I have made the same mistake myself. I'm always kind and a few have grown up to be hot sexy swans.. I just pays to be nice in the long run and try not to be creepy
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One and im done
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