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If You were Mine  

insatiable_man2 65M
83 posts
12/23/2015 3:15 am

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If You were Mine


If I had you 24/7 would I stop searching? If you made all of my fantasies come true would I then be content?
I think not. I believe there is a difference between lust and love. When lust turns into love the sex changes. I'm not saying it's bad. It just isn't the same as lust.
Lust carries with it a mad desire and all you want to do is devour her. It does not mean you don't love her.
The forbidden fruit is always on our minds. Carnal pleasures. Ladies at what point does a man's desire make you feel unloved? When a man thinks that's what he's doing to the one he loves is when he looks for a lover outside. When a man can't quench his thirst with his spouse he seeks a mutual friend. They both know that's all they can have of each other.
I believe that's why swingers swing. They recognize this in each other.

insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
3/31/2016 2:42 pm

    Quoting Honeydripper126:
    I agree with the previous postings ....it is about keeping it fresh and adding something new . Open lines of communicating sharing the darkest the fantasies ...beyond that both have to have a willingness to open to their partner's requests

    We will take the one that seems so many appear dead set against . Anal sex it is a common fantasy , yet some just won't consider it . Remaining opening and trying at least once for someone you love is worth it . And who knows trying something new may find a new fave .
Seems so easy, "try it for the one you love at least once," apparently not.
Thanks Honey


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
1/2/2016 3:34 am

    Quoting  :

With me everything else here is good. We have just stopped growing sexually. She has no desire to expand/explore boundaries where that is where my mind is at. My entire concept of what sex between spouses is has changed over the years. I can't hold that against her nor could I leave for that alone. I am screwed lol. So I look for a lady in the same boat as myself. Someone perhaps like you. Very alive sexually, has a spouse or significant other, is close by, and knows to invest only what is needed in our rendezvous'.


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
12/24/2015 4:47 am

    Quoting natalie20132:
    I totally get what you are saying and feel the same.
    Yet,I feel like an outcast here because I am married.
    I guess,one can't ignore norms the majority live by.
In all the years that I have been on here you are the first lady to acknowledge that sentiment. Thanks for that. To bad we weren't closer to each other, as a married woman, that is in the same situation is what I look for.
PS I don't know what normal is anymore.


natalie20132 61F

12/23/2015 11:30 am

I totally get what you are saying and feel the same.
Yet,I feel like an outcast here because I am married.
I guess,one can't ignore norms the majority live by.


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
12/23/2015 5:30 am

    Quoting  :

You are probably the first lady that I feel understands what burns inside me. Could you have said these things to your spouse. I have albeit indirectly. It's hard to bring things up and verbalize what's going on in my head without making it seem like she doesn't do it for me. That's not the case. Just need want more. And yes as time goes by it wells up more.
Thanks Shortcake


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
12/23/2015 5:21 am

    Quoting tadakimasu:
    It's all about passion. Gotta keep the flame burning.
It's easier said than done. But yes!


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
12/23/2015 5:19 am

    Quoting  :

You are absolutely right. The same applies to both. I feel women have much better control. Or so it appears. Sometimes your partner won't go beyond a certain point to try unexplored options. Thanks for your comment.


tadakimasu 32M

12/23/2015 4:09 am

It's all about passion. Gotta keep the flame burning.


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