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Why do I keep looking? REPOSTED  

insatiable_man2 65M
83 posts
6/22/2013 10:53 am

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Why do I keep looking? REPOSTED


Five years on this site. Yes I'm married. No she has no clue. I met one beautiful lady that helped me with one fantasy. In doing so my mind has wandered far beyond my initial quest.

I crave so many things. Yes it all involves women and their pleasure.

At first I thought this was a sex site, and that all the people on here had the same agenda. SEX FUN ORGASMS just good uninhibited times. It appears I am very mistaken. Correct me if I'm wrong.

It is very hard to find someone to be intimate with and not feel something for them. NSA truly does not exist. Sex gets better with a person you're comfortable with. Doesn't it?

Ultimately people need to be friends of some sort. So how do you stay there, in the friend zone? And still continue to be more than friends?
However with no commitment.

I need just such a friend or friends. Someone that craves things they can't get at home, (that is a whole other story) A lady or straight couple married or otherwise that have hidden desires as do I.

Those people are not on this site. Are they?

Addickted2Anal 64M
20 posts
8/4/2013 2:22 pm

I am looking to build a poly home, with at least 4 females and another male, mostly interest has been to swing, I am really wondering where the live in situations are taking place, anyone know?


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
6/22/2013 11:47 am

I found one really wonderful FWB here in this site several years ago. We are still friends to this day, but sadly, a career change forced me to move to another city and we are no longer able to have that intimacy.

Since that time, this place has been a complete zero and I wonder why I keep logging in. Unsatisfied with any prospects in my new area, I stopped paying for a gold membership and now my chances are even less.

Is it my new city, or has the general population of 04j.com members slid into a mass heavy with spammers, scammers and cliquish people that refuse to allow new members into their circle?

I can't say, but I understand where you are.


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