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venus vs. mars; women vs. men  

journeyofplay 61M
26 posts
2/26/2012 5:14 pm
venus vs. mars; women vs. men

Over the course of time, i have noticed i difference in the approach on this site between women and men. Men are quite impulsive and want some naked play...uh, soon(lol). Women, it seems, have seen so many rotten guys, they take their time and look for deeper chemistry. Am i right?

I cam from time to time...hardly any women there who want to watch, mostly guys. Do women like watching men masturbate? Or are the men only the visual ones? What do you think?

SecretEarNoTears 54F
760 posts
2/27/2012 1:26 am

 Depends on my mood (in regards to the cam)...I'm not like most women on here though were I'm totally appauled by watching men masturbrate on cam...in person, I like to be more involved


inbedagain 68M/65F

2/27/2012 3:18 pm

 You got it right Labmom. It's so rare for us to hook up from 04j.com anymore, SO many men and so many are jerks.
I do like to chat when I am going over email and stuff online, but when a guy comes on and the first thing he says is he wants to come over to my place and fuck.....like now.....I can't be more turned off. First what on earth does this guy have that I am not getting?
And why would I want to watch a guy on a crappy webcam with poor light jack off. If I want to see porn, there are a lot of places online to see a man jack off in a professional video.


journeyofplay 61M
34 posts
3/19/2012 11:05 am

 As inbedagain has stated, I do get the vibe that there are a lot of men who are jerks on here. Why is that, I am not sure. I thought we we're all here for some fun play, maybe I am wrong about others intentions.

The consensus so far is that most women do not like to watch guys masturbate on cam. True? You like the personal touch and interaction. MMMMM....totally agree with that one!

Do you ever watch a cam on someone you might play with? Or have played with? Do you cam yourself? I have found a degree of eroticism with camming when someone is watching and interacting with me. So much so, if they are prompted to touch at a later date...yum, yum.

i have never really masturbated with a woman, in person. And think that would be fun. Would that be different for a woman than watching on a cam?


seekn3sum 49M/51F
1 post
10/4/2013 11:58 am

 men touching themselves is sexy.


journeyofplay 61M
34 posts
10/4/2013 7:38 pm

 There are some out there who do like to watch. Maybe they cant play right now, yet still want to interact in some way. I think the male and female are wired so differently in this manner...that they attract. I do find that there are a lot of women who like to visually excite men. bravo to you , cause guys are so visual. Would you tend to watch, if you have built a 'friend' relationship with that person?

I do enjoy the chat back and forth, and finding out about a lady. And when we finally meet...mmmmm....we know a lot about each other. And our desired commonality...well, that just takes care of itself.


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