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fakesrevealed 49M/52F

2/21/2020 8:47 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much for quoting that guy, had you not done so none of us would have seen it considering she deleted his comment!

I don't agree with his way of saying it, but he was at least honest and to the point. Besides, its probably what most were thinking just too afraid to say it.

No matter what any guy says, you all want to bitch about it!

I say "Hi"... oh how boring try doing something to catch my attention... ok so...

I say " I have a 12" cock as thick as a Coke can and I want to stuff it in your ass"
Female response.... Oh you are here just for sex....uh duh! It is a sex site...smh

So instead of coming out and saying something like that a guy starts off with..."Hey hows it going, having any luck"
Female response.... Fuck you it isn't any of your business...! LOL

Considering half the females on here are just here "to chat" or "blog" or "look around", most should be happy guys will even bother messaging.

Its a no win situation for males on here. No matter how hard they try or how many hoops they jump through its not enough.

Ladies, put yourself in these guys positions. Look at it from a different perspective. Be thankful that someone took a few seconds out of their day to send you a message! Not that you owe them anything, I'm not saying that, but if no guys messaged you or commented on your blogs to give you attention, you'd go somewhere else to get it. And then probably bitch about it...!

Guys, get a set of balls and a backbone. Don't be rude, but don't sit here telling the person "oh how right you are"... It isn't getting you brownie points. There was maybe one or two guys who actually posted an honest answer. But most were just responses to make the lady who posted this happy.... It also make you look more desperate than the guys who actually send messages to women sounding desperate. Basically stop being sack swingers.

Every males response should have been more along the lines of.... "He was being nice and trying to break the ice with you and wasn't being rude, you should appreciate that not ridicule it"


Livin_my_Life14 53F

2/21/2020 8:58 am

yes, the nail in my eye tells me so!

I get the question all the time. I just don’t reply back.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
2/21/2020 11:18 am

    Quoting  :

I agree... it's just striking up an initial conversation... I usually say.. define fun.. and then lie


gentlemale49 74M

2/21/2020 12:11 pm

I was until I read this message.


pagancountrygirl 66F  
6466 posts
2/21/2020 3:14 pm

Because of my tag line on my profile "I can't even begin to describe the fun I'm having here...." I get asked about "fun" all the time. They try to tell me my profile says I'm having fun. Ummmm....no. That's not what it says. Then I tell them to define "fun". Often I have to tell them it's not something they need to know anything about. That never makes them happy. lol

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


superbjversion2 69F  
24388 posts
2/21/2020 3:15 pm

"And it's a favourite come-on. Not sure why."

They are hoping you will describe your fun (where fun means sex) for their titillation.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
2/21/2020 4:44 pm

I haven't really gotten that one but I've gotten its cousin "Looking for fun?" quite a few times. I'll say "Sure! Let's go play miniature golf at Blackbeards!" Or something like that. Good sex is only a subset of fun so you could go with any of the many suggestions upthread and let them fret.


Trev7778 36M
26 posts
2/23/2020 11:08 am

Yes indeed! You-have it! And you are in the drivers seat


naughtystud4you 53M
16 posts
3/6/2020 9:46 am

Agreed....it appears the basics of initiating a conversation have become a lost basic skill with social media. Where are days of old when we wrote letters to one another and it was exciting to get a hand written letter in the mail? Here there can at least be a little bit of a lead in before everything goes crazy naughty!


RMforkixx 59M

3/7/2020 7:12 pm

    Quoting wet_n_restless:
    none of their business if you've had a "play date" or not. It's not like they're your husband or something.
I keep forgetting ...most of you have them....grrrrrr


RMforkixx 59M

3/12/2020 7:28 pm

yes husbands


scottj55555 55M
1987 posts
3/15/2020 1:38 am

How about "Well, I was, until you just interrupted me."


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
3/18/2020 3:02 pm

    Quoting  :

Excuse me, but are you serious with this response ?
S M H

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


hornybbc69 64M
181 posts
5/13/2020 8:51 am

its always a fun day ....tomorrow better than today.......lol


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