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Shoud I tell him?
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Shoud I tell him? As well as being on here, I'm also on a vanilla site. Yesterday I got a contact request on the vanilla site. I recognized the guys photo from also being on here. I don't know if I should tell him straight off, or wait??? What would you do?  |
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I'd wait.
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id tell him.
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can't see that it matters if he is on 2 sites...so are you.
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I'd wait. Maybe I'll wait and see how the conversations go.  
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That has happened to me more than once. The guys live in my general vicinity so that is how we are matched, city and distance on both sites. I usually ask them (once they initiate contact) by saying "haven't I seen your picture on another site?" That way you will know whether he is being honest by how he answers. He will know you both are on the sites.
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id tell him. It's tempting to tell him, but I might wait to see where the conversations go.
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can't see that it matters if he is on 2 sites...so are you. One of the reasons I have silly photos on here. I've walked passed people I recognize and they have no idea. 
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Thank you for popping into my blog. Wow, so far it's pretty neck and neck. 
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That has happened to me more than once. The guys live in my general vicinity so that is how we are matched, city and distance on both sites. I usually ask them (once they initiate contact) by saying "haven't I seen your picture on another site?" That way you will know whether he is being honest by how he answers. He will know you both are on the sites. I like your idea. If I decide to tell him, I'll use your approach.
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I'm not a big ice cream eater, but when I do, I like to try a little bit more than vanilla.  Roy is a crumpled heap in the wardrobe as son is visiting. 
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Most of the replies say to wait for a bit, pardon the pun.
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Thank you for popping into my blog. He would have no idea, as I have different profile names, I've not got a face photo that can be recognized and the photo on the other site is hidden until I want to show it.
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Wait, be calm
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I would wait and see if the guy tells you first!  
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Wait, be calm Looks like the wait is the way to go.
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I just ran into that situation sort of. lol I have been seeing a fwb for over a year (we met else where) She lives over 30 miles away so we don't get together often enough. I never mentioned this site but she knows I see others. I recognized her profile pic of her boobs. She had sent me the exact same pic a year ago thru off site e-mail. I had several fun chats with her in IM without revealing myself. After a post orgasmic encounter while she was laying there I said " see how (profile name) likes it" She burst out laughing and said she thought that it was me in IM. 
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Send him a picture of your tits of course. Then no need to explain anything. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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I just ran into that situation sort of. lol I have been seeing a fwb for over a year (we met else where) She lives over 30 miles away so we don't get together often enough. I never mentioned this site but she knows I see others. I recognized her profile pic of her boobs. She had sent me the exact same pic a year ago thru off site e-mail. I had several fun chats with her in IM without revealing myself. After a post orgasmic encounter while she was laying there I said " see how (profile name) likes it" She burst out laughing and said she thought that it was me in IM. Loved your story. 
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Thank you for popping into my blog. Good advice. He has next to nothing on his profile on here, but quite a bit on the other site, so a bit hard to compare the two profiles. At the moment he's not active on here.
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Send him a picture of your tits of course. Then no need to explain anything.
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I think I''d wait and see how things go. I know it isn't right but there is still this double standard thing around the place and some men think less of women for being on this site. ~~Anais Nin~~
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I think I''d wait and see how things go. I know it isn't right but there is still this double standard thing around the place and some men think less of women for being on this site.
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So you too think I should show him my *Y* Might confuse him for a few seconds which site he was on.
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Spoke to him today in great length, and no I didn't let on. Think that might be a good idea to wait till we meet.
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I would definitely tell him. What could be a better indicator that you are of a similar mind set? Whether anything develops or not, that is a great way to completely break the ice and get to know each other properly. Unless one of you has not been terribly truthful on one or other of the two sites.........! In which case, why not find out sooner rather than later?
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