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Content Filter Update  

hotsexnow1960 64M
2 posts
3/23/2013 3:42 am

What a fucking stupid idea people are on here looking for cock and cunt so why would anyone want to block these pics .. if they do then maybe they are on the wrong site. why do 04j.com keep messing with the site even the new messaging centre is fucking crap


grachell4uwaitin 33F

3/23/2013 3:57 am

oh im very new to this lol i don't know how to do this ..


rm_yasmum 69M
3 posts
3/23/2013 4:05 am

Science says when you feel stupid that's growth, you aint feeling it. People are telling you in writing, so you aint seeing either.wtf


airportdes 78M
3 posts
3/23/2013 4:09 am

Preference screen doesn't allow me to make changes. Either fix it or remove this screen


massageman52055 68M
27 posts
3/23/2013 4:14 am

Hate the changes!!! Put it back the way it was!


rm_yasmum 69M
3 posts
3/23/2013 4:24 am

I check my messages everyday, now I get messages that are 4 days old. One of us is stupid. When in doubt get a professional. Listen, GO TO THE LIGHT.


SexyLadyNeedsU 50F
212 posts
3/23/2013 4:34 am

If you agree with ANY posting, please VOTE so maybe.. 04j.com might READ and consider our Voices!
Funds should be used for the following:
1. Hire a REAL Programmer who will:
2. FIX IMC to work
3. Stop the cams from FREEZING
4. Set up Email Filters to Work to our preferences
5. Have our "preference" to view on Main Page folks in our area (based on our zip codes or city election) as well #6
6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces
7. Testominals should be from REAL PEOPLE not Fake or Paying sites
8. Correct email so we can read any previous emails
9. Also, 04j.com should consider hiring a person to have Socials/Meet & Greets at major cities. Local clubs do have free entrance if they know over 100 folks will show up and members on list will not be charged at door! They will even set up a room or area for group only.
10. Once a month gather all the Ladies, and then agree to set up a follow up Social or M/G with couples and single men in a SAFE enviornment.
Both 9 & 10 would be coordinated by a real 04j.com staff who would have access to real members who can be invited to functions.

Overall.. Fix it, or you may end up with less folks in this site. I would just leave and go to a swinger site and forget all the fakes in
here.

Respectfully,
SLNU

Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


TNcumsucker 67M
8 posts
3/23/2013 4:38 am

This is a little OT, but does anyone know why 04j.com no longer lists the people who have viewed your videos? I always thought it was a cool feature to see which members viewed them. And I still can't get my email.


outstandingcum 52M
18 posts
3/23/2013 4:39 am

Fucking STUPID!!!!


pancito8888 33M

3/23/2013 4:42 am

    Quoting SexyLadyNeedsU:
    If you agree with ANY posting, please VOTE so maybe.. 04j.com might READ and consider our Voices!
    Funds should be used for the following:
    1. Hire a REAL Programmer who will:
    2. FIX IMC to work
    3. Stop the cams from FREEZING
    4. Set up Email Filters to Work to our preferences
    5. Have our "preference" to view on Main Page folks in our area (based on our zip codes or city election) as well #6
    6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces
    7. Testominals should be from REAL PEOPLE not Fake or Paying sites
    8. Correct email so we can read any previous emails
    9. Also, 04j.com should consider hiring a person to have Socials/Meet & Greets at major cities. Local clubs do have free entrance if they know over 100 folks will show up and members on list will not be charged at door! They will even set up a room or area for group only.
    10. Once a month gather all the Ladies, and then agree to set up a follow up Social or M/G with couples and single men in a SAFE enviornment.
    Both 9 & 10 would be coordinated by a real 04j.com staff who would have access to real members who can be invited to functions.

    Overall.. Fix it, or you may end up with less folks in this site. I would just leave and go to a swinger site and forget all the fakes in
    here.

    Respectfully,
    SLNU
me gustaria conocerte me encantan las mujeres mayores


lafill413 44F

3/23/2013 4:44 am

very new to witness what happen. loneliness kills


Verydiscret2013 55M

3/23/2013 5:04 am

thanks 04j.com!


TheShocker4u 56M  
18 posts
3/23/2013 5:07 am

I don't like the changes. My IM crashes and shuts down more and the preferences won't stay as set.


loking4u69 53M
2 posts
3/23/2013 5:22 am

will you fix my chat pleezzzz it will not hock up 2 IM


98789sign49855 33M

3/23/2013 5:31 am

I am having trouble in payment...
i always pay them but a fuck**g error shows everytime


rm_luv_sexy_abs 52F

3/23/2013 5:31 am

The site is going down hill,change it back. IM sucks. Half the letters I type don't show up,I get messages from myself(WTF is that about)and to top it off I need to log in 2-3 times because it shows me ppl from California instead of NJ. They better have 1 hell of a long cock..lol


rm_Jayff56 68M
1 post
3/23/2013 5:44 am

Time to stop paying for this site and find one that meets your wants and needs (if there is one), as with most of these sites you take the good with the bad.

AND for "6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces"

ONLY ALLOW MEN with ... ??? How about MEN AND WOMAN with ..

If you are offended by or don't want to see a Photo of a mans cock or womans pussy then WHY ARE YOU HERE ?

so the photo filers do make some sense. YES FIX the other stuff BEFORE you loose ALL the PAYING subscribers ..


justfuckme36 53T

3/23/2013 5:57 am

I am sik of thisconnection error on my IM can you fix it 4 me ?
ps and right me back so i no that you r reeding this post


RideMyFace1213 58M

3/23/2013 5:58 am

This site use to be great, now it sucks. You take our money to be a part of this site, then you make it so difficult to enjoy it. Can't wait for my membership to run out so I can be done with it, well never join it again.


ford3501000 59M
4 posts
3/23/2013 5:59 am

it was better before the live video


BanditRidesAgain 57M
24 posts
3/23/2013 6:12 am

* I too have the yellow bar at the top of page, I set my preferance BUT Every log on it's still there. Annoying!

* When I view pages of profiles and then select a profile to view, then hit return I get sent back to the start (page 1) doesn't matter if I'm on page 2 - 6 - 24,... back to the start I go ... FARKING ANNOYING!!!!
And I've reported it 4 times but am told it's my computer and browser.

Yet AdultMatchMaker, RootBuddies, Oasis, PlentyOfFish, RSVP, Match, Flirt, Zoosk ..... ALL WORK FINE!


Bandit.

http://04j.com.com/p/member.cgi?mid=78561287_55337


homealone4u28 75M
1 post
3/23/2013 6:13 am

can you speak English please ??


BanditRidesAgain 57M
24 posts
3/23/2013 6:17 am

Oh! And for God's sake get rid of half the memberships old unused profiles, and sort out the other quarter that are fakes... THEN and ONLY THEN, we might have a community of like minded people.

http://04j.com.com/p/member.cgi?mid=78561287_55337


sexaddict2962 61M/39F
1 post
3/23/2013 6:34 am

this is stupid plz go back to the old 04j.com


MrLongStroker2U 39M

3/23/2013 6:38 am

Actually if any of you on here think you're going to get something "FIXED", lol, forget it!!!! I know this is supposed about the "content filter", but this will be about my mailbox. For over a month now they've decided to mess with me, for whatever insane reason. They've "banned" my profile, they got it so now I can't even send or reply to any emails sent to me. I've argued, and ARGUED with them through emails to them through their "customer service", nothing, nothing, NOTHING, I get back the LAMEST replies from them acting as they haven't a CLUE in the world what they're talking about. If any of you need help, like I said, YOU'RE IN TROUBLE, BECAUSE THEY WON'T DO JACK SHIT TO HELP YOU,........GOOD LUCK!!!!!


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