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Content Filter Update  

sultryvampn2kink 62F

3/23/2013 4:57 pm

C'mon 04j.com, REALLY!!! THIS SITE IS A SEX SITE LADIES AND GENTLEMAN!
It seems this new feature is really about 04j.com trying to accommodate the women that join the site as Standard and wanting them to upgrade as a marketing ploy. As paying members, we are the ones that are loyal to the site and the reason many of us I'm certain are not on any other vanilla dating sites. 04j.com, you need to have your marketing department really focus on keeping members that actually use your site and continue to pay as opposed to all the flaky standard people and fake accounts. And Ladies, if you don't want to see cock shots then just move on or go join Match.com! At least I know up front and personal what I am getting into
My membership runs out the end of April and probably am not going to renew. It used to be 04j.com was for meeting fun local people to connect with. Now it's turned into a series of walls and formats we have to keep adjusting to every couple of months. Maybe all of us paying members should collectively form our own site where we can still be proud and comfortable to let everything all hang out as we please!


Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
3/23/2013 5:00 pm

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erican751 76M

3/23/2013 5:02 pm

your server is too slow or under sized your programming is awkward and slow and doesnt always work properly,your sequence for new features is terrible and implemented with no warning or instructions on how to use them, in short your whole service is very user unfriendly and if the whole issue is not addressed properly i will not be resubscribing when mine is up.


joeypricevip40 52M

3/23/2013 5:03 pm

im new on here


vickytequilaso2 45F
1 post
3/23/2013 5:20 pm

MMMMM VERY GOOD WE HAVE MORE OPTIONS!!!!! GREAT!!!!


Kaff64 59M
1 post
3/23/2013 5:20 pm

Make this damn thing go away!


HKRocker 49M
1 post
3/23/2013 5:28 pm

Been a member of this site for many years now and it honestly keeps getting worse and worse. Every time there is a suggested upgrade its just another excuse for the company to find more ways to extort money from members and restrict those who have been loyal and paying. I am done with it, wont be renewing again. The owners greed has become more discusting than any cock or pussy shot in the face (such a lame excuse to upgrade).


rm_daegwood 54M
1 post
3/23/2013 5:57 pm

You are wrong and will lose many customers! Greed will destroy your company!!!!


rm_lirpa1967 57F
2 posts
3/23/2013 6:05 pm

everything else seems to be working, but I cant respond to IMs WTF!!!!! Is anyone else having this problem?


usmcguy_minc 70M  
54 posts
3/23/2013 6:12 pm

What i would like to know is why can't i even see my friends own albums. What is the use of having friends if you can't even see their albums when you want to. Please explain that one to me.


sandmansa2 73M
14 posts
3/23/2013 6:32 pm

Aig pain in the ass. Another downgrade. Go back
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pirategypsy 60M/60F  
1 post
3/23/2013 6:35 pm

A Bunch of Bull Shit. This is a Sex site. We want to see every thing. If it don't go back to the way it was we will NOT be back. We will STOP coming to this shit. STOP fucking with the site!!!!!


rm_alfio1957 67M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:07 pm

finde dass man hauch die fotos sehen darf


sanguinario1975 48M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:11 pm

ESTOY DE ACUERDO CON ESTO


Shellygirl1992 50M/51F

3/23/2013 7:32 pm

this is not for us omg..what in the world this is a sex site not playboy....we have been member's for almost 15 years and this is the craziest thing we ever seen..

MR.N MRS Shellygirl


Eagles2050 78M  
3 posts
3/23/2013 7:34 pm

Been a member since 2003. You folks need to remember this is an adult sex site. Leave the basics alone and quit making changes. Most people on here are not computer nerds. Just regular folks that know little about changes and you have made so many. I am considering going to a different site that is not confusing. 04j.com was that way until this past year. If it ain't broke don't be trying to fix it.... Go back to the basics. What are you trying to prove? You need to remember for you folks it needs to be bottom line. Running customers off certainly doesn't do that....


JeffCov 56M

3/23/2013 7:35 pm

What a waste of time, another way to make the site suck more then it does.


hankylovespanky 59M/57F
2 posts
3/23/2013 7:51 pm

We have updated our prefference on showing pussy & dick pics..We are not shy..


hankylovespanky 59M/57F
2 posts
3/23/2013 7:55 pm

OMG WE WISH PEOPLE ON 04j.com ACTUALLY MEET AND 04j.com COULD MAKE PROFILES MANDATORY TO POST VIDEOS TO MATCH PROFILE PICS,WE ARE SO TIRED OF THE FAKES..


sohornie4you 58M

3/23/2013 8:00 pm

You guys should change your name from "Sexfinder" to "KnittingGroupFinder" as you are taking the "SEX" out of finder-better still, just call it "finder". Wot a load of BOLLOCKS! Sad thing is You guys wouldn't give two shits about what we are all saying here-its all about the money for you!!!


cherrybombme692 62M/53F

3/23/2013 8:01 pm

That's not cool we like watching up close.


tommy2be 40M
5 posts
3/23/2013 8:02 pm

This is a pain. What's the point of having a membership if every two seconds I can't see pics or vids of this ... Very dumb update


enjoyit4618 54M

3/23/2013 8:11 pm

I think this is a fantastic idea. Hook up site, where you can't see what they look like. Fantastic, it should drive subscription rates through the roof.


viktorafael 37M
1 post
3/23/2013 8:30 pm

es todo


diamondgem2005 64M  
4 posts
3/23/2013 8:37 pm

My account expires in 2 days and I'm out of here folks. Been here since 2005 and I've met alot of interesting people here but the past year has been a waste of time and money. This one has more fakes than real and I find them an insult to my intelligence. Can anybody recommend a better site to go to?


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