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hideeho 61M

3/23/2013 6:47 am

Just another asinine decision by you folks!


elsa_sub 53F

3/23/2013 6:58 am

SUCKS!!!!


dce3458 35M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:17 am

This 'feature' is not what this site needs. Everything about this site has gone downhill. IM's don't work half the time and the overall quality of the site is worse. My membership expires at the end of this month and I will not be renewing.


Wildandfunny2013 59M

3/23/2013 7:19 am

04j.com how about having each and every member VERIFY thier pictures, videos, and themselve before being alowed creating a account.

When searching for people do not include profiles that are members have not been on 04j.com 30 days or more.
Who want to waste time viewing members profile who had not visted thier own profile for months or maybe years. Delete them permantly and stop adding them when searchuing for members.

All profiles should have more than one pictures and a litlle bit more info in thier profile.


Wildandfunny2013 59M

3/23/2013 7:22 am

Is there a way to remove people you hotlisted?


DeeDeeH69 69T
5 posts
3/23/2013 7:22 am

My setting was changed, why I don't know. The drop down menu that you show, I don't even get that. How can I change it back to where it was if the menu doesn't even work properly.


rm_sensoree 53F
2 posts
3/23/2013 7:23 am

I think it is a great change! In the biginning it is much more impoortant to me to see someone's eyes than their genitalia. I much prefer to save that for in person.
There is nothing at all wrong with a full body nude shot or even a close up shot of your bits if that is your thing.....just so much less can be learned from that type of picture. Just bc your dick pic is beautiful does not mean your spirit is!
Those preferring the close ups of genitals--push the fucking button stating your preference. It is NOT that hard to do. If that makes you angry I would have to see what happens in bed if you have a partner who does not get turned on as quickly as you want. Patience guys, come on! We are the coolest people we know let us not sweat the small stuff!


garilil 40F

3/23/2013 7:23 am

Yes we want the old passion i cant even flirt ..this really sucks.. and profile are more often deleted so easily you crew of programmers and not good at all..


fouaaaaaz55555 43M

3/23/2013 7:24 am

salut


sohornie4you 58M

3/23/2013 7:28 am

I don't pay good money so the few can tell me one of the many on this "sex" site what they should and shouldn't be doing-You have shot yourself in the foot this time sexfiender by starting shit with trying to block the eyes of deadshit prudes who shouldnt be on this site anyway!-If this offends anyone go join a knitting class or take up the fucken piano accordion!


kkbruce1000 70M  
1 post
3/23/2013 7:29 am

what a joke,,,,,,,,,,,


BBCofATLantaGA 38M

3/23/2013 7:33 am

I Agree with all that are saying it's becoming more and MORE complicated. I think we will need an algorithm to work it pretty soon. UNFORTUNATELY I don't think they have much competition out there right now as far as Adult Sites go. Maybe this will spawn a newer better 1...Or they will get their act together!!


metryswm 61M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:36 am

I didn't realize ChristianMingle bought this site. This is a sex site, if someone doesn't want to see genitals, get off this site. Go join Eharmony or one of those other pussy sites


passchristianguy 58M
1 post
3/23/2013 7:38 am

i think if its not broke dont fix it let it ride like it was


hedo069 64M/62F

3/23/2013 7:44 am

what is this all about all the pics xxxx out no good please change thx hedo069


bentjoie 62M/55F  
3 posts
3/23/2013 8:05 am

I'm done you guys have fucked up this site. I will not renew


SexyLadyNeedsU 50F
212 posts
3/23/2013 8:14 am

    Quoting pancito8888:
    me gustaria conocerte me encantan las mujeres mayores
No sabes el Ingles?

Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
3/23/2013 8:22 am

    Quoting  :

This really is an excellent post. This site is slowly but surely turning into another version of facebook.
WHY!!!!
More and more people are leaving facebook, or refuse to use it, because of the continuous stupid updates they keep adding. Just look at what has happened to Facebook stocks and shares, they have gone down quicker than a lead balloon over the past year.!!!!
This is not facebook so take the filters away and give us back the old message centre!

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

Please visit my blog here Centaur_UK


Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
3/23/2013 8:29 am

And again the guy who made this comment lower down the page, profile name fouaaaaaz55555, is another example of the rediculous FAKE ASS PROFILES ON HERE!!!!!
The profile pic is a photo of Zinedine Zidane, a famous french footballer who lifted the world cup for France.
Why the fuck was that photo even approved by the photo review team in the first place????????

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

Please visit my blog here Centaur_UK


sweet_rachel 61T
1 post
3/23/2013 8:34 am

this whole site is a joke anymore you have to pay to be a member and even when you do you arent allowed to give anyone any pertinant info about you or you get banned Im sorry but if the site is set up to help make meets happen then why stop people from giving info to otehrs they feel comfy enough in doing so to begin with.....I get the impression this site is more concerned with getting money and keeping people from actually meeting. I stopped paying last yr because of this crap and I dont see anything of value here as people dont actually meet


SexyLadyNeedsU 50F
212 posts
3/23/2013 8:42 am

    Quoting SexyLadyNeedsU:
    If you agree with ANY posting, please VOTE so maybe.. 04j.com might READ and consider our Voices!
    Funds should be used for the following:
    1. Hire a REAL Programmer who will:
    2. FIX IMC to work
    3. Stop the cams from FREEZING
    4. Set up Email Filters to Work to our preferences
    5. Have our "preference" to view on Main Page folks in our area (based on our zip codes or city election) as well #6
    6. Only allow MEN with Face or Body fully displayed or at least hide or fade out their face if they elect not show their faces
    7. Testominals should be from REAL PEOPLE not Fake or Paying sites
    8. Correct email so we can read any previous emails
    9. Also, 04j.com should consider hiring a person to have Socials/Meet & Greets at major cities. Local clubs do have free entrance if they know over 100 folks will show up and members on list will not be charged at door! They will even set up a room or area for group only.
    10. Once a month gather all the Ladies, and then agree to set up a follow up Social or M/G with couples and single men in a SAFE enviornment.
    Both 9 & 10 would be coordinated by a real 04j.com staff who would have access to real members who can be invited to functions.

    Overall.. Fix it, or you may end up with less folks in this site. I would just leave and go to a swinger site and forget all the fakes in
    here.

    Respectfully,
    SLNU
I posted this at 6:34am... hope you can find it and vote.

VOTES do count.. and we need to be heard ...so 04j.com...
listen to us or we shall venture to new islands such as a local Swinger sites who actually set up social funtions for folks to meet at for ice breakers!

V O T E ! !

Thanks

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Miss SunShine

There is always a brightside in everything. .


blk_cock4u 49M
1 post
3/23/2013 8:49 am

What a bunch of crap, get rid of the X's and nudity blocks. We are over 18 and if we don't want to see it, we won't sign in.


N1cewon 63T  
13 posts
3/23/2013 8:50 am

Not sure what you did to the site - but can't get my messages anymore on an older computer - but it isn't that old. Also on the older computer - my friends are all from the Calfornia area - I live in Wisconsin. Everything seems to work OK on newer lap top - wish I could get everything to work again on my older computer.

Martha


12dogdog 65M
3 posts
3/23/2013 9:00 am

I suck


rm_helmut7200 43M
1 post
3/23/2013 9:00 am

is mihr egal


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