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Meditation on Toys
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Meditation on Toys I was a little surprised to walk into the middle of a conversation that four of my female coworkers were having, about sex toys. At one point, one of the women challenged the others to surpass, in quantity, the content of her "treasure chest." It was all I could do to bite my lip and not go into detail about my own "tickle trunk." But what struck me, strangest of all, was while this group of women were comfortable enough with their "tools of survival," to speak openly about them with one another, while me, the lone male kept his mouth shut and feigned a periodic blush. I wouldn't go so far as to say there's a double standard when it comes to discussions about sex and sex toys (these are conversations that have really only become increasingly acceptable in the last few years), except to find men who are willing and able to talk openly about toys is challenging, to say the least. Fundamentally, there is something that offends male sensibilities about the use of a sex toy. Perhaps it's the fear that their penis will someday be (or is currently being) supplanted by a vibrating, oscillating unit that looks alien in comparison to your standard male member; in fuchsia, and made in Japan. But toys aren't the enemy. In fact, toys can be great friends--both to female folk as well as to men. For men that get beyond their "impenetrable male" complex, a world of pleasure awaits by exploring the prostate. Being in a relatively sexless relationship for six years, I had ample opportunity for self-exploration. I'm not advocating abstinence from sex, but I encourage anyone who has not taken the opportunity to discover how to pleasure themselves to lock themselves in a room for an extended period of time, and go to work--metaphorically speaking--just make sure you bring lube. Woody Allen once said, "masturbation is sex with someone you love." Assuming this is true, and assuming "you can't love another till you love yourself," wouldn't it logically follow that you can't pleasure someone else, until you learn to pleasure yourself? As for my toy box? It's chock-a-block. Dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, passive prostate toys, cock rings, lubes, lotions and potions (ok...there aren't actually any potions). And my sex life? It's all the better for it.  |
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I as well enjoy the use of toys with my play partners and it is very gratifying to watch them receive pleasure from their (or my own) manipulations of the device. Bravo to this blog Milder
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W/we have a fairly large "tickle trunk" and i have to admit that most of them hold no special place for me personaly. when i'm alone i find my fingers are my favorite toy but when playing with the Mr or with others i do enjoy using them. By using them i mean using them on someone else, lol. W/we do have a few that will work on both of U/us at the same time,,and those ones are a lot of fun. I think it's great to see a straight guy who can admit to the fact that he gets pleasure from his prostate,,most can't,,or won't. finding freedom through submission]
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Milder I always enjoy your meditations. This is certainly no exception,...I/we've used toys in spurts,...surprising each other with them from time to time,...in point of fact we just went shopping together last week and came home with a lovely new addition to the family an adorable vibrating cock ring,...which we promptly christened  and a cute little flogger,...which I promptly broke  then there's the strap on and,...well you know the usual sports equipment  there are a few things we still need,...like a swing,...a better flogger,....ah so many toys so much more shopping to do,....so I guess I'd better set up the toy shopping safari  Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE! I love to travel Come visit my blog tigger678902
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