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Kinky sex is more fun, but what is kinky?  

allamerican180 56M  
6 posts
6/28/2011 9:28 pm
Kinky sex is more fun, but what is kinky?

Isn't it more fun to have a long extended playtime with lots of teasing and foreplay? Toys, nylons, high heels and whatever turns you on makes for a decidedly GOOD time. So why is it that girls just want romance......??

coastalfreaks 48M/41F
31 posts
6/28/2011 11:08 pm

 You're either looking for the wrong girls or don't realize what they really want. As a girl (though i don't quite fit this description), I can tell ya, it's not exactly "romance" they want. It's attention and lots of it.

The truth is, they just want you to make them feel like they are the prettiest, most special, unique thing on this planet and that they are worth your undivided attention. Why? Because it feels good to be wanted. Doesn't have to be lame store bought gifts. And it usually is the thought that counts.

They do want all those other things in bed - but AFTER you've made them feel like they are the only thing that exists. If you make them feel like you are doing it to please them instead of it being something that you get off on, she'll love it more.

I'm sure some chicks will agree and disagree with me. And tbh, I don't fit in this head game ordeal. (I speak blountly and say what I want and don't. If I want flowers I say it. I don't expect anyone to read my mind then be sad that I didn't get what I want.) But I have lots of girlfriends and girl playmates are this way. So if you want to make it hot and sexy, go the extra mile, make it all about her so she will let go of all her insecurities and make her feel good about herself. Then she will rock your world in a whole different way.

Good Luck!


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