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Why Do People On Here Have To Be So Cruel?  

rm_Sexplorer53 70F
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7/30/2007 8:45 pm

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Why Do People On Here Have To Be So Cruel?

Several things connected with 04j.com happened to me this weekend that really started me thinking about things. Why do people have to be so cruel to others on here? Unless we've attended numerous parties and become good friends with some of the people on this website no one knows much about the other people's lives. Oh yes they may pick up little tidbits about us as we chat but do they really know US. No one knows what we have gone thru in our lives, what struggles we are facing on a day to day basis. We all have or have had troubles. So why do some think they need to come onto this website, enter the chatrooms and degrade or demoralize people? Hopefully we all know what we want and are looking for.....I do. So why should I be ridiculed, degraded or torn apart because I have opposing views or am looking for something different? I'm just a person struggling to make my way in this very difficult world. And when I say struggle....every day for me is a struggle. No one knows what I am dealing with and for someone to come on to this site and make nasty little remarks to degrade me does not help my struggle. I wish people would remember that. You may have needs you want fulfilled but so do I. I need to be treated with respect and kindness. I try to treat people in the same manner I would wish to be treated. Sometimes I might slide a little and to those I may have offended because I've come off too harsh I apologize. All I ask is that we all remember we only know what we are coping with....we don't know what someone else may be dealing with today or tomorrow......so just treat each other with kindness and don't be so fast to be cruel. I almost threw in the towel because of a few game players and others who like to make cruel and snide remarks. Keep in mind your snide, cruel, demeaning and demoralizing remarks or crude behavior could bring someone's world shattering down around them. Ask yourself how you would want to be treated.....I'm sure not the same way.

log55 67M  
443 posts
8/6/2007 10:28 pm

 It is called cyber bullying. I have ran across inumerable blogs, chat rooms and clubs on here that are dedicated to nothing but degrading and slandering others on this site. Some even post provocative pics and alluring ads to lure people into there rooms to be made fun of and degraded. They are not interested in meeting anyone...just degrading them with their computers. I suppose this makes them feel superior but really seems to highlight their inability to interact with others. With the length and time stamps of their posts, I don't see how they do anything else I suppose their is not much you can do but avoid the negative people...they will drain you just by association. Have a wonderful day all Ray


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