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Blogs > rm_best4u3 > CAT GOT YOUR TONGUE.

A MERCY FUCK or MERCY SEX  

rm_best4u3 79M
146 posts
4/17/2009 1:48 pm

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A MERCY FUCK or MERCY SEX

Hadn't heard the term mercy fuck in years but heard it the other night.

A couple of days back at a bar a young attractive but crude guy in his 20's was trying to pitch a very good looking older woman, mid-40s probably, and not really having all that much luck and finally said in desperation, "Just make it a mercy fuck and come home with me." The woman told him to get lost and the bartender backed her up shooing the guy away. If he hadn't been crude and vulgar, he might have scored but his youth was also against him.

But got me to wondering if you have ever given someone a mercy fuck, blow job, hand job or just getting him off in whatever fashion? Basically taking him out of pity, feeling sorry for him, saying what the hell its just sex and he needs relief and its a good deed or for whatever reason. Old, young, not particularly attractive or maybe attractive, whatever. A guy or maybe even a woman. Even if you were not in the mood or maybe you were horny but didn't care about the other person.

So I'm curious & what was your reason[s] if you gave someone a mercy fuck or mercy sex. And would a few drinks make the decision to say yes easier?

This could apply if you're married or single.

lillady620 61F

4/26/2009 10:31 am
I once had mercy sex with an ex also!We had parted ways months earlier.He would call me up at all hours of the day and night.He would come by my house drunk and crying how he can't live without me,so feeling sorry for him took him to bed.he must have assumed that because i had slept with him that we were together again.He had followed me on a date atime after that,flew into a jealous rage and assaulted me.The police laid charges,he fled the province to avoid prosecution and then took his own life in a motel room!It took me months to sort through the feels of guilt1

I just wanted to share this so that people would think very carefully about the feelings of the person they think they are being merciful to


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/26/2009 12:08 pm:
Goodness.. I'm sure no woman has ever killed herslf over losing me even though in my younger days I was one damn good fuck. Had many women comment as such.. Have taken a few former girlfriends back just for the sex, some understood it as just that but loved the sex we had had together and needed it back for awhile.. Some others thought it would be a way of starting again.. Didn't happen..
But sorry for you, but don't think you should have had guilt feelings even though that would be a understandable reaction.. Most likely there were good reasons for the break-up with your ex that could not be overcome, no matter that you took pity on him with a mercy fuck..

rm_Billysburg59 64F
15 posts
4/26/2009 9:22 am

 Been there, done that, wtf? Even bad sex is better than none at all.


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/26/2009 11:59 am:
Remember a gal from my college days who said to a guy who pleaded for a mercy fuck. "Thats why God gave you 2 hands. Use them asshole"
The guy got the point.
If he or she is really a turn-off, better to go home alone and masturbate if no other decent choices are around..

vittoria73 50F

4/25/2009 11:20 am

 At home in France we call it a friendly kiss.
Often on the cheek and brotherly way.
It already happened myself to give to men much younger or smaller than me. There really are things I can not accept.


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/26/2009 8:09 am:
So the French simply call it something else, eh! Well, the recipient would still be grateful.

velvettouchbigrl 66F  
133 posts
4/24/2009 7:23 pm

 I know what you mean. I've started going for the younger guys because of that erection problem.


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/25/2009 4:11 am:
Even though the younger guys generally don't have a problem with erections, you still have to put up with their immaturity and being assholes in a lot of cases.. The remedy for and an older guy is to carry that little blue pill. 100mg is best. Actually, I'd be flattered if a woman showed me a viagra.. It would say to me she wants me and I could care less if it had anything to do with liking me. lol

velvettouchbigrl 66F  
133 posts
4/24/2009 7:21 pm

 I came close to giving a guy a mercy fuck but my brain got the best of me. And I really think in the end he was happy that I didn't give in to feeling sorry for him. He was so sad and felt so bad about his marriage and I thought even though I wasn't attracted to him, maybe he could use a distraction. After all was said and done he admitted that he didn't want me to fuck him just because I felt sorry for him. We're good friends even though we've never slept together. I say no to mercy fucks!


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/25/2009 4:05 am:
Whatever, but no doubt he went home and had to jerk off.. Poor guy, lol.

HORNYSLUT24_7 59M/59F  
68 posts
4/20/2009 2:11 pm

 No I've never done a mercy fuck with a stranger. But yes with an ex. That's probably why he's an ex. lol


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/20/2009 2:25 pm:
FUNNY.. Gave him a taste of what he'd been missing, eh..

majorbliss 37F

4/17/2009 11:04 pm

 yeah, in uni, i was at this party and there was a guy trying to hit on all the cheerleader types and i was pretty horny so i said 'prove to me your worth it' and he really wasnt.


rm_best4u3 replies on 4/18/2009 8:37 am:
Being a braggert is usually a tip off that the guy is full of shit and not worth the effort.. But if you do find one who is drooling, or just so horny about you, he might be worth the effort.
Don't know the answer other than its a bit of kindness on your part. So what the hell.

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