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what are your feelings about the new IM system?  

phonex12342 66M

7/18/2020 8:10 pm

it sucks. period. Took away the free IM's for free members. Then took away the ability to look at the members locations and what they were looking for. Not worth the cost. The site is really going down hill. I was on here before for 3 years and it has only gotten worse. I'm only a free member now and I don't know if it's worth the money to go gold.


Calfitcouple 57M/57F
23 posts
7/18/2020 8:12 pm

doesn't work for me


tj4fun31 56M  
4 posts
7/18/2020 8:27 pm

If I sort by distance it makes ZERO sense to list those farthest away first. I mean thats so dumb it makes my head hurt!!


sg_hot_guy 54M
11 posts
7/19/2020 12:25 am

    Quoting Firebird81964:
    I am a former gold member under another user name, since I rejoined as a standard member I can't do shit. The cost for becoming a gold member is ridiculous. The last time I renewed my old gold membership I got it for $7 a month for 12 months. I hate to sound so cheap but $20 a month for a site that doesn't work half the time and half of who's members seem to work for the site with no other reason than to make you use your points, buy more points or get you to buy other shit isn't worth it. This used to be a really good site but I agree with some other comments that I have read, I think the demise of this site is soon at hand.
Yes ! You are correct.. They blocked my other nick the moment i did not renew my gold membership ! Also most of the profile are fake !


Imdirtnasty 53M  
3 posts
7/19/2020 3:08 am

I FUCKING HATE IT


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
7/19/2020 3:56 am

They never seem to proof test any “improvements” so nothing ever workS right when they roll it out, so that it’s broken is par for the course. Doesn’t bother me since I never use it, it’s a pointless waste of time, more scammers than real members there.

A poll isn’t going to help get it fixed, everone ought to find/complain to them in their site problems blog, no point talking to customer service, that never gets results either.


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
7/19/2020 5:56 am

Haven't used the new version, then again I never really used the old one as it never worked for me.


bitchkitty2017 71F

7/19/2020 6:04 am

I dont come on here to bitch and moan about something i cannot do anything about like some people ..it is not that bad i wanna talk to someone i bring it up and talk to them ..get over it and get on with it


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
7/19/2020 6:16 am

Seems to be slower then the old version....


cuminmyhairypuss 61M/59F  
8 posts
7/19/2020 7:54 am

sucks big time


older4young2020 56M
31 posts
7/19/2020 9:04 am

What tickles me, is that I use to see so many people bitch and moan about the old IM system and all of it's problems. Now that 04j.com has attempted to make changes, everyone seems to want to go back to the old system for which they despised soooooo much.

It's just too funny.


1gem6 56M

7/19/2020 10:15 am

It is a painful experience, too many glitches


justaman4sex2 58M  
3 posts
7/19/2020 11:17 am

It is the worst! Constantly refuses to let me respond and everyone that has hit me up thinks I am blowing them off. I have been on this site a while but I think it's time to find a new one. If something wasn't broken then why intentionally fuck it up? SMPH!


blackdude4white 64M

7/19/2020 2:11 pm

This is one of the shittest sites on the internet. I am fighting with them now because a friend invited me to watch his cam. Since I let my gold lapse, I had to pay 25 points which I did. But the damn cam never opened. Just the little dots going round. They have responded about this blaming everything but my kitchen sink for the problem. They basically have stolen 25points from me. See my blog. I come to this site to see cams. If it goes belly up something a find myself wishing for, no great loss. I have been a gold member for nearly 15 years and it has been nothing but a waste of money. Read my blog for more information on how they have tried over the years to rip me off. I truly hope their office building burns down with the site owners still inside!


slo2600 47M
286 posts
7/19/2020 2:13 pm

I've been on this site like twenty years. It's getting worse and worse and worse all the time.


blackdude4white 64M

7/19/2020 2:18 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I dont come on here to bitch and moan about something i cannot do anything about like some people ..it is not that bad i wanna talk to someone i bring it up and talk to them ..get over it and get on with it
No one comes here to bitch and moan. If you think that then you are dumber than 45, and that's pretty dumb. What we try to do is hope that by speaking out about it maybe/but doubtfully, they will read the complaints and fix it. Good for you that it works all the time perfectly, but for us it does not. The site has gotten very shitty over the 15-20 years that I have been a member.


phxmn4u2 62M
28 posts
7/19/2020 5:41 pm

it really sucks you can't answer a im it sends you or them offline


freetobeme9569 54F
180 posts
7/19/2020 8:53 pm

A blank page for me yet i can receive messages..


smilybob2214 40M
78 posts
7/20/2020 3:50 am

15 point to chat is to many


apole4ahole 59M
82 posts
7/20/2020 10:21 am

As far as I can tell, they took something broken and made it even worse


cici1334 52T

7/20/2020 11:03 pm

MIne is a blank screen so don't even know what it is???


51007 68M  
574 posts
7/21/2020 11:01 am

Hello, the new MI is very very bad.
I dont' see my list, how can I join my preferences, ... ! It worked best before. !!!


Looking4FWB6258 62M
12 posts
7/21/2020 4:18 pm

Sucks


trlywickedcpl 71M/72F  
10 posts
7/22/2020 6:29 am

Just one more reason not to give then my money


wannarock2006 59M

7/22/2020 4:29 pm

The site has now slowed to a glitchy barely functioning waste of time. I have been a paying member since 2006, I won't be renewing.


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