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Blogs > educatedaccent > First Date - Public Place

Ask Auntie Elizabeth's Post  

educatedaccent 74F
373 posts
7/22/2007 8:08 pm

Last Read:
8/19/2007 9:49 am
Ask Auntie Elizabeth's Post

PeoriaPassion says that 04j.com needs an Emily Post. How about a post from me. I shall call it Auntie Elizabeth's Post.

Or should it be Ask Auntie Elizabeth?

Here are my answers to the questions PP posted.

You want emily post for Alt. I just changed my name to Auntie Angel.

Here are my answers:

1 Face photo needed. Ask nicely. I'd love to see your face. Flatter - I bet you are gorgeous. Tease: Okay, send me your photo. Let me get over the worst now.

2 Disappointing face photos. I'm a coward. I know how hurt and puzzled I am if I'm rejected. The coward's way out is to say that you've just met somebody or you are only doing local relationships.

3)Radar blips on bad news.
If you think he's married, obviously you merely ask. Gay - oh I always ask straight away. He's mad about instant sex - just tell him you are looking for a husband and he will race off like you aimed a gun.

4) What's wrong with the kissing?
He's eaten garlic? Suggest both clean teeth.
He opens his mouth and there's no tongue - just a hole - no enthusiasm? Well, he didn't really like you. Stay friends.
He leaves a wet trail of lick getting cold all around your mouth?

Yuk. If you've lost interest, no problem. If you still want him, but no more kissing tonight, try doggie position or anal.

If it's the sex, tell him: 'I want it less rough/ more rough/ need more lubricant/ to last longer/ I've had enough/ Getting tired - Need more stimulation - and excitement - how about toys / Forget the toys - I just want romantic music - to be close to you - never mind me - what do you want? Whatever makes you happy.' Whatever.

The one I find most difficult to say is: "Sorry, impersonal sex just makes me miserable. All this jumping about like a at a steeplechase or a at Crufts show leaves me cold. I can think about is a real lover kissing my face and murmuring, 'I love you'."
'Elizabeth'[
peoriabigirl 47F

7/23/2007 4:13 pm

 auntie em??? are you for rent?? i got your name from PeoriaPassion blogs. YOu should make your blog a form of Q and A...Seriously. thats amazing! I love it.

what about when you met someone and you guys are getting along well but you want to see him more. You have sorta hinted at it...but hes not bitting? Should you come clean and say I either want to see more of you or I need to see others as well? Do you do it in person or do you do it via email? You met on here? YOu make it clear you arnet looking for a serious relationship but Im looking for a casual one.....


educatedaccent 74F
298 posts
7/23/2007 8:21 pm
    Quoting peoriabigirl:
    auntie em??? are you for rent?? i got your name from PeoriaPassion blogs. YOu should make your blog a form of Q and A...Seriously. thats amazing! I love it.

    what about when you met someone and you guys are getting along well but you want to see him more. You have sorta hinted at it...but hes not bitting? Should you come clean and say I either want to see more of you or I need to see others as well? Do you do it in person or do you do it via email? You met on here? YOu make it clear you arnet looking for a serious relationship but Im looking for a casual one.....
Thanks - you're a darling.
Some people have blogs where they just ask questions and polls. They get dozens of replies.
I like your question about how to ask a guy to come around more often. I just say, 'Let's compare diaries and pencil something in because I've got some appointments coming up. Do you have an orgy for next weekend or would you like me to arrange one?'
You can't go for people into casual relationships and then expect them to be around 24/7. I do both. I prefer face to face. Then you can see their reaction.
I would ask him, 'When am I going to see you again ...?' as I run my hands down his chest.
Let's ask the boys to reply to this one.
'Elizabeth'[


educatedaccent 74F
298 posts
7/24/2007 1:51 am
    Quoting  :
Goody goody.

I am indebted to you for the encouragement.

I wrote a book on etiquette, mainly weddings and funerals.

But I've never had a column.

I think I'll do an amusing post on bedroom etiquette.

I also looked up Peoria on the internet, wondering if it was a girl's name. Discovered a city in Illinois which claims to be well known. For the benefit of those of us outside the USA (I did live in the USA at one time) please tell us about Peoria. Apart from your good self, what are the attractions for tourists?
'Elizabeth'[


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